1 Children should be raised with love, not only with responsibility. Children raised with a sense of responsibility know gratitude and responsibility, but they don't know how to love others with heart and how to make life happier.

so far, there is no data to prove that the length of time parents spend with their children has any absolute influence on their children when they become adults. I intend to accompany him, so I put all my heart and soul on him and spend a time when both of them feel happy. Otherwise, even if they stick together all day, many children still feel unsatisfied. Get along with children, quality is more important than quantity.

3 people's sense of beauty cannot be cultivated after a certain age, so children should be nurtured in a beautiful environment from an early age. The aesthetic feeling will deteriorate, and it should be maintained and improved after growing up.

4 what's the use of aesthetic feeling? Can help you choose a pair of suitable curtains and feel comfortable 365 days a year; It can make your clothes taste good, whether it is a famous brand or not, it just sets off your temperament; Can choose a suitable tie for him and firmly tie his heart; Be able to sketch a small picture at will, so that people around you will look at you with new eyes; Can find happiness every day in ordinary life.

6 for many children, learning is instilled by adults as a boring and annoying thing that has to be done. Parents should first let their children feel the joy of learning knowledge. Even if you spend half an hour studying with your children every day, learning to cook a new dish is also learning. Let children see your learning attitude, and children will be more likely to devote themselves to learning, and it is not easy to have questions about why I am the only one who has to learn. Prove to him personally that learning is interesting and useful.

7 The more you feel your child's shortcomings, the higher your expectations will be. Lowering expectations is the first step in educating children.

8 The more difficult it is to raise children, the more you need to prove yourself.

9 The more times a child is criticized, the less self-confidence. Destroying his confidence is tantamount to ruining his future.

1 Don't underestimate children's abilities, but don't overestimate them. Sometimes they know everything at all, but sometimes they don't understand how to teach. As a teacher, I have met countless children who are far less clever than yours. Every child has a flowering time, so be patient.