Whether it is a man or a woman, when he misses someone, he will feel very heartbroken. This is especially true for men, because women usually say it when they miss someone, while men often feel "shameful" ," but I didn't know how to express it, so I had to hide it in my heart.
In fact, the person who truly loves you and misses you will not contact you or send you messages all the time. He will feel that this is an intrusion to you, and he is afraid that if this continues, you will I hated him so much that I finally cut off contact with him.
For him, love is forbearing and restrained. Even if he misses you again, he will not contact you frequently. He will miss you in his own way.
A man will have these "reactions" only if he really misses you, it's obvious!
1. As long as you look for him, he will appear immediately
If you miss someone, what do you hope for most? That person must be there for you immediately.
Although he has never dared to contact you, he always pays attention to your updates. He often checks your circle of friends and even clicks on your dialog box to avoid missing your latest news.
So as long as you look for him, he will appear immediately. It seems that he has been waiting for this moment when you look for him, and now that he has finally arrived, how can he not be happy?
When you miss someone, your biggest wish is to get news from her, and even more hope that she can take the initiative to contact you. At this time, no matter you come to him for anything, he will feel very happy, and he will feel is very happy.
This kind of reaction is very real, and it can also reflect what true missing is. When you look for him and he appears immediately, you should understand that he has actually been thinking about you, but he is just embarrassed to say it. That’s all.
2. He will want to see you very much, but he will not dare to see you
When he misses you very much, he will naturally want to see you immediately, but this kind of thought will only stay for a long time. In his mind, he didn't realize it because he didn't dare to see you and was afraid that you would laugh at him and think he was too stupid.
But he can’t help but want to see you, so he quietly goes to your house to wait for you downstairs, hoping to have a chance encounter, or hoping that you can see him from the window. This is a small thing. The expectation is all his motivation.
3. He will secretly read your messages in the circle of friends
Needless to say, the first time he misses you, he will naturally refresh your profile. This is a social state. At this time, you can only find some sense of the other party's presence in places like the circle of friends.
Even if you haven’t updated, he will look through the previous records. Every time he sees one, he will feel very happy. Even if he just looks at your selfie photos, he will feel satisfied and sees no likes. If you pass it, you will like it again.
When he doesn’t want to disturb you frequently or chat with you all the time, he will use this method to relieve his thoughts. As long as it is related to you, he will pay special attention to it. He will read the content carefully many times, and this is how he misses someone.
Missing someone is very painful, but also very beautiful, but remember one thing, your missing must be two-way, that is, when you miss the other person, the other person will also miss you at the same time. Otherwise it would be meaningless.
Missing others is a kind of warmth, and being missed by others is a kind of happiness. Of course, the best prerequisite is to miss each other. Otherwise, unrequited love is a kind of sadness, and only being missed by others is a burden. ”
Actually, this is about the state of two people liking each other. Missing each other is a happy thing, otherwise it can only become sadness. It is better to let go of such missing as soon as possible and live a good life. own life.