1, a friend of a gentleman is as light as water. You have something to do, but nothing to do.
I used to hear people say that my family is harmonious and my sister-in-law is intimate, so I will be particularly envious. Later, I had a family and experienced the relationship with my sister-in-law, only to know that it was a lie. What is intimacy? Sister-in-law can't be intimate because it involves interests. She has her own career, and I have my own little thoughts, so I can stay out of it every day. Our sister-in-law gets along well, because my sister-in-law is too polite and sophisticated, and I always lag behind others. I am a down-to-earth person, and it is easy to rack my brains to calculate others, which really gives me a headache. So my mother-in-law often says that she likes my honesty and frankness. As a sister-in-law, I feel that a friend of a gentleman is as light as water when I have something to do and nothing to do.
2. Eliminate and walk normally.
The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is that as long as the things on the face are done well, then the sister-in-law should stay out of it, walk normally in the world, and other things will be fine. Needless to say, you need to know the privacy of your family. The contradiction between sisters-in-law is nothing more than sharing the property of the elderly. You have more, I have less, and everyone will have bad feelings. An old man's bowl of water can't be completely flat, so there will always be someone who suffers. Just do it with your conscience.
The principle I follow in my life is that you respect me one foot and I respect you one foot. If you don't bully me, I won't bully you. If you think I am stupid and want to bully me, I will fight you to the end even if I put all my eggs in one basket. If you don't care about your family first and don't respect me, why should I respect you?