Chapter 1
1. A successful life is a perfect life. A successful life is a life of hard work, a life without any regrets, a life of clear goals and striving for them. , is a life that seizes opportunities. Harvard University has conducted scientific and systematic investigations and verifications on success in life, and believes that success in life must have three major factors: first, macro management ability, second, practical operation ability, and third, ability to deal with interpersonal relationships. Among them, the former two only account for 15-20%, and the latter account for 80-85%. This is surprisingly similar to the survey test formula once conducted by Tsinghua University in my country: success = 15% knowledge and skills + 85% interpersonal relationships. The interpersonal relationship here does not refer to the usual vulgar human relationships, but to the ability to control life, adjust life, and resolve conflicts. Everyone wants to succeed, but they often regard success as unattainable. In fact, a successful life starts from every bit, and success is very close to us. If you want to move towards success step by step, you must start from now, start from achieving the "five skills", that is, being able to laugh, listen, speak, do, and think. As long as you want to succeed, as long as you work hard, as long as you succeed a little bit every day, a successful life will be closer and closer to you!
2. The fable of the iron ring. An iron ring, accidentally broken Lost a part of myself. So I desperately searched for the lost part. But because it is not round, it rolls very slowly. But because of this, it saw flowers and plants that it rarely paid attention to and made friends with them. Hard work paid off, and one day, it found the missing part. With it, although it is perfect, it will run very fast and will no longer be able to talk to flowers and plants...
3. Churchill’s weaknesses Churchill’s speech skills impressed the world, and the wording, tone and harmoniousness of his speeches There was extraordinary courage and strength in the gesture. During the most difficult period of World War II, the spiritual support of the British military and civilians was almost Churchill's daily radio speeches. But who knows that Churchill was very shy when he was young, and would blush whenever he spoke. After he determined his lofty goals and ambitions, he determined to overcome this shortcoming. A few years later, he startled everyone with his graceful demeanor and his words.
4. Washington’s Teeth In 1784, five years before Washington became President of the United States, he was just 52 years old and almost lost all his teeth. He asked a dentist to implant nine teeth into his mouth, and these nine teeth were actually extracted from the mouths of his black slaves alive. This was just discovered by historians through archeology. The hero Washington who once liberated the black slaves suddenly slipped in our hearts, and we seemed to see a stain on the holy robe. But if you think about it carefully and consider the social background of the time, it is not surprising. Yes, seeing someone as a saint is because we don’t know enough about him and can only look at him from a distance, thus painting him with various colors in our hearts, and then lowering our heads to increase his height. In this sense, we have Washington to thank for being imperfect.
5. The hopeless King Li of the Western Zhou Dynasty lived a luxurious life and cruelly oppressed the people. At that time, there was a loyal minister named Fan Bo, who often risked his life to persuade him, hoping that King Li could correct his evil ways. However, not only did he not receive the attention of King Li, he was ridiculed by his ministers. Fan Bo looked at the gradually weakening power of the country and felt particularly anxious, so he wrote a poem to warn these villains. The main idea of ??the poem is: It's not that I said these things that I shouldn't say because I'm old, but that you treat worries as child's play. Before troubles come, they can be prevented; but once the troubles increase, they are like a blazing fire, and there is no way to remedy them. Sure enough, the people soon drove King Zhou Li far away and never let him come back again.
6. Haier’s inspiration In the eyes of many Chinese people, Haier, a successful company, is already very powerful and great. However, a reporter who has followed Haier for many years said that among the many companies he has come into contact with, Haier has the best "consciousness of danger." Haier Group CEO Zhang Ruimin often says: "Be cautious and walk on thin ice." Over the past 16 years, the average annual growth rate has reached 81.6%, and the annual sales revenue has exceeded 40 billion yuan, not only at home but also abroad. It is worthy of our deep thought that relatively high-profile companies can have such awareness. According to Zhang Ruimin, their strategy for entering China is very simple: winner takes all. Their goal is not to leave any market or territory for you.
Needless to say, many of our companies, not to mention weak companies, even leaders like Haier, are still far behind compared with the Fortune 500 companies, and they dare not relax or slack off at all. It is more beneficial and less harmful to face the seriousness of challenges realistically, fully estimate the strength and difficulties of competitors, think about the worst and work hard.
7. A lady from a certain country came to a primary school in China, found five children, and asked them to cooperate in doing something. The lady took out a bottle with five small balls in it, each with a string. The lady said to the five children: "Each of you grabs a small ball. You must pull them all out of the bottle within 7 seconds, otherwise you will be drowned by the water in the bottle. Remember, you can only hold a small ball if you are jealous. If you get a small ball, whoever gets it out slowly will be in danger of drowning." One of the five children thought for a while, then whispered a few words to the other four children, and then motioned to the girl. The oath was ordered. The lady said: "Start!" The youngest child was the first to pull out the ball, followed by the second, third, and fourth balls, and the last one was the child of that age. All 5 balls were pulled out within 7 seconds. The lady was stunned by the actions of the Chinese children in front of her, and then she shed tears of emotion. She said: "I have done this experiment several times in other countries. The children were all fighting to pull them out. As a result, they were so crowded that no one could get out and they all drowned. Chinese children are amazing!" < /p>
8. The Hilton Group is famous all over the world in the hotel industry. With more than 200 majestic high-rise buildings spread across cities around the world, the Hilton Group can remain invincible in the fierce competition. The most commendable reason is the unity of the Hilton Group. Donrad Hilton once said: "I may be the luckiest person in Texas and a blessed person. This blessing comes from friendship and like-minded people." Partner, I hope that I can always get along happily and cooperate with my colleagues throughout my life, because my happiness comes from them. "
9. Housewife movie actor Chen Chong described her life like this: " Things in life are very trivial. In fact, I am a housewife in life. I have a husband and two children... I may have cared a lot about my career when I was young, but now I am really more calm. What I care about is the few people around me. As long as they are alive, healthy, and still love me, I will be happy. "
10. Zhao Benshan's 8 role scores. In Zhao Benshan's very dramatic life, he is. He also played many roles, including chairman, National People's Congress representative, husband, father and friend. At the recording site of "Artistic Life", Zhao Benshan rated each of the eight roles in his life. Film and television actors: 70 points; sketch stars: 80 points; directors and producers: 70 points; National People's Congress representatives: 80 points; chairman: 50 points; father and husband: 10 points; friends: 80 points.
11. Cherkashi, a reporter from "Russian Gazette" and a descendant of Marx, took a taxi on the streets of London and found that the driver had a very distinctive appearance: a thick and thick black beard. What surprised the reporter most was the small portrait of Karl Marx hanging on the car, set in an exquisite copper frame. The reporter asked: "Are you a Marxist?" The driver did not answer the reporter's question, but handed over a business card. The reporter saw Anthony Marx's name and asked, "Do you have the same surname?" The driver smiled and said, "Don't you think we look a lot alike?" The reporter looked carefully and found that he looked exactly like the founder of proletarian theory. There are similarities. The driver said calmly: "He is my great-great-grandfather. His daughter is my great-grandmother..." The reporter asked: "What did you inherit from him?" Anthony smiled and touched his beard and said: "This is what you inherited. ." He took out a copy of "Das Kapital" with many bookmarks. The reporter asked while flipping through the book: "Do you still remember a questionnaire on Marx? When answering the question about what your favorite thing to do was, he said reading. Maybe you also like reading?" He replied: Don't really like it. I enjoy taking care of the garden and the car. The only thing we have in common is that we love beer.
12. Chen Yi: Forever Son Marshal Chen Yi, who made great military exploits for the liberation of the Chinese people, served as the Vice Premier of the State Council and Minister of Foreign Affairs shortly after liberation, and had a very busy job. In 1962, when he returned from a visit abroad, he passed by his hometown and took time to visit his old mother who was seriously ill. Chen Yi's mother is paralyzed in bed and cannot take care of herself.
When Chen Yi entered the house, the mother was very happy. Just as she was about to say hello to her son, she suddenly remembered that the diaper she had changed was still beside the bed, so she motioned to the people around her to hide it under the bed. When Chen Yi saw it, he hurriedly said: "Mom, you have been bedridden for a long time and I can't be by your side. I feel very sad. I should wash these pants. Why hide them?" The mother was very embarrassed after hearing this, and the people next to her hurriedly Take out the diapers and rush to wash them. Chen Yi hurriedly stopped and said emotionally: "Mom, you washed my diapers countless times when I was a child. Even if I wash 10 diapers today, I still can't repay your kindness in raising me!" After that, Chen Yi said The diapers and other dirty clothes were washed cleanly, and my mother smiled happily.
Chapter 2
1. Mr. Lu Xun said: "Genius is not a monster that grows by itself in the deep forest wilderness. It is produced and nurtured by the people who can make genius grow. So without this kind of people, there would be no genius. "If someone thinks that he is very talented and can conquer the world alone, but does not pay attention to cooperation with society and others, he will definitely make trouble. A truly smart person will understand that to succeed in something, you must consider many factors, learn from various examples, cooperate with various people, and cooperate with various environments to achieve success. Therefore, the latest educational theory - cooperative pedagogy was proposed by Russian education experts. Teachers and students have established a new partnership in the field of education, conducted research studies, and progressed harmoniously in the ocean of knowledge. ("Talk about Cooperation")
2. You can feel the intoxication of green described by Zhu Ziqing by the Meiyu Lake, you can also listen to the dialogue between the willow waves and the orioles by the West Lake; You can walk along the old west wind and thin horse; you can hold a sword in hand, stand alone in the desert, and feel the tragedy of "the wind is rustling and the water is cold"; you can also hold a paintbrush on the bow of a boat to appreciate flowers and write rhymes, and appreciate "the slanting wind and drizzle do not need to be The leisure of "return". From the Western Regions to the East China Sea, from Shuobei to Jiangnan, the beautiful scenery adds a dazzling color to the world.
3. Throughout the ages, "integrity" has been the foundation for heroes to cherish each other and achieve great achievements, whether they are Confucianism, Legalism, or Lao Zhuang. "Integrity" and "sincerity" always appear as the most important virtues of a gentleman. Ancient books are full of stories about kings governing the country with sincerity and princes winning scholars with sincerity. Lord Xinling impressed Zhuge Kongming because of his integrity, divided the world into three parts, and achieved hegemony. And the heroic spirit of those heroes and heroes on Liangshan Mountain, who promised thousands of dollars and sacrificed their lives for integrity, has been written into the famous books of talented scholars and moved millions of scholars.
Integrity is respect for others, an affirmation of the past, and even more for the future. With "integrity" on our back, we will feel a sense of responsibility, which is a requirement for ourselves. "Integrity" is a backpack. When we carry it, we are bound to face the possibility of being abandoned, deceived, or even slandered and used. But integrity will definitely give you a sense of ease, magnanimity, and uprightness. ("It's Hard to Give Up Honesty")
4. Only with it can we have the saying "A gentleman's words are hard to chase", and only then can we have the "red rabbit and rouge beast" who can ride with great success before the fifth level. Only in the dust can "one out of three people in the world" be able to sit on the top spot in the Juyi Hall and flutter in the wind the banner of justice for heaven. Because of integrity, "Rishengchang" was born in the small town of Pingyao, so it spread all over the country and brought together the wealth of half of China. It is also because of the good faith agreement with the broad masses of the people that the microwaves in Jiaxing Nanhu and the sparks in Jinggang Mountains finally merged into huge waves and raging fire, sweeping across the ancient land of China. A young political party has gone through a long journey of eighty years. ("The Call of the Thousand Years")
5. The reason why human beings can get out of the wilderness, get rid of ignorance, and step into civilization is because human beings have endless hope.
Liang Qichao once said, "If you have hope, the reason why human beings are different from beasts, the reason why civilization is different from barbarism, and the reason why heroes are different from ordinary people." Hope brings people endless confidence. , courage and strength inspire people to overcome difficulties and hardships. Hope enables mankind to defeat nature and self, brings light to mankind and ignites the fire of life. Before the expedition, Alexander, the ruler of ancient Greece, gave all his gold, silver, treasures, land and estates to the generals and marshals. Upon seeing this, a minister was very puzzled and asked, "Your Majesty, you divided all the property, then? What? What about leaving it to yourself?" Alexander replied, "I leave hope to myself, and it will give me infinite wealth!" The reason why Alexander is so prominent in ancient and modern times is that hope brings him infinite power.
Zhang Qian of the Western Han Dynasty sent an envoy to the Western Regions, but was blocked by the Xiongnu. He narrowly escaped death, but still had hope. He finally overcame all difficulties and returned to the Han Dynasty in triumph; Shi Kefa, Tan Sitong, Qiu Jin, Li Dazhao, Jiang Jie... too many heroes sacrificed their lives, shed their blood, and devoted themselves to death. , even after death, and the persistent belief transformed into hope gave them great courage and strength. It is hope that makes people work hard and fight hard in dangerous and desperate situations; it is hope that makes human beings survive from generation to generation and always move forward bravely on the road of history. ("On Hope")
6. I feel that Chinese language is like the rising sun, gushing out with thousands of rays of light; Chinese language is like a dewdrop that refuses to drip for a long time on the tip of the grass, crystal clear, Clear and lively; the language is like the blood-like sunset on the horizon at dusk, reflecting the travelers and dyeing the mountains and rivers red. Chinese is the beautiful and fragrant peonies of Luoyang, the ancient capital; Chinese is the quiet lotus pond under the night stars; Chinese is the silent cold moon outside the long pavilion beside the ancient road; Chinese is the pair of black eyes that see the world clearly and look for light. Chinese language is like the row of egrets in the blue sky; it is like the thousand-pointed white sails on the side of the sunken boat; it is like the fishing boat that breaks through thousands of miles of glass wrinkles in the endless sea of ??Qinhuangdao. The Chinese language is the earth-shattering roar of Zhang Fei Shi at Dangyang Bridge; the Chinese language is the ups and downs of the heroes from the Water Margin who ventured into China; the Chinese language is the red petals under Lin Daiyu's teardrops, which are like a sea of ??sorrow. ("The Last Lesson" for Hebei Candidates)
7. The haggard Qu Zi sang on the banks of the Miluo River and staggered towards us; Li Bai in fluttering clothes held wine and sang to the sky, and ran towards us. . In the course of ancient history and culture, our nation has had too many glories and memories. If memory can be transplanted, I would like to let my fellow countrymen always remember the suffering and glory of the Chinese nation, and remember how our solemn-looking ancestors trudged through thorns from the green grassy ancient Yellow River Basin to today's arduous journey. , and the Chinese sons and daughters of the ancient civilization that we are still proud of today... (Hubei candidates "Remember the suffering and glory of the nation - If memory can be transplanted")
8. If memory can be transplanted, Then I want Sanmao's freedom and ease of wandering around the world; I want Bo Yang's true feelings of worrying about our country and our people even as he laughs and curses; I want Mr. Lu Xun's pride and determination and courage of "I recommend Xuanyuan with my blood"; and I want Mr. Zhang Haidi's vitality, Zhuge Liang's wisdom... (Shaanxi candidate "If Memory Can Be Transplanted")
9. "People cannot be defeated. You can eliminate him, but you cannot defeat him." Every time I see this famous saying, a picture emerges in my mind: a small fishing boat on the turbulent sea, a fishing boat driven by an old fisherman. The old man was using his bronze body and iron-like arms to swing the oar to fight with the shark. The splashing waves sprinkled on the old man's body, shooting out the afterglow of the setting sun. This is Xantias - Hemingway's resounding iron bones. ("I want to hold the throat of fate")
10. When I saw red cotton for the first time, I was deeply impressed and moved by it. Red cotton, also known as kapok, is a plant in the wood family. When talking about Kapok, the first impression is "straight", with straight trunks towering into the clouds. There is no red cotton plant that grows crookedly, and there is no red cotton plant that is short and grows many branches. Rows and rows, like many resolute warriors standing with their heads held high. When you understand red cotton, the first thing you feel is "toughness". Red cotton is neither afraid of drought nor floods, nor cold nor heat. Even if it is attacked by insects, it can recover as soon as possible. Therefore, no matter how hard it is this year, next year it will still be able to produce trees full of fiery red cotton, as gorgeous as the clouds. (Tianjin Candidate "Wish to Be Red Cotton in This Life")
Chapter 3
1. Chunyu Kun was determined to learn and become an eloquent person (self-confidence, self-improvement, determination to learn, and not to judge people by their appearance, gain or loss)
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2. Yue Goujian defeated Wu with three thousand armors (this is more common, ambitious, self-improving, not afraid of difficulties, endure hardships, ambitious, defeat more with less, do not underestimate the enemy (write the reverse side) gains and losses)
3. Qixuan Busuo recommended seven people (trust, confidence, courage)
4. Duanmuci (Zigong) controlled the seven families, saved Lu, destroyed Wu, strengthened Jin, and dominated the country. In chaos, the world situation has changed in ten years.
(eloquence, interests, self-confidence, ability, means, crisis, alliance)
5. Wang Zengqi was leisurely and unsullied in his life (quiet and indifferent, not fond of worldliness, like Lin Bu)
6 , Hu Shi’s virtuous mother’s teachings (women’s virtuous talents, environmental influence...)
7. Roosevelt’s decisive New Deal, Deng Xiaoping’s policy reforms
8. Dong Zhongshu did not visit the garden for three years ( Eagerness to learn, concentration, perseverance, ambition)
9. Ruan Sizong (Ruan Ji) talked about the Seven Sages in the Bamboo Grove. (Same as Tao Yuanming)
Class meeting theme: How to carry forward the "shell"
Activity objectives:
1, correctly understand the pressure you are under, and initially form a sense of