When taking the subway, if you get on a shuttle bus, you need to get off the bus halfway, then clear the place and wait for the next bus.
After getting off the bus, I lined up first (one of the two columns), and an old man got off behind me. After getting off the bus, he lined up directly in front of me. There were about 7 or 8 people behind me. I didn’t know him. Didn't he realize that he had to go to the back, so I lightly tapped his shoulder and told him to go to the back.
He looked at the crowd behind him and felt that being asked to go to the back hurt his face (presumably), and then he started scolding me, saying that I poked him, that I was rude, incompetent, and stupid* I said all kinds of dirty words, and everyone could see who I said was rude and incompetent. It was me who cut in line and I was incompetent. He kept cursing when he moved back. I rushed to work and didn't continue to argue with him, but I felt quite unhappy.
ps: Regardless of whether he is in the front or the back, there are almost no seats when the next bus comes. But in his mind, he felt that everyone should queue up, so he subconsciously reminded him. Regardless of other occasions, if I personally didn't realize that I was in front of someone else, and someone took a photo of me or reminded me, I would say sorry and consciously move to the back.
I rarely argue with people, and I don’t know how to curse. If others scold me, I usually scold me back with my exact words. How should I retaliate against such a person? When I meet a garbage person, what should I do? What kind of curse words can you use? Don't use the kind of docile ones. It's better to use easy-to-use and down-to-earth words.
If someone jumps in line, you can scold him like this:
1. You must have enough confidence. When someone cuts in line, you need to know that he has done something wrong and does not know the basic qualities. You want to help him correct his mistakes and educate him. You have to confirm your position and tell him bravely that jumping in line is wrong and you cannot lack confidence.
02 Remind loudly but calmly. The purpose of being loud is to draw everyone's attention to him and make him feel ashamed. It should be noted that speaking loudly can often aggravate emotions, so the voice should be as calm as possible to prevent the other party from feeling like they are being scolded.
03 Peace of mind. Keep a tolerant attitude and don't get angry. This will only make the other party angry and often lead to more serious consequences. You must maintain inner peace. No matter what, it is always the person who jumped in line who did something wrong. You just need to correct him.
04Tough attitude. People who jump in line are often those with a thick skin. People like this will jump in line as if nothing has happened. Many people will choose to give in because of this. However, blindly giving in often leads to more rampant queue jumping. So we have to have a tough attitude. If the person who cuts in line keeps refusing to let go, then we have to stand directly in front of him.
Polite scolding for jumping in line:
1. Please don’t jump in line for the sake of order. Everyone has worked hard to queue up and have been waiting for a long time. If there is anything important Can I tell you what happened and don’t jump in line as if nothing is wrong? I believe everyone is a qualified person and would not do this.
2. People who violate public order lack public morality. Everyone dislikes queue-jumping. As for me, if someone cuts in line, I will firmly object. I don't agree with him cutting in front of me. I will remind him and let him line up.
3. All people should consciously abide by public order and have an obligation to help maintain public order. When you see others deliberately disrupting public order, you should bravely tell them to line up behind you. You can never go wrong by adhering to principles.