You can't say that you asked others to bring things for you. When he finally comes to you for money, you must take the initiative. When you meet something that is not an integer, you must transfer a few cents to your friends or colleagues. It is no problem to collect enough money, which will leave a good impression on colleagues or friends.
There are very few people who are kind to you in this world. Don't talk to others easily.
Many times, some people are confused. In the workplace or life, I accidentally meet someone who has a common language. I think this man is my own confidant, and I am deeply worried about my so-called "confidant". In fact, this is all wet. Don't talk to others at any time, because it is more used by others. In this world, except for parents and wives, no one else will really treat you well.
Reading more books is really useful and can change your destiny.
The ancients said: "The book has its own golden house, and the book has its own Yan Ruyu." This sentence is very reasonable! For many children from poor families, only reading can change their fate. Many people say that some people drop out of primary school, but they work hard and still mix out to be bosses. But that is a small probability event after all. For most people, only reading can change themselves and their families.
4. Don't play jokes on others casually. Sometimes you think humor is actually impolite to others. There is always a person in life who thinks he can speak and adjust the atmosphere. Therefore, he often speaks openly, makes jokes easily, and jokes about other people's shortcomings. I didn't know it was a no-no. Sometimes all I blurt out are words, which will make others angry, hate you and bear a grudge against you. Remember not to make too many jokes, or you will suffer.
Learning to praise and encourage others will make your contacts closer.
People with high emotional intelligence are always versatile and know how to speak when dealing with others. Praising and encouraging others is a very important point in interpersonal communication. Encourage and praise others as much as possible, which will not only make others more confident, but also get along with you better and better, and feel that you are a person who can make deep friends.
6. Some people who seem to get along well may not be able to work with us.
There are always some people in society who seem to get along well with everyone, but at the critical moment, they disappear. This kind of person is not talking to you. In fact, he only knows how to find topics and talk. However, his ability may be average and he doesn't have much ambition. Most of the time, he is an armchair strategist.
7. Never lend money to friends and relatives. You may lose not only money, but also feelings.
I lent my cousin 50 thousand yuan before, and he said he would pay me back when he earned money the next year. As a result, the following Spring Festival, I went to his house to pay a New Year call and asked him for money. As a result, he just said no and asked me to pick it up later. After two months, I went to ask him for money again, and he said no, still evasive, as if he didn't want to pay back the money.
Later, when their family moved, I went to their house to look for him and found that people were missing. My cousin directly blacked out my phone. The money is not coming back now, and we have no contact at all. Borrowing money is a taboo in interpersonal communication. Generally speaking, it is best not to borrow money. If you borrow money, you should have the intention of not coming back.
8. Don't treat love as a compliment, but as your eloquence. Doing more and talking less is the most important thing. To enter the big circle of society, we should know when to speak and when not to speak, and we should know how to speak according to the situation. Don't always fight, it will disgust many people. The real eloquence should be to see the needle, understand people's needs, and give the most accurate response.
9. Although I hate to admit it, good-looking skin will really be more popular.
Sometimes the ability is outstanding, but it is not reused, and there are certain reasons. Everyone likes a beautiful face, and having a beautiful skin will make them more divided. Sometimes others may not be as capable as you, but because they are good-looking, they can easily beat you and get better treatment, which is also true.
10. When your life is smooth, try not to act too much, which may make others jealous.
If you have bought your car and house, and there is no pressure for a loan. When you show it to outsiders, you must not be too ostentatious, sharp-edged and easy to be targeted. In this complicated society, there are always some people who are jealous and vengeful. They don't want you to live better than them. Therefore, when introducing yourself to outsiders, it is feasible to act ordinary and show your ordinary life.
1 1. Know the meaning of reciprocity.
If someone gives you some birthday presents or gives your child a red envelope, you must show it. You can't say that someone gave you a red envelope and a gift, but you didn't say anything. As stingy as an "iron cock"! After a long time, others will not associate with you, because people like you are not worth making friends with.
12. Try to be as smooth as possible, especially honest people will suffer losses and it is difficult to achieve anything.
The society is very complicated, there are many good people and bad people, and we are easily deceived by others. So be more careful, be as smooth as possible, and don't be too honest, which will suffer and not benefit. People who are too upright are usually paranoid, and such people are a little conceited. Disdain to partner with others! In today's society, it is easier to succeed in holding a group to keep warm, but it is difficult for honest people to succeed.
13. To understand the true meaning of networking, networking is not how many people you know, but how many people you can help.
The society is very cold, only you can help others, and you have certain value to others. Others will try their best to help you! If you don't have enough value, others won't look up to you and help you unconditionally. With enough value, we can get the so-called "connections".
14. Understand the meaning that "it is better to teach people to fish than to teach them to fish".
If you have some powerful skills, others will always ask you for advice and want your help. In fact, you just need to tell him how to do it and tell him the methods and skills. In this way, he will not only gain something, but also get rid of your bondage and don't need to ask you often. Practicing by yourself is the most effective method, and you can gain more in practice.
15. "Paying the bill" and "paying the bill" are different.
Let me pay the bill. It may be polite, just saying. And I will pay the bill, which means I'm serious. Know the difference between the two, don't get me wrong.
16. "How to relieve anxiety? Only make a fortune. "
All your current difficulties stem from your lack of money. All the pain is because I didn't make any money. All anxiety is due to insufficient money. When I have enough money, I don't have all my worries and troubles. Make more money to support your family while you are still young. Car loan and mortgage are all headaches for you. When the wallet is bulging and the mantissa of the bank card is getting longer and longer, you won't have any worries.
17. The secret of success is not difficult, but it is actually very simple. That is to keep doing one thing.
Perseverance is very important. If you want to succeed, you should do one thing perfectly. At that time, you can enjoy the bonus of time and feel the taste of success.
18. Don't leave all the bad feelings to the closest people.
Parents will always be the best people for you, and they will treat you unconditionally in this life. Our attitude towards outsiders is often a humble attitude. However, the people who are most important to themselves are always shouting, ignoring their feelings and their care and care. When my parents were dying, I found it was too late to sell half of them. Be sure to remember to leave your bad mood to your closest family.
Conclusion Society is a complex dye vat, everyone is a passer-by of society, and everyone is also the protagonist in his own life circle. But the key is to know how to grow and forge hard in the experience of society and teach us truth and experience.
Through the big stage of society, I learned to be optimistic and learn to learn. But this cruel society is enough to destroy me. Do you still have childhood dreams?