"The tree wants to be quiet but the wind will not stop, and the child wants to keep it close" is an old saying, which comes from the second volume of Confucius' family language, thinking about eight, which means that the tree wants to be quiet but the wind will not stop; Children want to support their parents, but their parents have left. It is a metaphor that the passage of time does not end with one's own wishes, so as to warn children to be filial in time, to take good care of their parents when they are alive, and not to regret after their parents die. It is also used to indicate that one party wants to stop doing something, while the other party won't let it stop, generally referring to injustice.