2. Drink carbonated drinks when you come up; Eat fish and seafood on an empty stomach; Eat cream cake; Tea boiled eggs; Scrambled eggs with monosodium glutamate; Carrots and white radishes are mixed together; Eat radish and fruit together; Eat seafood and fruit together; Eat milk and oranges together; Eat wine and carrots together; Liquor and soda are drunk together; Drink tea while eating meat.
There are only three people in the world who can treat you unconditionally all your life-father, mother and yourself. So, in any case, we must respect our parents. Even if they push you into a corner, you should not argue with them or hurt them. Your parents will always be the omnipotent wall behind you, blocking all kinds of dangers for you.
4. A person who is truly worthy of love and knows how to love in return will naturally make love simple. In this way, two people don't have to guess their thoughts or worry about their whereabouts at ordinary times; Don't be afraid of being provoked unintentionally, and don't doubt the motivation to do anything. Between two people, there is a little concern, but it will not be entangled; Between two people, I miss you a little, but I won't be sad.
5. Since people have their own lives, they are immersed in the ocean of grace. If a person truly realizes this philosophy, he will be grateful for the blessing of nature and everything, because it is not wealth and prosperity that really promotes his success and makes him brave, strong and generous, but adversity that often gets him into trouble.
6. Indifference is a kind of calmness in life, facing the gains and losses of life calmly; Indifference is a sudden change in life, which suddenly treats the advance and retreat of life; Indifference is a treasure of life, cherish you and never set your goals too high in front of you. Indifference can make you really enjoy life, experience happiness in your efforts and enrich yourself in indifference. Happy are indifferent people.
7. You have to understand that when you are surrounded by rice, you are very comfortable; When the rice jar bottomed out one day, I found that I had no way to jump out. There is a trap called comfort. No crisis is the biggest crisis. Life is easy to get along with, but too difficult to get along with. Don't choose comfort at the age when you can bear hardships most, and don't choose mediocrity when you should struggle most!
8. The most important sign that a person does not grow up is to compete needlessly with his own people and his beloved family, winning or losing. Those who seem to love face are usually full of confidence and timidity! Those who pretend to be strong and never know how to admit their mistakes and make concessions are often full of jealousy and narrowness, and it is difficult for the sun to shine into their hearts.
9. Opportunity is a beautiful, naughty and willful girl who only loves active and tireless pursuers. Those who bravely challenge their fate will eventually win her favor. The only difference between a successful shooter and a poor shooter is that a successful shooter has been shooting, while a poor shooter has long given up. If you never give up, you will not fail.
10, Buddha said: All sufferings are caused by ignorance. People are biased and stubborn because of ignorance, and suffering is born from it. What is ignorance? I don't know the past and the future, nor the relationship between the past and the future; I don't know the inside and outside, I don't know the inside and outside relationship; Don't know the behavior and consequences, don't know the relationship between behavior and consequences; I don't know Buddhism, I don't know monks, and I don't know how to end suffering.
1 1. Bow your head in front of the urinal: do things reliably and do your duty; Look straight ahead: be ambitious and aim high; Look up: unrestrained, fooling around; Close your eyes: small wealth is safe, and it is difficult to achieve great things; Humming a little song: there are more than enough things to be done; Look in all directions: You are hypocritical. You are either a traitor or a thief ... I don't believe you look at the man around you. ...
12, unlike a bus, just wait and it will come to you automatically, and you need to wave to it to stop; If you meet an empty bus, you are lucky, but often there are already people on the bus, and you can only get on the bus after the passengers get off; When you meet a traffic light at a crossroads, you will be extremely anxious and irritable; You have to pay as much as you walk.
13. The harder the road is, the more beautiful the scenery is. Anyway, thank you for your experience. People, don't worry about being laughed at, life is cruel, let you know what happiness is with sadness, teach you how to appreciate silence with noise, and remind you that there is still a smooth road ahead with detours. Without respect, love will disappear. Without care, love will be boring. Without honesty, love will not be happy. Without trust, love will not be strong.
14, a person's biggest shortcoming is not selfish, affectionate, savage, willful, but paranoid love for someone who doesn't love himself. A promise that is not fulfilled at the most important time is betrayal. Memory is like water poured in the palm of your hand. Whether you open it or hold it tightly, it will still flow through your fingers drop by drop. What is happiness? Is to hide your sadness and smile at everyone.
15, don't look back, go forward and walk through the ups and downs of life. Tianya road, people heartbroken, faint scenery misty rain sorrow. Where is the end of a wandering life? Since I don't know the ending, why guess! All the way through life, everything goes with fate. The long journey of life, watching the clouds roll, flowers bloom and fall, suddenly looking back with a shallow smile, guarding an indifferent heart and holding a indifferent beauty.
16, in many cases, it is not the surrounding environment, nor the words and deeds of others, but ourselves. Be grateful to the person who gave you life and made you experience all kinds of things in this world; Appreciate those who help you and let you feel the true feelings of the world; Be grateful to those who need you and make you feel your own value; Even, thank those who have hurt you and let you understand the meaning of growth.
17, the wider the heart, the greater the blessing. Some people have a high degree of acceptance, and how things change, he can always spend it happily; Some people are narrow-minded, even if the opportunity to get rich comes, there will be no peace in the war. People who only consider their own interests still feel very tired even if they succeed; Broad-minded, rich everywhere, gain the most rather than lose.
18, go out and take a good road. There will always be a dilemma when making a choice, but it is the right choice at the fork in the road that determines a person's fate. Speak well. Wise men are self-interested, good words can make a person, and bad words can destroy a person. Do good deeds. The smallest good deed is better than the greatest good thought. People are kind, although the blessing has not arrived, the disaster is far away; Man-made disaster, although the disaster has not arrived, the blessing is far away.
19, a smile costs nothing, but it is always valuable. Good people are not lonely, good people are the happiest, always help others, and always be the happiest themselves. Ideals are like the morning stars, we never reach them, but like sailors, we can navigate by their positions. Nourish your stomach with rough tea and light rice, wash your lungs with fresh air, let the bright sunshine bask in your back, meet your friends freely, and forget the fatigue of crossing the world.
20, speechless, heart-to-heart, is the highest realm of conversation; Without phase, everything is silent, which is the highest state of doing things. Rough people fight with others, stupid people fight with others, smart people fight with others, smart people fight with others. It is better to impress people with emotion than to serve them with a knife; Do things with success and strength. An ideal life is only beneficial to sports; If you can move, life is valuable; Quiet, life is interesting.
2 1. In your life, there will at least one time that you forget yourself for someone, asking for no result, no company, no ownership or even love, just meeting you in my most beautiful years. Facing is not necessarily the most sad. Loneliness is not necessarily unhappy. It may not last long to get it. Lose, not necessarily no longer have. Don't love wrongly because of loneliness, and don't be lonely all your life because of wrong love.
22. Where the heart goes, the flowers bloom. The secret of happiness is to cherish what you have at the moment and forget what you don't have. If the heart is open, the wind is light and the clouds are light; If you are stubborn, not only now, but also in the future. Flowers bloom and fall, the biggest obstacle in life is not difficulty, but one's own heart. Only by letting go of the past can we fulfill the present; Only by letting go of the fetters can we realize tomorrow.
23. Take it lightly when you are proud, be patient when you are frustrated, judge yourself when you are wrong, blame others for your bad reputation, and be tolerant of yourself! Giving up is wisdom, giving up is incompetence, not giving up is rigidity and not giving up is perseverance. A true friend is when you blind everyone's eyes and can see through your true appearance and inner pain.
24, a person's world, very quiet, quiet can hear your breathing and heartbeat. It's cold, add a coat for yourself; If you are hungry, buy yourself a bread; If you are sick, give yourself a strong; Failure, give yourself a goal; Fall down, get up painfully and give yourself a tolerant smile. Yes, I am always alone. You have never been here before, and I have never been in your world. ...
25, self-recommendation, there are many benefits, not only let others see you, know your existence, know your ability. Depend on strength, not faction-faction is not forever, strength is what you can rely on for a lifetime. The true meaning of life lies in forgiveness and forgetting. Forgive those who deserve it and forget those who don't. The greatest pain in life is not the failure of dreams, but that you have not experienced everything you want to experience.
26. Boys treat their wives better after marriage than before. At a party, a friend laughed at him: Why are you still so tired after getting married? He said with a smile: before getting married, many boys wanted to chase her, and many boys would be kind to her. Only by being kind to her can I catch up with her; After marriage, there are fewer and fewer boys who are kind to her. Only by being kind to her can I not let her down. Everything I do is to make her happy.
27. If you feel bad about someone, you always want to do more for them, surprise them, surprise them and make them happy. If you love someone dearly, you will imagine everything for him, even after a few years, ten years or decades, you will plan one by one; I just want to be happy, happy, healthy and safe, but I never want to return; However, I want to see with my own eyes that beauty is always accompanied, surrounded and full.
28. Love is an addiction that is hard to give up. When you haven't tasted love, everyone thinks that your will is strong. Once you taste the sweetness of love, you will become addicted day by day until you can't quit. Some people dare not love again, not because they are really desperate for love, but because they are desperate for their ability to love. There is no one who doesn't need love, and there is no one who doesn't want love, whether he is God or devil.
29. When encountering difficulties, the stronger a woman is, the more respectable she is, and the more distressing she is. Being strong is not stubbornness or toughness, but the rational support of emotion. Let the injured woman look far away and give herself a reason to go on. A strong woman will open her heart with a key; Embrace the sunshine through the clear sky. Find a shoulder to cry on. Love hurts, crying and laughing, and then continue to be strong.
30. Look at life calmly and be yourself quietly. Learn to adapt and make your environment bright; Learn to adjust, so that your mood is no longer sad; Learn to be tolerant and let your life be trouble-free; Learn to give and make your life full of sunshine. In fact, the sky is blue, and the clouds will always disperse; In fact, the sea is not wide, and the other shore is connected with this shore; In fact, the dream is very shallow and everything is natural; In fact, tears are sweet when your heart is willing. Life is originally a Dojo of spiritual practice.
3 1, don't ask you to remember me deeply all your life, just don't forget that I have been to your world. Good at listening, understanding and understanding; Medium, can go straight to the heart; Actually, observe everything. It is really deaf to be able to listen to his voice and be indifferent. Those who are good at insight, look at Kun with their eyes, distinguish right from wrong with wisdom, and take Tao as their friends. Although he can see, he who doesn't know right or wrong is really blind. Love can enhance hearing, and wisdom can broaden horizons.
32. If a person wants to make a difference and realize his own life value, he must first fully understand himself, especially his own specialties and talents. If we want to know our strengths and talents and tap other strengths under their guidance, we must make clear our weaknesses and deficiencies, correct them modestly, and truly foster strengths and avoid weaknesses. On the contrary, a person who has no goal in life will eventually achieve nothing and regret it for life.
33. A tree is full of flowers, including high branches facing the sun and flowers in the corner. Every inch of space has a flash of life, and every flower has its own fragrance. We are all flowers in our own lives. There is no need to be complacent when climbing high branches. Bathed in the sun, you have to bear the wind and rain. There is no need for humility in humility, and there is less beauty, but there is also a little more silence. Only by keeping the bottom line of dignity can the tree of life be evergreen and the flower of youth be in full bloom.
34. On the way to reincarnation, there are always some unexpected encounters and some strangers who have been missed. Fate comes and goes, and it is a kind of warmth to have someone to accompany you; People's warmth and coldness, which some people can understand, is a kind of happiness. Hold some true feelings and confide in your heart; Show some sincerity and exchange feelings with sincerity; Knowing each other's true feelings can make you know each other in your heart; Only by getting along with purity can we face transparency; Only by cherishing each other can we be together for a lifetime.
If you respect the cadres of the student union, tell yourself that it is because they are your seniors, not because they are your superiors. Everyone is just a student. The happiest thing for a person: having a lover whose parents are alive and whose bosom friend is indispensable. Everything else is an illusion, don't care too much. When we are poor, in order to make money, we often ignore our feelings; When we are rich, we spend money desperately because our feelings exclude us!
36. Giving up easily every time is a failure in life. In this noisy world, we need a strong heart. People are the most prone to problems, absent-minded, so high. The most regrettable thing is that I understood it but didn't do it, but I didn't find what I often have around me. It is impossible to be accompanied by sunshine all the time on the road of life, and it is impossible to be calm everywhere. If you can't change the facts, then change your mentality.
37. Everyone has his own self, that is, his own heart. He was born with him and died with him. He can't give up. Self-nature is naturally connected with intellectual roots, and thinking is gradually formed in the acquired environment. However, people's intellectual roots are inherently limited, and the more they grow up, the more likely they are to be hindered by thinking and hinder self-nature. If the self-nature is blocked, the delusion will cause trouble, the perfection and purity of the self-nature will be polluted by the world, and the fate will be destroyed, but the empty realm cannot be realized.
38. On the way to reincarnation, it is rare for someone to accompany us all the time. Different journeys are always accompanied by different people. Walking, perhaps at a fork in the road, waving, each of them has become a different journey. So we must cherish the company and hold hands tightly, because once we are separated, we don't know when we will meet again. Everyone knows how to cherish, but how many people really do it?
39, climbing the mountain, only to know that there are high and short; Only when you have done one thing, do you know that there is complexity and simplicity; I didn't know how deep it was until I crossed the river. Life is like a stream, with its calmness and agitation. If there are colorful clouds and dark clouds in the sky, there will be colorful changes. Be more indifferent, don't bear too many unnecessary burdens, live a simple life, and face it with a beautiful and optimistic attitude. Plain is true.
40. If you are right, don't argue too much, and if you push the other side to the wall, you will break your retreat; If you are excellent, don't show off, others will stay away from you in your affectation; If you are in pain, don't talk to everyone. Everyone has their own troubles. Don't turn the interpretation of being a friend into a stranger. If you are lonely, then slowly precipitate yourself in loneliness, and life is rooted in the lonely soil.
4 1, that person, not necessarily tall and thin, but must be clean; That person, not necessarily sweet words, but must have a good temper; That person may not be handsome and rich, but he must be self-motivated; That person will definitely say to me at the moment we hold hands: from today on, we will share weal and woe; That man must be very overbearing. He will say to me: I think you are mine.
42. Losing money is not smart, but losing money is smart; It is wisdom to pick it up and wisdom to put it down; Smart knowledge, wisdom and culture; Wisdom protects the immediate, and wisdom focuses on the long-term; Wisdom depends on the ears, eyes, eyes, and wisdom depends on the heart. A wise man's busy mouth is a teapot, a wise man's busy ear is a teacup, and the water in the teapot finally enters the cup; Intelligence is ability, and wisdom is the realm; Wisdom comes from heredity, and wisdom comes from cultivation; One tenth of cleverness and one hundred percent of wisdom.
43. Experience is the most important thing in life. Bitter or happy, let bygones be bygones. Recalling the past will only increase sadness. When you hide your face and sigh, time passes and happiness slips through your fingers. There is no injustice in the world, only an unjust heart. Don't complain, don't hate, don't care about everything, and the past is like smoke. Experienced, drunk, awake, broken, finished, forget it! Cherish the existing life, happiness is around you.
44. There are always too many disappointments, but they are always full of longing; There are always too many setbacks, but they are always eager for the best. Life is always like this, and no amount of setbacks can drown your expectations; No amount of frustration can wither the hope in the breast. Tired, fearless, bitter, fearless, rushing around, comforting yourself again and again, encouraging yourself again and again in setbacks. In this way, on the road of life, we have been going on, eager to be satisfied one day.
45. Life is like this. No matter how helpless and happy you are, everything will pass. As time went on, I gradually learned to be optimistic and woke up. You can't change the outline of a mountain, don't be persistent. You can't change the flight path of a bird, don't be persistent. You can't change the speed of the river, don't be persistent. If the heart changes, the world will be different. Remember, if you don't persist, the pain will gradually go away and the joy will gradually approach.
46. I have been alive for decades, and I am constantly looking for money to find feelings? When I was young, I constantly pursued the pleasure that money brought to material life, but with the increase of experience, I gradually realized what was the most important thing in my life, and I tried to find the true meaning of life. In fact, emotion is more important than any material, and it is the driving force that supports us to go on. As long as there is emotional nourishment, no matter what ups and downs you encounter, life can pass!
47. We can be poor and ordinary "unsuccessful". There's no need to be embarrassed about it. As long as you are sincere and kind and insist on benefiting all beings in your humble way, your heart will be happy. People care about being busy all day in pursuit of happiness, and lasting happiness comes from inner peace, not from the accumulation of fame and fortune. What really keeps us away from poverty and loneliness is not money status, but knowing that we don't care about anything in this world that is not hard and people are not complicated. Even if you reject the present unhappiness, time will not pass slowly. So don't lose your temper at will, no one owes you. Learn to keep a low profile, there must be gains and losses between choices, and don't care too much. Learn to be practical and pragmatic. The harder you work, the luckier you will be. When a person has enough connotation and material backing, life will become full of confidence.
48. People can only live once. Don't live too tired: you should live comfortably, happily and smartly. If the work pace is too fast, the mental pressure is too great, the competitive psychology is too strong, the life is too irregular and the time is not long, the spirit and physical strength will collapse. If you want to live comfortably, happily and smartly, you must learn to be contented. Happiness should know how to stand at the crossroads of life. The farther the road is, the closer the heart is. Looking back quietly, everything is Ming Che as dew, melancholy as red, and fresh as wind. The road, the dust of the past, and the fate that passed by turned into this pen; That once tree, once wind, once call condensed this poem and this song; That silent years, that long wait, that lonely but not lonely heart, have been on the road, in my heart, in my life!