Words of caution and self-reflection

Words and deeds are the foundation of a person’s life.

One word can prosper a country, another word can destroy it. Do not be careless with your words.

Opening your mouth and moving your tongue is not beneficial to others, so don't talk about it; raising your heart and thinking is not helpful to others, so don't do it; moving your feet and legs

It is not beneficial to others, so don't do it.

Being sincere is the key to spiritual practice.

Be careful in your actions and words, and you can defend yourself.

Don’t talk too much in life. Talking too much will lead to mistakes.

A house with many doors creates wind, and many words bring disaster.

To ridicule others is the first act of frivolity. It not only loses one's virtue, but also one's life.

Long talk should be spoken by the wise.

Speak less to nourish your Qi, think less to nourish your spirit, and be less addicted to your desires to nourish your essence.

Don’t take advantage of pleasure and make light promises, don’t take advantage of being drunk and become angry, don’t take advantage of speed and make troubles, and don’t end up dying because of fatigue.

When the mouth is opened, the energy is dispersed, and when the tongue moves, right and wrong arise.

A gentleman does not spread rumors, but rumors only stop with the wise.

Before talking to others, discuss this (pointing to the heart) first.

If you choose friends who are reticent, you can avoid worries and have no regrets.

When things come to your liking, you must turn around; when your words come to your liking, you must stay.

The sergeant keeps his mind closed, the sergeant keeps his mouth shut, and the corporal keeps his door closed.

People say things before they do them, but I do things before I say anything. People may not necessarily do what they say, but I may not necessarily say what I have done.

Na na, those who are taciturn may not be stupid, and those who chatter may not be wise.

My master is the master of great argumentation but of indolence, of great skill and of clumsiness, of great courage and of cowardice, of great wisdom and stupidity.

The mouth is an axe, and the tongue is a knife that cuts the heart. Keep your mouth shut and hide your tongue deeply, and you will be in prison.

A kind word can warm you for three winters, but a bad word can hurt you for six months.

A sore is easy to heal, but a bad word is hard to get rid of.

When you see the virtuous, think about them; when you see the virtuous, you should reflect on yourself.

If you get lost and find your way back, you will not be far from finding the way.

Seeing one’s own faults is the door to all good; seeing others’ faults is the root of all evil.

To see one's own mistakes frequently is equivalent to Tao.

Really admit that you are wrong, and don’t talk about other people’s faults. If they are wrong, I am wrong. The same thing is called great compassion.

Scholars should blame themselves for everything and be careful not to blame others. If others cannot please me, it is because I am immeasurable; if I cannot be expected by others, it is because I am incompetent. It is the principle of self-reflection at all times that all talents and virtues can be improved.

When you are responsible for others, you need to think: "No one is a sage, how can anyone be without faults?" When you discipline yourself, you need to think: "If you do not be careful, you will eventually accumulate great virtues."

When upholding oneself, one should seek to have no faults even though there are no faults; when treating others, one should strive to have no faults despite all the faults.

If the husband takes responsibility for himself, he can do good things as an adult; if he takes special care of others, he can do good things for himself.

We are not making any progress all day long. We just use the words "resentment" and "especially" and do not ask ourselves at all. True knowledge

always involves self-reflection and introspection.

If you are self-reliant and don’t take responsibility for others, you are always looking after yourself and have no time to look after others.

If you love others but others don’t love you, if you respect others but others don’t respect you, then a gentleman will turn against himself. Loving others means loving them, respecting others means respecting them, and a gentleman will be more cautious.

Check your own shortcomings every day, and restrain and restrain your selfish thoughts from your heart. If you don't realize your shortcomings and mistakes for a day, it means you are content with yourself; if you have no mistakes to correct, you have no progress.

If you always see that you are not necessarily what you are, and others are not necessarily what you are, you will make progress; then you will see that others are all desirable, but I just have too much, and you will make progress.