“In experiencing various tests in life, I continue to thrive. In the face of violent storms, I still straighten my back, waiting for the wind and sunshine that God will give me after the wind and rain. The bright sunshine... I grew up in uncertainty. Whenever I was hit, I would always think of the poem written by the poet Zheng Banqiao: 'Stand strong after thousands of blows, regardless of the wind from east to west, north and south.' We We should learn to be independent and strong in uncertainty. No matter how the ruthless test hits and tortures us, we cannot 'suffer' (give in). We should fight unyieldingly against the enemy who tests us - the difficulties. If you go on, you must do everything possible to defeat it, so that you will have the joy of success." This passage is a fragment of the fifth grade final exercise "I have grown up". During the revision of the paper, this essay received many comments from teachers. It was unanimously praised.

When I opened the test paper, I found at a glance that this essay that scored 28 points was actually written by a very inconspicuous and unknown "ugly duckling" in our class - Xia Zhi. There wasn’t much of a surprise. I just thought that Xia was better at applying what she learned. I just thought that “if it’s gold, it will shine.” I’m just glad that I didn’t ignore Xia because of her obscurity. I remember I said this in my final comment last year. It was written "Xia, you recommended yourself in the little announcer selection competition and emerged, and the teacher discovered your talent in reading aloud; in writing, you use words accurately and can often write articles with true feelings; in 'Ni Cai' At the Feiyang Fashion Show, the teacher discovered your ingenuity with the various costumes you made by yourself. In fact, you are a very good child. There is a famous saying in American society: If you don’t even believe in yourself, who will Do you still trust you? The teacher wants to give this sentence to you, hoping to inspire you. Have confidence in yourself, show yourself boldly, and constantly train yourself. The teacher believes that you will be even more eye-catching in the future! "I just feel an incomparable sense of satisfaction. The effort I put into writing those personalized comments was not in vain. The hard work will eventually be rewarded. ,

On the day when the school is closed, I brought a large group of people with me. The child distributed "Green Booklets" from house to house. Walking on the grass-covered path to Xia's house, the dark, damp, empty house in Xia's house came to mind. I have been to her house for five years. I didn't meet her family once, and this time I still didn't meet Xia's family. I divided into several houses and walked on the road. At this time, a woman with a heavy weight and a haggard face walked towards me. The student looked sharply. I found out and whispered to me that she was Xia's mother. I went up to meet her and said softly: "You must be Xia's mother." She nodded, and I happily told her that Xia is 194 I won the first place in my year with a high score. I thought she would be equally happy, but unexpectedly, she covered her mouth and started crying. I panicked for a moment and didn’t know how to comfort her. She said intermittently I learned some things and couldn’t hear clearly, but from what she said, I roughly understood what happened to Xia. Because Xia is a girl, no one at home likes her, but she is very sensible and never worries her parents. I didn’t dare to ask my parents for money to buy clothes...

When I heard this, my heart was deeply shocked. I suddenly understood that Xia’s essay was originally inspired by my thoughts. I can even more appreciate that every sentence and word in her essays are heartfelt words bursting out from deep in my heart, "In the uncertainty, I grew up, became taciturn, and buried all the unhappy things in myself." In my heart, I don’t show it on my face. Even if something makes me wronged, I just bury it in my heart. No matter how heartbreaking it is, I won’t say it out loud, for fear of causing trouble to my parents. , making them worried." From her words, I deeply realized how much pain she had endured in her heart that an innocent and lovely child should not have to endure, and I spontaneously felt a kind of respect for this child's unusual perseverance. In the face of difficulties, children are stronger than us adults. In addition to respect and care, there is also a deep guilt and self-blame in my heart. If I could enter this child's heart earlier, I would give her something earlier. Give her confidence, encourage her, and give her the strength and courage to overcome difficulties. Maybe this shining gold will not be buried for so long. At this moment, I have mixed feelings in my heart, and there is an indescribable feeling, which is the admiration for this child. It's her guilt, it's... I can't explain it at the moment, but there is a thought in my heart that is very clear, that is, I need to care more about my children in the future and get into their hearts more. The "little sparrow" chattering around me suddenly made me feel... It was quiet, what were they thinking about? I can't guess, but I know that they should also be thinking about how to cherish this hard-won happy life in the future, and how to repay their parents who love them in the future. How to set goals for yourself?

Xia taught me a vivid lesson with her resilience and perseverance, letting me understand that "education begins with cultivating the heart" and let me understand how to To bear the setbacks of life made me understand what is true strength. Xia is a piece of jade waiting to be carved. Xia is a mirror for the teacher. Because of this mirror, suddenly, I have grown up. .I really want to say to her loudly: "Xia, you are great! The teacher is proud to have such a student!" Finally, I also want to use the comments I wrote to her this time to communicate with her and everyone. *Mian: "Xia, you are a girl with a very rich inner world. When the teacher sees your rich and emotional compositions and understands your unique insights, how much the teacher appreciates your talent. Why don't you dare to express them? If life is a tree, then ideals are the roots, diligence is the leaves, perseverance is the work, and success is the fruit. If you have a good learning foundation and can write good articles, as long as you strive for the goal Under the guidance of others, pursue success diligently and persistently, and your tree of life will blossom and bear fruit.”