After all, we are all ordinary people, so why force ourselves? On the road of life, learn to shake hands with life and make peace with yourself. That's all that matters.
There is a classic line in Farewell My Concubine: "People should make their own living".
The easiest person to let go of himself is not others but himself, and the most difficult person to let go of himself is himself. Everyone is a lonely person, but he naturally likes to be busy. When you are young, you have to struggle with this, but when you are old, you have to learn to compromise with yourself. After all, life always goes on.
Reconciliation with life, accept their own ordinary.
When I was a child, I thought I must have my own house when I grow up. I have to buy it in full. It's spacious enough and the decoration is very advanced. But when I grow up, I find that my thoughts are full and my reality is very skinny. I thought I would get ahead, but I found myself spinning around in the same place, so I inherited the inherent concept of being a rare person, and at the same time, I followed the rules and accepted my own ordinary.
The so-called love of life, I think, is probably to love as always after discovering the gloom of life.
In ordinary life, discover the surprises brought by life.
As I grow older, the more I find ordinary value. I also understand more and more how important it is to reconcile with myself. I gradually found that nine times out of ten, life is unsatisfactory, and a perfect life does not exist at all. Hit the south wall and never look back. After being defeated by life again and again, I realized that ordinary living is also a kind of happiness and the best gift given by fate.
Accept your own ordinary, shake hands with life, and reconcile with yourself, so that you can live a happy life, find happiness in the life of daily necessities, and get happiness in the world.
Reconciliation and self-reconstruction with family of origin.
In life, every family has its own problems more or less. For example, we have lived with our parents since childhood, ranging from ten or twenty years to decades. Today, it is impossible for us to act and think without the influence of our parents. We should learn to reconcile with family of origin, reinterpret our parents, dissect ourselves and rebuild ourselves.
Reconciliation with the body makes everything possible.
Health is the capital of revolution. Without a good body, everything is zero, but in today's fast-paced life, no one has ever cared about health, but is crazy about overdraft. Only when the body sends an alarm signal will it regret it.
I remember when I was working in Beijing on July 8th, 2065438, my colleague Xiaoxing visited each other in see you on monday after work on Friday. When I arrived at the company on Monday morning, I heard from another colleague that he was in hospital. On Sunday, he couldn't get out of bed and was taken to the hospital by his roommate. Later, I went to the hospital to visit and said that I had a gastroscope, which was particularly uncomfortable. He can hardly eat at first, and can only eat liquid food for a while. After leaving the hospital, I went home to recuperate for a while, and then I ate on time every day, and I won't settle down again.
Some people are lucky enough to wake up, and some people will never wake up.
The same company is also a colleague. Because he is often in the headquarters and I am in the branch office, I have never met him. At the regular meeting on Monday, the leader told me that he left early in the morning. Suddenly, there are two more children at home. Although I have never met before, my heart is cold when I hear the bad news.
Stop overdrawing your body and live in peace with it! Everything in the world is mutual. If you overdraw your body, you will be severely punished by your body.
Only when you are healthy can you have more opportunities to realize your life value.
Reconciliation with intimate relationships can make families happy.
Two people from different families combine together and have different views and ways of doing things in life. When you accept this person, it means that you accept everything about this person, his family background, his brothers and sisters.
It is inevitable that there will always be an intersection with him, born in a family, brothers and sisters, and with the intersection, a series of problems will arise. On these issues, mutual opinions will be mutually exclusive. You can't always stand your ground without compromise unless you want to end this marriage and move on after the quarrel. It is better to reconcile, make way for each other and leave room for yourself.
Learn to shake hands with life and make peace with yourself. Those once unwilling, past grievances and sufferings will pass.
My heart is heaven. Once I miss hell, I hope each of us can learn to reconcile with ourselves and be treated gently by the world.