Hello, I'm not sure whether to contact him or not, but I can at least tell you one thing for sure: if you and he finally break up peacefully by paying good for evil, it won't happen. Do you want to know what these six words mean? That means that two people who once loved each other will never have any contact or correspondence in this life. Even if they meet head-on, they will only pass by like strangers, and even the corners of their eyes will not glance at each other. Can you accept that this will happen between you and him? ! Personally, I have always agreed with the famous saying that "a hundred years of boat crossing, a thousand years of pillow sleeping". I also firmly believe that meeting the person who deeply attracts you in the vast sea of people and falling in love with him are all doomed in your life, that is, the fate of the two of you. And fate will often play tricks on your life like an urchin. There are too many people who love each other and are destined to love each other, but there is no share of living together. But since they once loved each other deeply and paid sincere attention to each other, why can't they get to know each other and wave goodbye at the end of their relationship? Even if they are no longer lovers, there is no need to change from love to hate and become strangers. If they are more paranoid, it will even lead to human tragedy. Why must it be so extreme? Do you have to hate each other if you don't love them? ! I think your boyfriend is right to say so, which also shows that he is a mature and steady man. Breaking up with him may hurt you, but think of it this way: now that he has said it, he has made up his mind, and you can't change his mind by crying again. He now proposes to be with you because he doesn't want to completely turn against you because of breaking up. In the end, there will be two endings you imagine. You can't love each other for life, but you can keep in touch with other friends. And as far as my personal experience is concerned, sometimes instead of struggling to maintain a so-called relationship that is scarred and riddled with holes, it is better to let go early and end this bitter relationship that makes me live in torment every day. Although you will feel very painful and sad for a long time at that time, you will soon feel that the whole person has suddenly relaxed a lot, and the burden that has been pressing on your heart has finally been lifted. And you and your ex-boyfriend will continue to keep in touch because of the calmness and relief when they break up, but their feelings have completely changed from lovers to friends and they are still old friends who know and trust each other very well. At this time, you will feel that this change in relationship with him makes you get along very harmoniously with him. Many people will never tell you that they have been hiding your personal privacy when they are in love, but they will tell you frankly after breaking up, because there is no interest relationship between you and him, and there is no need for him to guard against you. After breaking up, the relationship is no longer so deadlocked and becomes harmonious and friendly. How wonderful it is. Do you want to feel it yourself? Then, as your boyfriend said, two people get together and break up well. Try it yourself.