I strongly agree with Xu Huizhen’s statement that forgiveness is to forgive yourself. Yes, He Yongqiang did let Xu Huizhen down. He Yongqiang was selfish, narrow-minded, chauvinistic, petty-minded, and short-sighted. He was like a frog in a well and didn't understand Xu Huizhen's ambition at all. Do you think these two people can be together? Xu Hui is really strong and capable in He Yongqiang's eyes, which is betrayal and even immoral. What he wants is a woman who has no opinion, is submissive to him, and bows to Chen Chen. Even if his life is a mess, he can't let go of his ignorance. Even ignorant machismo. The sky that such a person sees is only as big as the mouth of a well. What else can you expect? If Xu Huizhen keeps struggling and resenting this, she is not getting along with herself.
After Xu Huizhen married Cai Quanwu, she completely let go of her resentment. Otherwise, how could she help He Yongqiang secretly? How could he take his three daughters and cultivate them carefully? Because he didn't want them to grow up to be short-sighted people like He Yongqiang. Otherwise, under Xu Huizhen's cultivation, He Yongqiang's three daughters have become responsible, capable, and open-minded people.
Speaking of which, Lao He is not a bad person. He is just an old hater at best, a person abandoned by the times. He lives stubbornly in his own narrow circle. Sometimes he feels pitiful or even sad, even so. Such a person also has his own concept of love. He just wants to find a woman who is gentle and appreciates him, but this woman is not Xu Huizhen. Love is like a person knowing whether he is warm or cold after drinking water. A man as wise and truly kind as Cai Quanwu is worthy of a wonderful woman like Xu Huizhen.
A strong-willed melon is not strong. Xu Huizhen actually fell in love with Principal Xu at first, but it seems that Xu Hesheng is also a bit petty, especially caring about Cai Quanwu working in Huizhen's house. Huizhen heard this I was annoyed and immediately regretted it. Rather than saying that she thinks Xu Hesheng is sinister, it is better to say that she sees the shadow of He Yongqiang in Xu Hesheng. To be honest, Xu Huizhen is as free and easy, daring and farsighted as Xu Huizhen. There are really few people who can match him. , and there are even fewer people who can control her.
In the newly liberated New China, there are only a few people who can read newspapers like Huizhen, care about national affairs, and keep up with the times, or those who really like her and admire her, Cai Quanwu is the one. Such a person is partly because of Cai Quanwu's kindness, and partly because of his great wisdom and stupidity. At that time, there were many men like He Yongqiang and Xu Hesheng, so Xu Huizhen was destined to be the one to write the story. He understood that He Yongqiang was just an episode in her story at best.
For a long time, she had embarrassed He Yongqiang like this, causing trouble for him and keeping him from getting off the stage, because in his subconscious mind, He Yongqiang owed her, at least to say sorry to herself openly. , but this stubborn person never has it. If he doesn’t, there won’t be one, but he can’t be allowed to spoil the child at all. Especially Jingli, he didn't want He Yongqiang to leave any mark on this child. As expected, Jingli was the most responsible child, especially the one who named the child Caizhen.
I really admire Xu Huizhen, a woman who said, “Women admire chastity and men imitate talents.
Disregarding the shortcomings of others and relying on one's own strengths, a messenger can be restored but a tool's desire is difficult to measure." This is a thousand-character poem written by Cai Quanwu to praise Jingli after hearing the name Caizhen. An unknown coolie can recite such a sentence. This paragraph of text shows what kind of awe-inspiring man this is, and the name Caizhen is the greatest feedback to Xu Huizhen and Cai Quanwu. What else can she hate if she is still stuck to He Yongqiang? Narrow-minded, I’m really sorry for the name Cai Zhen!
There are so many loves, hates, and hatreds in this world. Forgive others or forgive yourself. This is Xu Huizhen’s wise saying to everyone! Hate, maybe you are not in the same realm or in the same channel at all. When you try to persuade others, you don’t know that his vision is as wide as the mouth of a well. Even if you still have a vast sky, he will never see it, so your hatred will always be there. Sky, if you let it go, you will feel that all the hatred you have is only as big as the mouth of the well...