If you also have some life puzzles, you might as well take a good look at Do You Know and savor the truth, which may give you some enlightenment in life. Today, I will share with you 10 truths that I think are very reasonable. They are classic and sharp, and every sentence pokes the heart.
Sometimes blindly giving in can make people feel weak. Ming Lan's mother is like this. Because he had no family protection and no personality, he kept fighting for it, so he was finally killed. If he can keep some tricks, like Wei, maybe the ending will be different.
Keep a low profile and don't completely expose yourself. When Ming Lan was young, his mother might not have been noticed by Mrs. Lin if she hadn't been conspicuous. At that time, her mother, a little lady, once told Ming Lan that everything should be restrained. However, after making a big splash, her father went to the little lady's yard, which made little lady Lin jealous.
In ancient times, it was reasonable for a woman to want arrogance. Either the woman's family has a background, or the woman's husband dotes on her, and Miss Lin is the latter. It is because of Ming Lan's father's love for Miss Lin that Miss Lin is even more lawless. At that time, Mrs. Lin deliberately made things difficult for Mrs. Wei, and later killed Mrs. Wei and the child in her belly. Everyone can see this, but Ming Lan's father can't.
Maybe Ming Lan's father knows everything, but he likes Mrs. Lin Wei very much, so even though Mrs. Lin did these things, he still defended her. So it is because I love her that I indulge him to do some lawless things.
Even if the whole world will abandon you, there will still be someone who will bring you warmth. When Ming Lan lost her mother, she had no father's love, but she had a grandmother who loved her very much. It can be said that grandma has been taking care of her since her mother died, adding a touch of warmth to her gloomy childhood.
Don't always say it's all fate. If you don't put it on your head, life will put it on your head. This sentence, from the mouth of Ming Lan, contains too many meanings. I like Ming Lan best, but I also sympathize with Ming Lan most. She is a child who has lost her mother and can't get the love of her father. Although she was blessed by her grandmother, she still had to hide her ability to grow up safely.
However, although she looks silly and aloof, she is actually the most thoughtful woman. She studies hard to improve her ability, and makes herself a blockbuster when she has the ability to turn over against the wind. My fate has doomed me. This sentence is vividly reflected in Ming Lan. Although fate is unfair, she has never resigned herself to fate, but has been trying to control her life.
Many people like to blame fate for everything that goes wrong, but in fact they are just making excuses for themselves. At this time, please remember Sheng, fight for yourself and fight again. I believe that as long as you don't give up, there is still the possibility of your life turning over against the wind.
Secular lovers, who are easily injured by too much entanglement, had better live a quiet and vague life. Ming Lan has always been very rational about her feelings, especially after the Qi Heng incident, and she has no extravagant hopes for her feelings. Although Gu made concessions to her in all aspects, at first she put on a cold and quiet look, which made Gu very helpless.
In fact, I know Ming Lan very well. Women who have been hurt in their feelings will yearn for and resist their feelings. They hope to meet a bosom friend who knows how to be warm and cold, and they are afraid of disappointment and injury. Therefore, I would rather spend my life with a similar person than devote myself vigorously and get completely injured.
Although this does not apply to everyone, it reminds us that feelings cannot be warm forever, especially marriage, which always moves from passion to calm. We must face this reality and accept it in order to be happier and longer.
Being with people for decades still depends on whether you can stand it at the lowest point. Anyone who has seen it says that they like Ming Lan's view of marriage and love very much, especially this sentence, which resonates with many people. Because before this, most people's three views were, to see how good a person is, only Ming Lan did the opposite, telling us that being with others for a lifetime is actually the lowest point of each other.
Yes, when you understand a person's problems and see his worst side, you still feel acceptable, and you have a firm belief to go through this life with him, so no matter what problems you encounter in the future, you can join hands. But if you only see the bright side of this person now, then with the deepening of contact, you will fall into the abyss of regret after slowly discovering the problems of this person.
Moreover, some people only see the good side of each other and ignore some shortcomings that break through their own bottom line, such as derailment and domestic violence, so they will definitely not be happy in the future.
You can't control people's mouths, as the saying goes, if you look at them for a long time, you will see their hearts. I have always felt that being alive and being strong inside is more important than anything else. Ming Lan, a young girl, has a strong heart because she has experienced the most.
On the matter of Qi Heng, she became the laughing stock of everyone. Everyone says that she is "wishful thinking", but she wants to do what she wants and live her life well. Old lady Shengjia is worried about her, but she says she doesn't care what others say, and she won't stop her life because of a man. She also believes that after a long time, this matter will naturally pass and will definitely be seen.
I think in real life, we should also learn from Ming Lan's good attitude and live a good life, no matter what others say, because you can never stop talking. Only by managing your life like Ming Lan and learning to look forward at any time can you live a better life.
Eyes in front, look forward. Once in this world, you should live a good life. I admire Sheng not only for her strength, but also for her determination. After knowing that it was impossible for him and Qi Heng, Ming Lan only allowed himself to be secretly annoyed, then put it down completely and started to move on.
Although Qi Heng came to you again later, although Ming Lan would still cry because of Qi Heng's confession, she was determined not to look back. She said that people must learn to look forward. Yes, there are too many people, especially women, who always like to miss the past. It is easier to go back when their predecessors have expressed something, but what is the final outcome? How many people can be truly happy?
I want to tell you that let bygones be bygones. If it was really yours, he wouldn't have left in the first place. As Ming Lan said, people came into this world to live a good life. Don't always dwell on pain and struggle, wasting your precious time, it's not worth it.
The right person must be waiting for you in front. Look ahead and keep going, then you can embrace your happiness.
The way of life is to come and go. No one can help you all your life. Learn to think for yourself. Ming Lan grew up without his mother's care, and his father didn't love himself. Although she has a grandmother, she can't stay with her all her life, so she learned to plan for herself early. Of course, this is what she has to learn. But we can see that it is precisely because of Ming Lan's personality that he can control his life at any time when he grows up.
After Moran made a big mistake, she refused to let the old lady of Shengjia wronged herself to ask for relatives. She said she had savings and it didn't matter if she didn't get married. After the old lady Shengjia was killed, she insisted on seeking justice for her grandmother, even if she offended the whole family, even if she had no family to rely on in the future.
Can say such a thing, because Ming Lan knows that she can live well without anyone. I think this is a woman's ability to make herself happy. As a woman, you must learn from Ming Lan's wisdom and transparency, think for yourself early, and don't expect anyone. Only in this way can you be calm and confident.
There are too many philosophies in Do You Know? Maybe we can't learn them all, but I think it's good as long as a few can have a positive impact on our lives or give us a warning. I hope that after learning these truths, you can be like Saint Minglan. No matter what you have experienced, your future life will be smooth and happy.