Kindness is the greatest weapon. No matter how difficult people you meet and how difficult the situation is, kindness can always release magical power. We often say that "a drop of water wears a stone", strength is like a stone, and kindness is like water. Confrontation will lose both sides, while softness can achieve the desired effect as easily as blowing off dust.
The same is true of doing things and being a man. When dealing with people, don't be too self-centered, too strong, and be kind to others. At the end of the Qing Dynasty, Zuo, the minister, was kind and polite to his subordinates in his later years, and even was extremely tolerant of the faults of domestic servants, and his temper became softer and softer.
Life is not a game, there is no need to win or lose everything. Be a kind person, have a calm mind and know how to give in and show weakness. Everyone has his own thoughts and life. Don't try to change other people's lives, but learn to accept other people's different views and respect their choices.
Smart people can make a profit for a while, and kind people can enjoy a lifetime. If you care, you won't get a small profit, but if you are honest, you can win your heart with your heart. Strength is only a palliative, and kindness can solve the root of interpersonal problems. Wisdom is not as good as honesty, care is not as good as honesty, and strength is not as good as kindness.
Good people are also kind.