Shangde

The violet leaves its fragrance on the ankle that crushed it. This is tolerance!

Tolerance means being free and unrestrained.

“Green poplars everywhere are good for horses, and every family has a road to Chang’an.” Treating others generously and tolerating criticism is the way to a successful career and a happy family. Careful about everything, worried about gains and losses, life is too tiring, it is rare to live in this world, and the most important thing is to be free and unrestrained.

Tolerance is to forget.

Everyone has pain and scars. Every time you open them, you will create new ones. Old scars and new wounds are difficult to heal and only add to your worries. Forget yesterday's right and wrong, forget the romance your lover once had, forget other people's previous accusations, insults and even insults to you. Time is the best analgesic. Only when you learn to forget can there be sunshine and joy in life.

Tolerance is patience.

Criticisms from classmates, misunderstandings from friends, excessive arguments and "counterattacks" are not worthwhile. Only calmness, patience and understanding are the most important. I believe in this famous saying: "Tolerance is the grain that grows among thorns." Take the initiative to give in and the sky will be brighter.

Tolerance is insight.

The world is made up of contradictions, and no one or thing can be perfect. Whether it is "friends in need", "relatives and friends", "good marriage" or "model citizen", they are all relative terms. Their conflicts and distress are often concealed under the halo of success, and the tool used to conceal them is tolerance.

You don’t need to envy others, nor do you need to be harsh on yourself. Always look at the world, career, family and friendships from a tolerant perspective, so that everything you have can be stable and long-lasting.