Listen to what others say and you can force yourself to be excellent. I believe it. I force myself to write more than two thousand words every day. But after insisting on it for more than a year, I couldn't see any gratifying changes. Instead, the days became worse and worse. So I couldn't help but wonder, did I drink poisonous chicken soup? A year ago I was just poor, but now I am heavily in debt and feel like I am about to collapse.

A famous writer can point to a pile of scrap papers in the corner and say that it is a testimony of his hard work and how he finally became a master. Then, once again emphasize the so-called persistence is victory. Failed authors have cleaned up their manuscripts long ago, not wanting to leave any traces and fearing that reading them will bring back painful memories. Taking the experiences of successful people as a guide is often the beginning of failure. Many people still don't understand the principle of winning a king and losing a bandit. It is not victory because of persistence, but persistence that makes sense when victory is achieved. The meaning of this sentence can only be inferred, not understood along the way.

When we say one-minded, it means being unable to adapt, and it can also be understood as stubbornness. If you persist, there will be results. Many things cannot be explained. Those losers don't sleep all the time. For example, love is not a one-sided infatuation that will win the return you want. After all, it is just an idiom. People who take it seriously are stupid, because change is the nature of human beings. If you have found that it is not suitable and it is difficult to move forward, what is the reason for not giving up? Do you have to spend all your life on wrong choices to die a worthy death?

Chairman Mao said that without investigation, there is no right to speak. The reality is often that losers have no say, even if you can tell others why they failed. Compared with success, failure is something people avoid and avoid. Who is in the mood to listen to you talk about your own failure experience? Another hidden iron rule is that success cannot be copied. However, some people do the opposite and say that success can be copied. In fact, they have their own little calculation: they are promoting the books they have written, expanding their popularity and influence, and completely benefiting themselves, not doing business. contribute.

Life lasts for decades, which forces us to not invest too much time in one thing. When no corresponding reward is obtained, useless efforts must be terminated promptly. Just like falling in love, if a flower blooms in your humble dust and no one else is willing to take a look, it is better to give up as soon as possible. Not asking for anything in return is not in line with human nature. If you give up your seat to someone else on the bus, and they sit down without even saying thank you, you will most likely feel a little unhappy. We have been deceived by too many seemingly noble quotes. When you plant flowers, you want to see them bloom; when you plant grass, you want to see the grass turn green. How can you not ask for anything in return?

There is also that sentence, "I can do what others can do," which is completely illogical. Others fly airplanes, why don't you try it? Others can do backflips, why don't you do it? There is no comparison between people, and vegetables and radishes cannot be substituted for each other, even though they are both vegetables. Many people use these words to inspire them to move forward, until they waste a lot of time. It's not difficult to turn back, but it's difficult to be unwilling and would rather hit the wall until you die.

Many famous sayings passed down are taken out of context and appear to be the essence, but in fact they are misleading. If you are not sure of the origin and meaning of the words, you would rather believe that the pig is the tree than the fancy sayings. When I was in high school, there was a famous quote beside the classroom podium: Books are the ladder of human progress. Isn't this nonsense? Bookworms are harmed by books. If all you read are useless books, where will progress come from? Obviously, the function of books has been exaggerated. And there is no distinction between good and bad books.

In the era of self-media, writing ability has been greatly praised. Many people are actually excited about the few cents they have gained. Just because this is their first royalties. Even if you spend several hours writing an article and can't get a single steamed bun, you still have no regrets. If God is not moved by this persistence, how can we get people to believe in Christianity?

There are so many writers across the country, how many of them can live a prosperous life purely by writing? If you also use the phrase "I can do what others can do" to encourage yourself, it is simply a desperate gamble. The result may not be a grand slam, but heavy losses.

If you fail, you can try again. Time cannot be repeated. Blind persistence is a waste of years and time. You can continue to fantasize, and the end of life will only get closer and closer. The most practical attitude is to start from reality. If you can't see the return, don't persevere.