The nurturing of a filial son is to be happy with one's heart and not against one's aspirations. ——"Book of Rites"

There are three types of filial piety: first, respecting relatives, secondly, not being humiliated, and secondly, being able to support. ——"Book of Rites"

It is important to know the age of your parents. One is for joy, the other is for fear. ——"The Analects of Confucius"

Meng Wubo asked about filial piety, and Confucius said: "Parents are only worried about their illness." ——"The Analects of Confucius·Wei Zheng"

What parents love, they also love. Respect what your parents respect. ——Confucius

The elders and the younger are in order. ——Mencius

When I am old, I am in harmony with the old of others; when I am young, I am in harmony with the young of others. The world can be transported in the palm of your hand. ——Mencius

The most important thing for a filial son is to respect his relatives. ——Mencius

Only being filial to your parents can relieve your worries. ——Mencius

Father and son are related, monarch and ministers are righteous, husband and wife are different, elders and children are related, and friends are trustworthy. ——Mencius

Which one is greater? It is the greatest thing to do things closely; to protect oneself, which one is greater? Keep your body intact. I have heard of those who can serve their relatives without losing their bodies; I have not heard of those who can serve their relatives without losing their bodies. What's wrong? Serving relatives is the foundation of everything; who doesn't keep it? Keeping oneself is the foundation of keeping oneself. ——Mencius

The true form of benevolence is to serve relatives; the true form of righteousness is to obey elder brothers. ——Mencius

If you don’t get closeness, you can’t be a human being; if you don’t get closeness, you can’t be a son. ——Mencius

A gentleman has three kinds of happiness, but the king of the world does not share them. Having both parents and brothers without any reason is one kind of happiness; looking up to Heaven and not being ashamed of others is the second kind of happiness; being able to educate the talented people from all over the world is the third kind of happiness. A gentleman has three kinds of happiness, but the king of the world does not share them. ——Mencius

There are five so-called unfilial persons in the world, four of which are laziness and neglect of parents' support. The third kind of unfilial piety is to ignore the support of one's parents; the fourth kind of unfilial piety is to kill one's parents according to the desires of one's ears and eyes; the fifth kind of unfilial piety is to be brave and aggressive and endanger one's parents. ——Mencius

He who has no father and no king is a beast. ——Mencius

The virtuous and the unworthy cannot be separated. If fate cannot be changed, if good and evil cannot be moved. ——"Lu Shi Chun Qiu"

A filial son does not flatter his relatives, and a loyal minister does not flatter his king. This is the prosperity of ministers. ——Zhuangzi

Those who care for their relatives should not choose the right place to live in peace with them, which is the utmost filial piety. ——Zhuangzi

Etiquette is broken and short, with more than enough damage but not enough benefit. It expresses love and respect and cultivates the beauty of righteousness. ——Xunzi

The nature of heaven and earth is that human beings are noble; no human behavior is greater than filial piety, and no filial piety is greater than a strict father. ——"The Book of Filial Piety·Shengzhi Chapter"

Parents are the foundation of human beings. ——Sima Qian

Respecting relatives is more beautiful than three animals. ——Zhi Yu

If father and son do not believe, then the family will not be harmonious. ——Wu Zetian

Whoever speaks an inch of grass will be rewarded with three rays of spring. ——Meng Jiao

Those who live in harmony within themselves will have a prosperous family. ——Lin Bu

Everyone has a heart of kindness and filial piety. ——Su Che

The elders should stand, the young should not sit. The elders should sit, and it is their destiny to sit. In front of elders, one should keep one's voice low, but it is not appropriate to not listen in a low voice. If you advance, you must move forward, but if you retreat, you must be late. When asked, don’t look away. ——Li Yuxiu

Every parent loves his son. ——Chen Hongmou

When you serve your elders, your voice is easy to be solemn. Do not shout loudly for trivial matters. ——Zhou Bingqing

When an elder asks, don’t bully someone; when an elder gives an order, don’t be late in doing it; when an elder gives a gift, don’t dare to refuse. ——Zhou Bingqing

A person who attaches great importance to property but despises his parents is not a good son. ——Zhu Bailu

Losing a loving mother is like a flower in a vase. Although it still has color and fragrance, it has lost its roots. ——Lao She

Nothing can replace a mother. ——Ba Jin

In the eyes of parents, children are often a part of themselves, and children are an opportunity for their ideal self to come back again. ——Fei Xiaotong

The elderly are like history and drama, which can be used as a reference for our lives.

——(Ancient Rome) Cicero

Start, child, start getting to know your mother with a smile! ——(Ancient Rome) Virgil

Friendship produces happiness, and civilization brings harmony. ——(France) Hugo

If a person makes his mother sad, no matter how prominent his status is, no matter how famous he is, he is a despicable person. ——(Italy) Amici

Being respected in old age is the first privilege that appears in human society. ——(Far) Lafargue

We should be considerate of the elderly as we would treat children. ——(Germany) Goethe

In front of their children, parents should be good at hiding all their happiness, troubles and fears. ——(British) Bacon

Mother is the only force that can make death surrender. ——(Former Soviet Union) Gorky

All the glory and pride in the world come from the mother. ——Gorky

The death of an old man is equivalent to the collapse of a museum. ——Gorky

Respect for the elderly is the most beautiful privilege of the human spirit. ——(France) Stendhal

Old age, like a nightingale, should have its nocturne. ——(Germany) Kant

All outstanding extraordinary people have outstanding mothers. In their later years, they respect their mothers very much and regard them as their best friends. ——(UK) Dickens

In the mouth and heart of the child, the mother is God. ——(UK) Thackeray

In this world, we always need to repay the most beautiful person, which is mother. ——(Former Soviet Union) Ostrovsky

It is at our mother's knees that we obtain our noblest, most sincere and most ambitious ideals, but there is rarely anything in them. money. ——(U.S.) Mark Twain

Communism is not only manifested in the fields and sweaty factories, it is also manifested in families, around the dinner table, among relatives, and in mutual interactions. relationship. ——(Former Soviet Union) Mayakovsky

Hideous sea monsters are not as scary as ungrateful children. ——(UK) Shakespeare

Both kindness and beating begin at home. ——Beaumont and Fletcher

Charity extends to loved ones, but it should not end there. ——Fuller

As a person, you must respect your parents, be kind to your children, be generous to your poor relatives, and be polite to everyone. ——(USA) Russell

For children, the value of parental charity is that it is more reliable and trustworthy than any other emotion. ——Russell

The foundation of the family is undoubtedly the special affection parents have for their newborn daughters. ——Russell

What is more sacred than the emotions contained in the hearts of parents? The hearts of parents are the most merciful judge, the most considerate friend, and the sun of love. Its flame shines and warms the intentions condensed deep in our hearts! ——Marx

The son of wisdom brings joy to his father, but the son of ignorance brings shame to his mother. ——Solomon

Respectful and responsible children emerge from families where love and discipline are properly combined. ——James Dobson

A ewe will never answer the cry of a calf if she cannot hear the cry of her own lamb. ——Shakespeare

At dusk, you collect everything that was scattered in the morning; the sheep return to the shed, and the children return to their mothers. ——Sappho

I have seen hungry children. I have seen mothers and wives grieve. I hate war. ——Roosevelt

Motherly love is a huge flame. ——(France) Romain Rolland

If relatives are not harmonious, the family will fail. ——(USA) Lincoln

Home is the kingdom of the father, the world of the mother, and the paradise of children. ——Emerson

The heart of a loving mother is intertwined with the baby as early as pregnancy. ——Dickens

All outstanding and extraordinary people have outstanding mothers.

——Dickens

Without the help of selfless and self-sacrificing maternal love, the child's soul will be a desert. ——Dickens

Father should be a tolerant friend. ——Dickens

The most distressing thing in the world is to look down on your own home. —— Dickens

Treat your parents the way you would like your children to treat you. ——Socrates

In the family, the smallest laughter of a child is the great spiritual power that enables parents to realize that unity can be consolidated. ——Suhomlinsky

The power that establishes and consolidates the family is love, the loyal and pure love between father and mother, father and child, mother and child. ——Suhomlinsky

Parental love should be like this: it can inspire children to care about the world around them and everything created by people, and inspire their enthusiasm to serve the people. ——Suhomlinsky

A mother’s peace and happiness depend on her children. A mother's happiness must be created by her children and teenagers. ——Suhomlinsky

After becoming a mother, female beauty is like a blooming flower, radiating all its strength and beauty. ——Suhomlinsky

As a father, the greatest joy is to be able to inspire and educate his children based on the path he has traveled during his lifetime. ——Montaigne

It is really unfair to forgive young people for pursuing pleasure but prohibit old people from pursuing enjoyment. ——Montaigne

Parents and children are the best gifts to each other. ——Wei Guan

Some children make us feel that this life is worthwhile, and some children leave us with lifelong regrets. ——Kahlil Gibran

Nothing can be greater than a person’s mother. ——Whitman

The only real happiness in the world is when a family can work closely with each other. ——Marie Curie

A harmonious family atmosphere is a kind of flower in the world. Nothing is gentler than it, and nothing is more suitable for cultivating a family's nature to be strong and upright. ——Dreiser

Without a peaceful family, there is no peaceful society. ——Daisaku Ikeda

The family habit of giving gifts to each other helps to enhance the sincere friendship between parents and children. Its main significance does not lie in the gift itself, but in the concern for relatives and the hope of thanking relatives for their concern. ——Irina

Those fathers and mothers who have won the love and respect of their children are very happy. ——Irina

Good family traditions help family members respect each other and help the family build a friendly and vibrant collective. ——Irina

The love between mother and child is the most sacred emotion in the world. ——Alexander Dumas

A mother’s love will never dry up. ——Gonchar

Only a healthy relationship between parents and children based on unconditional love can eliminate all crises in life. ——Ross Campbell

Have any of us seen more favors from others than children receive from their parents? ——Xenophon

One of the most beautiful things in life is maternal love. This is selfless love, and morality pales in comparison. —— Xiaolu Shidu

Everything goes well for my mother at home. ——Alcott

How similar mothers are all over the world! Their hearts are always the same. ——Vapchalov

If a noble person has a son like himself, his happiness will be no less than the continuation of his own life. ——Steele

The virtue of parents is a great wealth. ——Horace

Motherly love is the greatest force in the world. ——Arthur M

Mother, I bless you because you know how to raise your son to be a real person. He will be victorious in the battle of life. ——Asturias

Whoever refuses the instruction of his parents will first lose the opportunity to be a human being.

——Haji Abubakar Imang

The story of Zilu borrowing rice to honor his parents

The story of Zilu borrowing rice to honor his parents

There is an old Chinese saying : "Filial piety comes first among all good deeds." It means that honoring parents is the first among all virtues. If a person does not know how to honor his parents, it is difficult to imagine that he will love the motherland and its people.

The ancients said: "When we are old, we are in harmony with the old people; when we are young, we are in harmony with the young people." We should not only honor our parents, but also respect other elderly people, care for young children, and create an honest custom of respecting the elderly and loving the young in the whole society. This is the responsibility of our students in the new era.

Zilu was a native of Lu in the late Spring and Autumn Period. Among the disciples of Confucius, he was famous for his political affairs. Especially famous for his bravery. But Zilu's family was very poor when he was young, and he lived on coarse grains and wild vegetables for many years.

Once, the elderly parents wanted to eat rice, but there was no rice at home. What should they do? Zilu thought that if he climbed a few mountains to borrow some rice from his relatives, wouldn't he be able to satisfy his parents' request?

So Xiao Zilu walked more than ten miles over the mountains and ridges, and carried back a small bag of rice from his relatives' house. Seeing his parents eating the fragrant rice, Zilu forgot about his fatigue. Neighbors praised Zilu as a brave and filial boy.

Bao Gong is Bao Zheng (AD 999-1062), whose courtesy name is Xiren. He was born in Hefei, Luzhou (now Hefei City, Anhui Province). His father, Bao Yi, was a former Chaosan doctor. After his death, he was awarded the title of Minister of Punishment. When he was young, Bao Gong was known for his filial piety and his straightforward and honest nature. In the fifth year of Emperor Renzong's reign in the Song Dynasty, that is, in 1027 AD, he won the imperial examination at the age of 28. He first served as a judge at Dali Temple, and later as the county magistrate of Jianchang (now Yongxiu, Jiangxi Province). Because his parents were old and unwilling to follow him to other places, Bao Gong immediately resigned from his official position and returned home to take care of his parents. His filial piety was praised by the officials. A few years later, his parents passed away, and Bao Gong re-entered the official career. This was done only after the hard persuasion of the villagers.

Huang Xiang in the Eastern Han Dynasty is a historically recognized model of "filial piety". When Huang Xiang was a child, her family was in a difficult situation. She lost her mother at the age of 10 and her father was sick. On sultry summer days, he used a fan to swat mosquitoes before going to bed, and cooled the bed and pillow where his father slept, so that his father could fall asleep earlier; on cold winter nights, he got into the cold bed and warmed it with his body. Then he let his father sleep. In winter, he couldn't afford a cotton-padded jacket. In order to prevent his father from being sad, he never cried out and showed joy and joy. He worked hard to create a happy atmosphere at home so that his father could feel relieved and recover as soon as possible. .

In Shanghai Jianping Middle School, which is famous for its implementation of the "Cross-century Education Project", a 13-year-old boy's speech titled "Mom, I am your eyes" made female mayors across the country investigate. All 26 members of the group burst into tears. When this classmate was 9 years old, his mother went blind, and his young shoulders were burdened with more family responsibilities and obligations prematurely. In order to buy a tape of the Shanghai Opera that his mother liked, he used his rest days to run around the streets of Shanghai. 6 hours!

Love what your parents love, and respect what your parents respect. ——Confucius

During the reign of Emperor Wen of the Han Dynasty, there was a man named Chunyu Yi who became a disciple of Yang Qing, a famous physician of the State of Qi. He learned superb medical skills and once served as the Cang Ling of the State of Qi. After his teacher passed away, he abandoned his official position and practiced medicine. Because of his upright personality, he offended a powerful person while practicing medicine, which later led to his being framed and taken to the capital for punishment. His daughter's name was Tiying. Although she was a weak woman, she spared no effort and traveled long distances to Chang'an to complain to the emperor. She stated the harmful effects of corporal punishment and explained that her father was upright and caring for the people when he was an official, and he was benevolent and helpful to the world when he was practicing medicine. Now he is indeed being framed. I am willing to suffer the punishment for my father. Emperor Wen of the Han Dynasty was deeply moved by Tiying's filial piety, pardoned her father, and issued an edict to abolish corporal punishment.

In the Tang Dynasty, there was a man named Yang. His family was very poor, but he was very filial and supported his parents by begging. So people called him Yang Qi. All the food he asked for was taken home and dedicated to his parents. His parents had never tasted it, and even though he was hungry, he did not dare to taste it first. If there is wine, he will kneel down and give it to his parents. When his parents take the cup, he will get up and sing and dance like a child to make his parents happy.

Some people sympathized with his poverty and advised him to work for others and use the income to support his family. Yang Qi replied: "My parents are old. If I work for others and are too far away from home, I will not be able to serve them in time." Those who listened felt that he was really a filial son. Later, when his parents died, he begged for a coffin for burial. On every first and fifteenth day of the lunar month, people take food and go to the tomb to cry and offer sacrifices.

During the Three Kingdoms period, there was a filial son, whose surname was Meng, whose given name was Zong, and whose courtesy name was Gongwu. He lost his father when he was a child. His family was very poor, and the mother and son depended on each other. When I grew up, my mother became old and frail. No matter what his mother wanted to eat, he would try his best to satisfy her. One day, my mother was seriously ill and wanted to eat bamboo shoots to make soup. But it was winter, with ice and snow, wind and snow. Where could the bamboo shoots come from? He was helpless and couldn't think of any good solution, so he ran to the bamboo forest and hugged the bamboo and cried bitterly. After crying for a long time, I just felt that my whole body was hot, and the wind was also hot. When he opened his eyes, he saw that the ice and snow around him had melted, and the vegetation had turned from withered to green. Looking carefully, he saw that many bamboo shoots were growing around him. His filial piety moved heaven and earth. He gave the bamboo shoots to his mother to eat, and her illness was cured.

During the Jin Dynasty, there was a filial son named Yang Xiang. When he was fourteen years old, he often followed his father to the fields to harvest crops. One day, a tiger suddenly picked up his father. Yang Xiang was unarmed at the time, but he knew deeply that he had to save his father, so regardless of his own danger, he immediately climbed on the tiger's back and strangled the tiger's neck tightly. The tiger finally let go and escaped. His father escaped from the tiger's mouth and saved his life.

Bao Chu, whose courtesy name was Wenfang, was a native of Xinfeng in the Later Han Dynasty. He was born tall and filial by nature. One day when he was not at home, a group of robbers kidnapped his mother. After hearing the news, Bao Chu was furious, picked up a knife and chased after him at all costs. He killed more than a dozen thieves along the way, and finally caught up with the robbers who robbed his mother. From a distance, he saw his mother and the neighbor's old woman tied together. He yelled and pushed forward. When the thieves saw that he was coming with a fierce and unstoppable force, they were so frightened that they fled for their lives. Bao Chu didn't care about chasing the enemy and ran straight forward, kowtow to plead guilty. Kneeling, he untied the ropes of his mother and the elderly neighbor, and freed them to go home. Later, war broke out, and he followed his mother to take refuge in Nanyang. After the rebellion was put down, his mother wanted to return to her hometown. But the road was full of mountains and rivers, and it was difficult to carry the sedan chair. After much thought, Bao Chu made a bamboo cage, asked his mother to sit in the cage, and carried her back to his hometown.