Jerome David Salinger, an American writer, his famous novel "The Catcher in the Rye" is considered one of the classic works of American literature in the twentieth century.

1. Remember what should be remembered and forget what should be forgotten. Change what can be changed and accept what cannot be changed.

2. Growing up is a inevitable process for people.

3. The sign of an immature man is that he is willing to die heroically for a certain cause; the sign of a mature man is that he is willing to live humbly for a certain cause.

4. We do live a difficult life. We have to withstand all kinds of external pressures, and we also have to face our own inner confusions. When you are struggling, if someone looks at you with understanding, you will feel the warmth of life. Perhaps just a brief glance is enough to make me excited.

5. Some people think that love is sex, marriage, a kiss at six o'clock in the morning, and a bunch of children. Maybe it is, Miss Lester. But you know what I think, I think love wants to touch and then pulls back.

6. You must realize which direction you want to develop, and then you must start in that direction, immediately. You can't afford to waste another second of your time, you can't afford to waste it.

7. For a person, they are destined to look for things that their surroundings cannot provide from time to time throughout their lives, or they think that their surroundings cannot provide them, so they give up searching, and they are even still looking for things. I gave up before really starting to look for it.

8. I can’t tell what I mean. Even if I say it clearly, I'm afraid I won't necessarily mean it.

9. Be sure to marry someone who has the same sense of humor as you.

10. When I love you

I look up to you with a thousand reasons

But you appear with the mark of a flying bird

In the starry sky I look up to

You carved the roaring beauty for me

Tonight the stars are like fireworks in the sky

The little waiting keeps me awake all night long

You are like a trap in my world

I am willing to experience the thrill of free fall

11. Happiness should be accompanied by sadness, and the sky should be sunny after the rain. If it is still rain after rain, if it is still sadness after sadness, please let us face the parting after parting calmly. Smile and look for an impossible you.

12. No matter what you do, if you do it too well, you will show off unintentionally if you are not careful. Then you're not that good anymore.

13. Although I live in this world, I do not belong to this world.

14. Life is a ball game and you have to play according to the rules.

15. I often say "Nice to meet you" to others even though I am not happy to see them at all.

16. All wimps hate others calling them wimps. I think love means wanting to touch and then withdrawing your hand

1. Everything you have learned, every suffering you have suffered, will come in handy at some point in your life. ---Penelope Fitzgerald, "Offshore"

2. Your burdens will become gifts, and your suffering will light your way. ---Tagore

3. Fairy tales influenced by European culture, no matter how tragic the beginning, often cannot escape a vulgar ending; romantic relationships bred from Asian culture, no matter how tragic the ending, No matter how sad and creative you are, you can't escape a bloody beginning. ---Tang Qi Gongzi "Her Name is Ling Xiaolu Future"

4. It's okay to take risks, but when taking risks, don't bet all your property. ---Soros

5. If a person wants to work hard, the motivation does not come from respect, but from fear. ---Michael Dobbs "House of Cards"

6. I admire this kind of girl: when she finds out that the other person doesn't really like her, she can break up with her immediately and easily. Other women may continue to lie to themselves and struggle alone. A truly wise girl understands what love is: love requires mutual pleasure. If you love him and he doesn't love you, the relationship is meaningless. To let go is to love yourself. Be patient and wait for the person who truly loves you.

7. A strong person is not what he conquers, but what he can endure. ---Chai Jing's "Seeing"

8. If your heart changes, your attitude will change; if your attitude changes, your habits will change; if your habits change, your character will change; if your character changes, your personality will change. Life changes accordingly. ---Abraham Maslow

9. An honest lifestyle is actually to act according to the wishes of your body, eat when you are hungry, and do not lie when you love. ---Marquez "Love in the Time of Cholera"

10. Anything can always become simple as long as you are willing. ---Annie Baby's "Flowers of the Other Side"

11. Memory is not important.

Memory is just the remnant left behind when an individual passes by everything. ---Qiao Jingfu "Vampire Hunter: Gorgeous Demon Killing Group"

12. I just want to find someone to live a normal life, without troubles, but without sadness. When mosquitoes bully me, I Even if he was pushed out to ward off the mosquitoes, he would not dare to say no. ---Zhang Xiaoxian "My Love is So Spicy"

13. People attribute my success to my genius, but in fact my genius is just hard work. ---Einstein

14. I hope that the epitaph after death can be engraved with confidence: work hard all your life, be loved all your life, have everything you want, and let go of everything you can’t get. ---August Chang'an

15. Some people think that love is sex, marriage, a kiss at six o'clock in the morning, and a bunch of children. Maybe it is true, Miss Lester. But you know what I think, I think love wants to touch and then pulls back. ---Salinger "The Broken Heart"

16. It will be sad to be ignored by someone you care about very much, and what is even sadder is that you have to pretend that you don't care. ---Anonymous

17. I have always believed that all noble emotions are too shy to express, and all profound experiences are too difficult to express with words. ---Zhou Guoping

18. The bitterer the wine glass of fate is, the more we should smile to others so that those who watch calmly will not be unhappy with our sad faces. ---Goethe "Goethe's Autobiography"

19. Excessive hope will naturally produce extreme disappointment. ---Borges "The Library of Babel"

20. If you care about other people's evaluations, either you don't stand high enough, or you are doing Taobao. ---"Yi Lin" Love is wanting to touch again but letting go and taking it back

Love is wanting to touch again but letting go and taking it back

People become fragile when they are fragile If you don't feel safe, you will become sensitive and have random thoughts, especially when you encounter someone you care about. Therefore, you can only gain peace of mind by making yourself independent and strong.

When a person is looking at the sky, he is not looking for anything, he is just lonely.

Girls’ disappointment comes from all the things you said. The last time I will never do it again, I won’t be like this anymore, and you are still the same as before. There is no change at all, but no one can tolerate your immaturity. You will never grow up if you can bear it

Don’t show off when you are proud, and don’t be discouraged when you are frustrated. Flowers never bloom for a hundred days, and people never fade for a hundred days. Three points depend on luck, and seven points depend on oneself. Just work hard and do your best. The result is not the final goal. The experience of the process is the most real feeling. Life is like this, the more you want something, it often doesn’t come until you stop chasing it.

I used to be very happy when I could send messages on my mobile phone. Now I bought it not long ago, but I like the new model that just came out. I used to be very satisfied with clothes made of comfortable fabrics. Now I read fashion magazines every day, but I find that I don’t like ordinary styles but fashion ones. I can’t afford to buy anymore. I used to be happy when I had sweets to eat. Now all kinds of desserts are delicious, but I worry about losing weight. I used to be happy playing hide and seek with friends with slingshots. Now I feel that singing karaoke is boring and watching movies is too boring. The world has changed, or have we?

< p> If every sentence of sorry could be replaced by a sentence of "it's okay", there wouldn't be so many swear words in the world. Many times, although others say it's okay, in fact, it's just because of human feelings, and this is often the case. Some ignorant people think that when others say it doesn't matter, it really means it doesn't matter. If they continue to make the same mistake in the future, don't use your stupidity as an excuse. No one can forgive you for the rest of your life.

Someone has said that there are two simplest things in the world, one is to spend other people's money, and the other is to criticize other people's things. People who can take out mud at any time and smear it on other people's faces also have mud in their pockets.

Give yourself time, don’t be anxious, take it step by step, day by day. Please believe that the resilience of life is amazing, cooperate with your own upward heart, and don’t give up on loving yourself.

You can love the wrong three or five scumbags, but you cannot love the same scumbag three or five times. Taking the wrong path may be due to bad luck, but always jumping into a pit is a sign of poor IQ. Salinger's famous quotes

Salinger's famous quotes

1. I think suffering because you cannot love is hell. The fragments of life, they are light and small, but they leave people covered with bruises, and there is a situation that tells us that any ordinary life extends to fear.

2. I am going through a stage. Everyone will go through certain stages, right?

3. The only difference between happiness and happiness is that happiness is solid and happiness is fluid.

4. God, I wish you were here.

5. Some people think that love is sex, marriage, a kiss at six o'clock in the morning, and a bunch of children. Maybe it is, Miss Lester. But you know what I think? I think love is wanting to touch and then withdrawing.

6. I mean, the children are running wildly and don’t know where they are running. I have to come out from somewhere and catch them. That's what I do all day long. I just want to be a catcher in the rye.

I know this is a bit fanciful, but this is what I really like to do.

7. Guess what one wall says to the other wall? The answer is: See you around the corner.

8. It's not that easy to knock someone unconscious, except in those goddam movies.

9. The thing is, every time you try to do something with a girl and I mean not a prostitute or something like that, nine times out of ten she will tell you to stop. My problem is, every time I stop. Most men don't. But I can't help myself. You're never sure if they really want you to stop, or if they're scared to death, or if they want you to stop on purpose. If you do do it, then the fault will be all on you and they can get away with it.

10. There is a kind of very beautiful guy, or a kind of person who thinks he is great. They always ask others to do him a big favor. Because they love themselves crazily, they think that everyone loves them crazily and everyone is eager to work for them. It's actually kind of funny to say it.

11. No matter what you do, if you do it too well, you will show off unintentionally if you are not careful. In that case, you are no longer good.

12. Having a deeply loved person is the shortcut key to realizing your ideal: he is the starting point of all your dreams, he is the center of all your thoughts, he is the beginning of all your plans, he is your The goal of all efforts. You will find that your path is no longer complicated and becomes single and fulfilling. You know for sure that he's on the other end. Even if you can't find him in the end, you are surprised that you have completed the entire journey. Original intention is so important.

13. Herein lies the trouble. You will never find a comfortable, peaceful place because such a place does not exist. You may think there is such a place, but when you get there, if you don't pay attention, someone will sneak in and write the word "X" under your nose. If you don’t believe it, you can try it.

14. The sign of a man's immaturity is that he is willing to sacrifice his life tragically for a certain cause; the sign of a man's maturity is that he is willing to live humbly for a certain cause.

15. Never talk to anyone about anything. As soon as you talk about it, you will think of everyone.

16. Fucking money. It always makes you terribly sad in the end.

17. This is what girls are so funny about. When you meet a pure bastard like that, he is very despicable, or very arrogant. Every time you mention it to the girls, they will say that he has an inferiority complex. The problem with girls is that if they like someone, no matter how dirty he is. If they don't like a bastard, they'll always say he has an inferiority complex; and if they don't like him, no matter how good a guy he is or how much of an inferiority complex he has, they'll always say he's arrogant. Even smart girls are not immune.

18. I don’t care whether it is a sad farewell or an unhappy farewell. As long as I leave a place, I always hope that I know what I am leaving.

19. Be generous and generous and never give up! There is no absolute fairness in the world, fairness only exists at one point. When your heart is at peace, the world will be at peace. Learn to give others opportunities. Ranking and honor are like clouds in the sky. You cannot lie down on them. If you lie down, they will fall down. The sign of a man's immaturity is that he is willing to die tragically for a certain cause; the sign of a man's maturity is that he is willing to live humbly for a certain cause.

20. I still didn’t sleep. Someone has murdered sleep. Not a bad job.

21. Her heart is as soft as a fucking wolf. Those who cry their goddam eyes out when they see some fake thing in a movie are nine times out of ten despicable bastards at heart.

22. I like Jesus and stuff, but I’m mostly not interested in other stuff in the Bible. Take the Twelve Apostles, for example. They bore me to death, I tell you the truth. They were pretty good after Jesus died, but when Jesus was alive, their effect was like punching a hole in his head. They would only vent his anger. In my opinion, any character in the Bible is better than the Twelve Apostles.

23. The sign of an immature person is that he is willing to die spectacularly for a certain reason, while the sign of a mature person is that he is willing to live humbly for a certain reason.

24. Although I live in this world, I do not belong to this world.

25. We do live a difficult life. We have to withstand all kinds of external pressures, and we also have to face our own inner confusions. When you are struggling, if someone looks at you with understanding, you will feel the warmth of life. Perhaps just a brief glance is enough to make me excited.