1. Indifference means facing the temptation of the surrounding environment, facing the success of others, don't be impatient, slowly encourage your character, slowly enrich yourself, improve your self-cultivation and knowledge, and approach your goals step by step. Maybe no one can understand you, maybe this road is extremely difficult, maybe there are too many temptations in reality, but as long as you are indifferent enough, you can always understand what you want. This is that you can't be indifferent to your ambition. Only by calmly dealing with all kinds of temporary successes or failures can we go further on the established road. This is "nothing is far without peace".

2. Zhuge Liang, the author of "The Book of Commandments"

A gentleman's trip is quiet to cultivate his morality and frugality to cultivate his morality. Not indifferent, not clear-minded, not quiet, not far away. If you study quietly, you must learn. If you don't study, you can't learn widely. If you don't have ambition, you can't succeed. You can't be energetic if you are slow, and you can't cure sex if you are dangerous. Years go with the times, meaning goes with the days, and then they become withered, and they don't meet the world, and they are sad to stay in the poor house. What will happen?

3. Ancient family instructions mostly concentrated the author's life experiences, life experiences and academic thoughts, from which not only his descendants benefited a lot, but also today's readers can learn a lot. Zhuge Liang, the prime minister of Shu and Han Dynasties in the Three Kingdoms, was praised as "the embodiment of wisdom" by later generations. His Book of Commandments can also be described as a family instruction full of wisdom and a masterpiece in ancient family instructions. This paper expounds the profound truth of self-cultivation and scholarship, which is thought-provoking to read. It can also be regarded as Zhuge Liang's summary of his life, and later it became a famous piece of self-cultivation and determination. The main purpose of "The Book of Commandments" is to persuade my son to be diligent and determined, and to cultivate self-cultivation should work hard from indifference and tranquility, and avoid laziness and rashness. This paper summarizes the experience of being a man and doing research, focusing on a word "quiet", and at the same time attributing failure to a word "mania", which is in sharp contrast. In the Book of Commandments, Zhuge Liang taught his son to be "quiet" and "quiet", encouraged his son to study hard and inspire himself, and made great efforts from his quiet self-cultivation. He said, "If you study quietly, you have to learn. If you don't learn, you don't have a wide range of talents. If you don't have ambition, you don't have a chance to learn." It means that you can't study hard for a long time in order to realize your lofty ideals without stability and tranquility. To gain true knowledge, you must study and discuss your body and mind in tranquility, and people's talents are accumulated from continuous learning. You can't grow and develop your talents without hard work; You can't succeed in your studies without firm will. Zhuge Liang educates his son not to be impetuous and behave absurdly. In the second half of the letter, he earnestly taught his son in a fatherly tone: if the young don't work hard, the old will be sad. This seems to be a cliche, but it is taught by a loving father to his son. Every word is the truth in his heart and the summary of his life, so it is particularly cherished. This book of commandments not only explains the ways and methods of self-cultivation, but also points out the relationship between determination and learning; It not only explains the importance of tranquility and indifference, but also points out the harm of indulgence, neglect and extreme impatience. Zhuge Liang is not only strict with his son in terms of big principles, but also shows subtle concern for his children in some specific matters. In this book of commandments, there is the power of tranquility: "quiet to cultivate one's morality", "nothing is far without tranquility"; Have the power of thrift: "frugality to cultivate morality"; Have the power of detachment: "If you don't stay at home, you can't be clear-minded"; Have the power to be eager to learn: "If you study quietly, you have to learn"; Inspirational power: "If you don't learn, you can't be versatile, and if you don't have ambition, you can't learn"; The power of speed: "you can't be excited if you are slow"; The power of character: "you can't cure sex if you are dangerous"; Have the power to cherish the time: "years go with the times, meaning goes with the years"; Have the power of imagination: "If you become withered, you will not meet the world, and you will stay in poverty, where will you return?"; Have the power of simplicity. This article is just a few tens, and the message it conveys is much better than a long speech. The article is short, concise, fresh and elegant, unpretentious and approachable, which are the characteristics of this article.