From the present point of view, there are real realities in life, but what we see is not the reality in busy life, because when we perceive the world, we rely on our five senses and desires, usually our own consciousness and emotions lead us forward.
So in this world, if you can't adjust your heart, even the only moment in your life is easily ignored by us, and you just live in your inner vanity, then you really live like a puppet.
The most correct idea is not to cling to any moment, follow the fate, do not make any entanglements, and do not encourage thieves with lust consciousness because of their own prejudice.
There is a story in Zhuangzi, which is the best interpretation of this state.
Once upon a time, Zhuangzi had a dream in which he became a butterfly. Butterfly dancing, carefree, Zhuangzi tasted his ease and pride when flying, completely forgetting that he was Zhuangzi.
Suddenly this dream woke up, and he returned to Zhuangzi's identity from Magic Butterfly. At that time, his heart thumped, then he was surprised and confused. He didn't know whether he had turned into a butterfly in his dream or whether the sober Zhuangzi was another dream.
But then Zhuangzi let it go, because both in the dream and in itself, it is the result of life illusion.
Just like thousands of scenes in this world, except the present moment that can be grasped in the hand, everything is just illusory, but unfortunately, how many people in this world can wake up from this illusion and see through the result of this dream?
Life is like a play, and a play is like life. In this short period of decades, we can take the role's current fate seriously, but don't be too obsessed with the role, because after the play, each of us will lose face.
Life comes to an extreme, which can be summarized in four words: fate.
There are too many things in life that we can't control. Apart from our attitude towards life, many things we can control will not change according to our own wishes, and even the harder we work, the more passive we become.
And "following fate" is the best attitude towards all these uncertainties, because it is uncertain, so it is not forced.
We can work hard, but accept the unchangeable fact of life; There is no lack of initiative in my heart to make my life better gradually, but I don't deliberately force myself to pursue perfection.
While "forgiving" life, you can also "let go" yourself.
Only by conforming to fate and everything, and facing the world of mortals with the attitude of dance academy after hard work, can we move forward better in this world of mortals.