Every age group has crucial keywords: 20-year-old passion, 30-year-old calm and natural, 40-year-old calm, 50-year-old foresight, 60-year-old open-minded and calm, 70-year-old carefree. At every age of life, it is not difficult to do things that are commensurate with your age. The hard thing is to stick to your own life rules and beliefs all your life.
City life is far less exciting than it looks. Skyscrapers, cars and BMWs, beautiful women and handsome men, elites in the workplace, colorful street lamps, colorful neon lights, fragrant coffee and endless stream of people constitute the appearance of urban life. This is a world where opportunities and dreams coexist. Just behind the flowers, there are surging desires, endless disputes, intrigue, power struggle, money worship, complex interpersonal relationships and cold human feelings, which are more like a battlefield without smoke. Among them, there is the joy of the winner, and of course there are tears of the loser.
Have you ever lost control in the bustling and noisy city life? Have you ever lost yourself? Have you gone with the flow? Do you have your own rules and principles of life?
Many people may be dismissive. Do you think I am a pupil? Live by student rules every day? Why do you need a rule of life? I am an adult. I know what I want and what I don't want. If you want to succeed, you need to struggle, and the struggle is endless. If you keep going, you can get infinitely close to your goal. If you want to be happy, you need to work hard and pay. Sweat and tears are the prelude to happiness, while flowers and smiling faces are the follow-up to happiness.
What kind of life rules do you want for people who have faded out of trouble? As a result of framing yourself, you will encounter the rules on the left and the box on the right. What great things can you do with your hands tied and rules tied?
In life, many people are like this. They have no long-term plans, short-term goals, and no rules and principles of life. Eat, drink and muddle along.
Friend a, who was slim, became a big fat man because of overeating, and then continued to diet and exercise to lose weight when he was inconvenient to move, and so on. Friend b, because he indulges his desires without restraint, wishes that all the beauty in the world could not be his own. He loved everyone, and finally a fire broke out in the rear, and then he kept putting out the fire and did the fire fighting work. Friend c, because the greedy flame in his heart grew crazy, eventually set himself on fire and reached out for a long time. Does he have to get one himself? The basin is full and the bowl is full, but in the end he can only think about the free time in prison. The so-called room has thousands of rooms, but in fact it is only eight feet at night.
In fact, we all know that time can never go back. Instead of making assumptions, it is better to act according to your own life rules from the beginning.
Haruki Murakami, a Japanese writer, made a rule of life for himself: don't talk discouraged, don't complain, don't make excuses, go to bed early and get up early, run 10 km every day, and keep writing 10 pages every day, like a fool.
At first glance, it's simple. Don't be discouraged: just keep encouraging yourself and never slacken off for a moment. Don't complain: keep your mind sunny, be positive and give yourself a good hint. No excuses: No matter right or wrong, we should face and accept it frankly. Running 10 km every day: People are natural animals and have natural attributes. Only by running on the road with lush flowers and trees can they be strong. Write 10 page every day: Only by constantly tempering yourself can we make progress and our inspiration will not be exhausted. Like a fool: if you don't want to be unhappy, don't want to be unhappy, how do you know that you won't get cheap if you suffer? Only in this way can we get closer to happiness.
Looking at it item by item, it is still very simple, but if you want to persist every day, it is not that simple. We should not only overcome the factors and components of laziness in human nature, but also overcome internal diseases and subjective will, as well as external temptations and environmental factors. Just because it is not so simple, acting according to your own life code will keep you in the right direction.
Do you have a life principle?