The nurturing of a filial son means that one is happy with one's heart and does not violate one's aspirations. ——"Book of Rites"

There are three types of filial piety: first, respecting relatives, secondly, not being humiliated, and secondly, being able to support. ——"Book of Rites"

It is important to know the age of your parents. One is for joy, the other is for fear. ——"The Analects of Confucius"

Meng Wubo asked about filial piety, and Confucius said: "Parents are only worried about their illness." ——"The Analects of Confucius·Wei Zheng"

What parents love, they also love. Respect what your parents respect. ——Confucius

The elders and the younger are in order. ——Mencius

When I am old, I am in harmony with the old of others; when I am young, I am in harmony with the young of others. The world can be transported in the palm of your hand. ——Mencius

The most important thing for a filial son is to respect his relatives. ——Mencius

Only being filial to your parents can relieve your worries. ——Mencius

Father and son are related, monarch and ministers are righteous, husband and wife are different, elders and children are related, and friends are trustworthy. ——Mencius

Which one is greater? It is the greatest thing to do things closely; to protect oneself, which one is greater? Keep your body intact. I have heard of those who can serve their relatives without losing their bodies; I have not heard of those who can serve their relatives without losing their bodies. What's wrong? Serving relatives is the foundation of everything; who doesn't keep it? Keeping oneself is the foundation of keeping oneself. ——Mencius

The true form of benevolence is to serve relatives; the true form of righteousness is to obey elder brothers. ——Mencius

If you don’t get closeness, you can’t be a human being; if you don’t get closeness, you can’t be a son. ——Mencius

A gentleman has three kinds of happiness, but the king of the world does not share them. Having both parents and brothers without any reason is one kind of happiness; looking up to Heaven and not being ashamed of others is the second kind of happiness; being able to educate the talented people from all over the world is the third kind of happiness. A gentleman has three kinds of happiness, but the king of the world does not share them. ——Mencius

There are five so-called unfilial persons in the world, four of which are laziness and neglect of parents' support. The third kind of unfilial piety is to ignore the support of one's parents; the fourth kind of unfilial piety is to kill one's parents according to the desires of one's ears and eyes; the fifth kind of unfilial piety is to be brave and aggressive and endanger one's parents. ——Mencius

He who has no father and no king is a beast. ——Mencius

The virtuous and the unworthy cannot be separated. If fate cannot be changed, if good and evil cannot be moved. ——"Lu Shi Chun Qiu"

A filial son does not flatter his relatives, and a loyal minister does not flatter his king. This is the prosperity of ministers. ——Zhuangzi

Those who care for their relatives should not choose the right place to live in peace with them, which is the utmost filial piety. ——Zhuangzi

Etiquette is broken and short, with more than enough damage but not enough benefit. It expresses love and respect and cultivates the beauty of righteousness. ——Xunzi

The nature of heaven and earth is that human beings are noble; no human behavior is greater than filial piety, and no filial piety is greater than a strict father. ——"The Book of Filial Piety·Shengzhi Chapter"

Parents are the foundation of human beings. ——Sima Qian

Respecting relatives is more beautiful than three animals. ——Zhi Yu

If father and son do not believe, then the family will not be harmonious. ——Wu Zetian

Whoever says nothing will be rewarded with three rays of spring. ——Meng Jiao

Those who live in harmony within themselves will have a prosperous family. ——Lin Bu

Everyone has a heart of kindness and filial piety. ——Su Che

The elders should stand, the young should not sit. The elders should sit, and it is their destiny to sit. In front of elders, one should keep one's voice low, but it is not appropriate to not listen. If you advance, you must move forward, but if you retreat, you must be late. When asked, don’t look away. ——Li Yuxiu

Every parent loves his son. ——Chen Hongmou

When you serve your elders, your voice is easy to be solemn. Do not shout loudly for trivial matters. ——Zhou Bingqing

When an elder asks, don’t bully someone; when an elder gives an order, don’t be late to do it; when an elder gives a gift, don’t dare to refuse. ——Zhou Bingqing

A person who attaches great importance to property but despises his parents is not a good son. ——Zhu Bailu

Losing a loving mother is like a flower in a vase. Although it still has color and fragrance, it has lost its roots. ——Lao She

Nothing can replace a mother. ——Ba Jin

In the eyes of parents, children are often a part of themselves, and children are an opportunity for their ideal self to come back again. ——Fei Xiaotong

The elderly are like history and drama, which can be used as a reference for our lives. ——(Ancient Rome) Cicero

Start, child, start getting to know your mother with a smile! ——(Ancient Rome) Virgil

Friendship produces happiness, and civilization brings harmony.

——(France) Hugo

If a person makes his mother sad, no matter how prominent his status is or how famous he is, he is a despicable person. ——(Italy) Amici

Being respected in old age is the first privilege that appears in human society. ——(Far) Lafargue

We should be considerate of the elderly as we would treat children. ——(Germany) Goethe

In front of their children, parents should be good at hiding all their happiness, troubles and fears. ——(British) Bacon

Mother is the only force that can make death surrender. ——(Former Soviet Union) Gorky

All the glory and pride in the world come from the mother. ——Gorky

The death of an old man is equivalent to the collapse of a museum. ——Gorky

Respect for the elderly is the most beautiful privilege of the human spirit. ——(France) Stendhal

Old age, like a nightingale, should have its nocturne. ——(Germany) Kant

All outstanding extraordinary people have outstanding mothers. In their later years, they respect their mothers very much and regard them as their best friends. ——(UK) Dickens

In the mouth and heart of the child, the mother is God. ——(UK) Thackeray

In this world, we always need to repay the most beautiful person, which is mother. ——(Former Soviet Union) Ostrovsky

It is at our mother's knees that we obtain our noblest, most sincere and most ambitious ideals, but there is rarely anything in them. money. ——(U.S.) Mark Twain

Communism is not only manifested in the fields and sweaty factories, it is also manifested in families, around the dinner table, among relatives, and in mutual interactions. relationship. ——(Former Soviet Union) Mayakovsky

Hideous sea monsters are not as scary as ungrateful children. ——(UK) Shakespeare

Both kindness and beating begin at home. ——Beaumont and Fletcher

Charity extends to loved ones, but it should not end there. ——Fuller

As a person, you must respect your parents, be kind to your children, be generous to your poor relatives, and be polite to everyone. ——(USA) Russell

For children, the value of parental charity is that it is more reliable and trustworthy than any other emotion. ——Russell

The foundation of the family is undoubtedly the special affection parents have for their newborn daughters. ——Russell

What is more sacred than the emotions contained in the hearts of parents? The hearts of parents are the most merciful judge, the most considerate friend, and the sun of love. Its flame shines and warms the intentions condensed deep in our hearts! ——Marx

The son of wisdom brings joy to his father, but the son of ignorance brings shame to his mother. ——Solomon

Respectful and responsible children emerge from families where love and discipline are properly combined. ——James Dobson

A ewe will never answer the cry of a calf if she cannot hear the cry of her own lamb. ——Shakespeare

At dusk, you collect everything that was scattered in the morning; the sheep return to the shed, and the children return to their mothers. ——Sappho

I have seen hungry children. I have seen mothers and wives grieve. I hate war. ——Roosevelt

Motherly love is a huge flame. ——(France) Romain Rolland

If relatives are not harmonious, the family will fail. ——(USA) Lincoln

Home is the kingdom of the father, the world of the mother, and the paradise of children. ——Emerson

The heart of a loving mother is intertwined with the baby as early as pregnancy. ——Dickens

All outstanding and extraordinary people have outstanding mothers. ——Dickens

Without the help of selfless and self-sacrificing maternal love, the child's soul will be a desert. ——Dickens

Father should be a tolerant friend. ——Dickens

The most distressing thing in the world is to look down on your own home. —— Dickens

Treat your parents the way you would like your children to treat you. ——Socrates

In the family, the smallest laughter of a child is the great spiritual power that enables parents to realize that unity can be consolidated.

——Suhomlinsky

The power that establishes and consolidates the family is love, the loyal and pure love between father and mother, father and child, mother and child. ——Suhomlinsky

Parental love should be like this: it can inspire children to care about the world around them and everything created by people, and inspire their enthusiasm to serve the people. ——Suhomlinsky

A mother’s peace and happiness depend on her children. A mother's happiness must be created by her children and teenagers. ——Suhomlinsky

After becoming a mother, female beauty is like a blooming flower, radiating all its strength and beauty. ——Suhomlinsky

As a father, the greatest joy is to be able to inspire and educate his children based on the path he has traveled during his lifetime. ——Montaigne

It is really unfair to forgive young people for pursuing pleasure but prohibit old people from pursuing enjoyment. ——Montaigne

Parents and children are the best gifts to each other. ——Wei Guan

Some children make us feel that this life is worthwhile, and some children leave us with lifelong regrets. ——Kahlil Gibran

Nothing can be greater than a person’s mother. ——Whitman

The only real happiness in the world is when a family can work closely with each other. ——Marie Curie

A harmonious family atmosphere is a kind of flower in the world. Nothing is gentler than it, and nothing is more suitable for cultivating a family's nature to be strong and upright. ——Dreiser

Without a peaceful family, there is no peaceful society. ——Daisaku Ikeda

The family habit of giving gifts to each other helps to enhance the sincere friendship between parents and children. Its main significance does not lie in the gift itself, but in the concern for relatives and the hope of thanking relatives for their concern. ——Irina

Those fathers and mothers who have won the love and respect of their children are very happy. ——Irina

Good family traditions help family members respect each other and help the family build a friendly and vibrant collective. ——Irina

The love between mother and child is the most sacred emotion in the world. ——Alexander Dumas

A mother’s love will never dry up. ——Gonchar

Only a healthy relationship between parents and children based on unconditional love can eliminate all crises in life. ——Ross Campbell

Have any of us seen more favors from others than children receive from their parents? ——Xenophon

One of the most beautiful things in life is maternal love. This is selfless love, and morality pales in comparison. —— Xiaolu Shidu

Everything goes well for my mother at home. ——Alcott

How similar mothers are all over the world! Their hearts are always the same. ——Vapchalov

If a noble person has a son like himself, his happiness will be no less than the continuation of his own life. ——Steele

The virtue of parents is a great wealth. ——Horace

Motherly love is the greatest force in the world. ——Arthur M

Mother, I bless you because you know how to raise your son to be a real person. He will be victorious in the battle of life. ——When Asturias was young, he respected his father and his son, and when he was old, he respected his son and his father.

The best gift to parents is glory;

The best gift to family is security;

The best gift to children is role model;

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The best gift to a friend is opportunity;

The best gift to yourself is achievement.

If you exist, then don’t let yourself exist dispensably.

It is better to stay on top of trends than to follow them.

Wasting time is equivalent to wasting your precious life.

Hard work in sowing will surely bring rich harvest.

Money and gems can be stolen by others, but only thoughts, concepts and abilities cannot be stolen by others.

It doesn’t matter where you are, what matters is your future direction.

The child's poverty is our fault as parents because we did not give him a correct outlook on life when he was a child.

Poor people must be hateful.

If you want to be well-off, you must first have good health.

Money can buy a bed, but not sleep;

Money can buy books, but not knowledge;

Money can buy marriage , but it cannot buy love;

Money can buy a banquet, but it cannot buy good teachers and friends.

William James:

Sow an action, reap a habit;

Sow a habit, reap a character;

Sow a character and reap a destiny.

We are all smart people, but not necessarily wise people.

Health cannot wait, filial piety cannot wait, and educating children cannot wait.

The best gift to parents is glory;

The best gift to family is security;

The best gift to children is role model;

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The best gift to a friend is opportunity;

The best gift to yourself is achievement.

If you exist, then don’t let yourself exist dispensably.

It is better to stay on top of trends than to follow them.

Wasting time is equivalent to wasting your precious life.

Hard work in sowing will surely bring rich harvest.

Money and gems can be stolen by others, but only thoughts, concepts and abilities cannot be stolen by others.

It doesn’t matter where you are, what matters is your future direction.

The child's poverty is our fault as parents because we did not give him a correct outlook on life when he was a child.

Poor people must be hateful.

If you want to be well-off, you must first have good health.

Money can buy a bed, but not sleep;

Money can buy books, but not knowledge;

Money can buy marriage , but it cannot buy love;

Money can buy a banquet, but it cannot buy good teachers and friends.

William James:

Sow an action, reap a habit;

Sow a habit, reap a character;

Sow a character and reap a destiny.

We are all smart people, but not necessarily wise people.

Health cannot wait, filial piety cannot wait, and educating children cannot wait.

Whoever refuses the instruction of his parents will first lose the opportunity to be a human being. ——Haji Abubakar Imang

Story:

Example 1

Bao Gong is Bao Zheng (999-1062 AD), named Xi Ren was born in Hefei, Luzhou (today's Hefei City, Anhui Province). His father Bao Yi was a former Chaosan doctor. After his death, he was awarded the posthumous title of Vice Minister of the Ministry of Punishment. When he was young, Bao Gong was known for his filial piety and his straightforward and honest nature. In the fifth year of Emperor Renzong's reign in the Song Dynasty, that is, in 1027 AD, he won the imperial examination at the age of 28. He first served as a judge at Dali Temple, and later as the county magistrate of Jianchang (now Yongxiu, Jiangxi Province). Because his parents were old and unwilling to follow him to other places, Bao Gong immediately resigned from his official position and returned home to take care of his parents. His filial piety was praised by officials.

A few years later, his parents passed away one after another, and Bao Gong re-entered his official career. This was done only after the hard persuasion of the villagers. In feudal society, if parents only have one son, the son cannot leave his parents alone and become an official in other places. This is against the provisions of feudal law. Under normal circumstances, parents will follow for the sake of their son's future. Or the son and other members of the family may advise. It was rare in the feudal era for parents to be unwilling to follow their son to serve as an official for retirement, because it meant that the son had to abide by the constraints of feudal ethics and resign his official position to take care of himself. The history books do not specify the specific reason. It may be that his parents were ill and could not bear the bumps on the road, so Bao Gong resigned from his official position.

No matter what the situation is, Bao Gong can take the initiative to resign from his official position, which still shows that he is not the kind of person who is obsessed with officialdom. Filial piety to parents can also serve as an example for some people with low quality today. In the past, most of the stories were about Bao Gong's selflessness, and ignored Bao Gong's filial piety to his parents.

Example 2

Huang Xiang in the Eastern Han Dynasty is a historically recognized model of "filial piety".

When Huang Xiang was a child, her family was in a difficult situation. She lost her mother at the age of 10 and her father was sick. On sultry summer days, he used a fan to swat mosquitoes before going to bed, and cooled the bed and pillow where his father slept, so that his father could fall asleep earlier; on cold winter nights, he got into the cold bed and warmed it with his body. Then he let his father go to bed; in winter, he couldn't afford a cotton-padded jacket. In order to prevent his father from being sad, he never cried out, showed joy and joy, and tried hard to create a happy atmosphere at home, so that his father could feel relieved and recover as soon as possible. .