Kindness is used to counteract fierceness, fierceness is used to counteract lenientness, and government is based on harmony.
The will is as strong as iron and the strength is as large as the sea.
Only by respecting others can others be respected.
Those who cannot tolerate others do not deserve to be tolerated by others. ——(Russia) Turgenev
A great man has two hearts: one heart bleeds and one heart forgiving. ——(Lebanon) Gibran
Those who love others will always be loved by others; those who respect others will always be respected by others. ——"Mencius Li Lou Xia"
The famous writer Fang Long once quoted the definition of tolerance from the Encyclopedia Britannica in his famous book "Tolerance": Tolerance means allowing others to act or judge freely; patience And tolerate without prejudice opinions that are inconsistent with one's own views or accepted views. The definition of tolerance in my country's modern Chinese dictionary is: being generous and magnanimous, without caring or pursuing.
1. Tolerating others is actually tolerating ourselves. Being more tolerant of others actually gives us a little more space in our lives. A life with friends will provide love and support, and there will be no loneliness and loneliness; a life with friends will have less wind and rain, and more warmth and sunshine. In fact, tolerance is always a sunny day.
2. Tolerance is to forget. Everyone has pain and scars. Every time you open them, you will create new wounds. Old scars and new wounds are difficult to heal. Forget yesterday's right and wrong, forget other people's previous accusations and abuses against you, time is a good analgesic. Learn to forget, only then can life have sunshine and joy.
3. Tolerance means not caring about things and letting them go. Everyone has mistakes. If you stick to your past mistakes, you will form ideological baggage, distrust, grudges, and inability to let go, which limits your own thinking and the development of the other party. Even betrayal is not intolerable. Those who can withstand betrayal are the strongest people, and will take the initiative in the atmosphere with their strong will. Their majesty can give people confidence and motivation, and thus they can better prevent or reduce betrayal.
4. Tolerance is chic. "Green poplars everywhere are good for horses, and every family has a road to Chang'an." Treating others generously and tolerating criticism is the way to a successful career and a happy family. Worrying about everything, worrying about gains and losses, life is tiring. It is rare to live in this world, and the most important thing is to be free and unrestrained.
5. Tolerance is a kind of strength, not weakness. Tolerance requires retreat and active defense. The concession reflected in tolerance is purposeful and planned, and the initiative is in one's own hands. Helplessness and necessity cannot be considered tolerance. The highest state of tolerance is compassion for all living beings.
6. Tolerance means not forcing yourself when others disagree with you. From a psychological perspective, every idea has its origin. Every motivation has certain inducements. By understanding the origin of the other person's ideas and finding the basis for their opinions, you will be able to put yourself in their shoes, and the proposed plan will be more in line with the other person's psychology and be accepted. Eliminating obstacles and confrontation is the only way to improve efficiency. Everyone has their own views and experiences on life. We must respect their knowledge and experience, actively absorb the essence of others, and make good efforts to discard them.
7. Tolerance is patience. Criticism from peers, misunderstandings from friends, excessive arguments and "counterattacks" are not worthwhile. Only calmness, patience and understanding are the most important. I believe in this famous saying: "Tolerance is the grain that grows among thorns." If you can take a step back, the world will naturally become wider.
8. Tolerance also requires skills. Giving a chance does not mean condoning, nor does it exempt the other party from responsibility. Everyone needs to be responsible for their own actions; everyone must bear various consequences. Otherwise, the other party will make the forbidden mistake again and again, showing weakness.
9. Aphorisms about tolerance:
The violet leaves its fragrance on the ankle that crushed it. This is forgiveness and anger. ——Mark Twain
The way of a gentleman is to be loyal and forgiving. Do not do to others what you do not want others to do to you. I do not want others to do to me, and I do not want to do to others. ( The Analects of Confucius)
Mountain Tai does not allow soil, so it can become big; rivers and seas do not accept small streams, so they can become deep. (Li Si)
“Tolerance is like the gentle rain from the sky. Touch the earth. It blesses those who tolerate and those who are tolerated. ——A line from Shakespeare's famous play "The Merchant of Venice"
●Tolerance is the only test of civilization (Helpers)
●The art of wisdom is the art of knowing what to tolerate ( William James)
●The magnanimous spirit is the greatest of all things (Owen)
●There are many occasions in life when the goal you intend to achieve with resentment, It is entirely possible to achieve goals through forgiveness, it is entirely possible to achieve through forgiveness----(Sidney Smith)
●Forgive sincerely and then forget about it (UK)
< p>●Forgiveness is human, but forgetfulness is divine (James Grant)●Tolerant people are the most impatient, and tolerant people are the least tolerant (Bernay)
●The noblest revenge is tolerance (Hugo)
●Those who have lived without tolerating others are not worthy of being tolerated by others.
But who can say that tolerance is not needed? (Turgenev)
●God of justice, tolerance is the most perfect thing we can do (Wordsworth)
●Only brave people know how to tolerate; cowards He will never be tolerant, this is not his nature (Stern)
●Tolerance is either good for people or harmful to people (Burke)
●It hurts other people's teeth Eyes, but opposed to retaliation, people who advocate tolerance should never get close to him----(Lu Xun)
● Desire to be gentle and smooth, do not want to observe and understand clearly (Book of Jin) < /p>
●A hundred flowers bloom, a hundred schools of thought contend
●Strictness is love, laxity is harm, indifference will turn bad
●Pampering is harm, strictness is love
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●Training you is to love you, pampering you is to harm you
●Love is deep, responsibility is strict (France)
●A lax family attracts thieves, people If you are not strict, you will be in danger
●If you are not strict in teaching, you will be a teacher
●If you want to be a square, the rules must be strict
●A gentleman loves others with virtue, and a villain loves others To be tolerant
●Be lenient to those you blame, and be strict to yourself
●Be strict with yourself and be lenient to others
●Forgive others with affection and reason Discipline
●Be hard on yourself and be kind to others
●Treat others with the spring breeze and treat yourself with the cold wind
●Be generous with others and humble with self-responsibility; Be generous and blame others lightly
●Rebuke yourself with the same heart to blame others, forgive others with the heart of forgiveness
●Forgive others as much as possible, but never forgive yourself (Sila Si)
●You must let go when you have to let go, and be merciful when you have to
●If you are not as good as you, you should not be able to get sick (Xue Xuan, Ming Dynasty)
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●People should tolerate each other: everyone has weaknesses, and in his weakest aspect, everyone can be cut and mashed (Keats)
●In order to be able to be with all For men and women to live in harmony, we must allow each person to maintain his or her individuality (Schopenhauer)
●To be generous is to complement the fierce, and to be generous is to be generous, and to be generous is to complement the fierce
●The combination of generosity and fierceness can achieve success
●Be broad yet firm, strict yet gentle
●The way to govern a country is to be strong and broad (Zhu Xi of the Song Dynasty)