A kind-hearted and pure-hearted person has one common feature, that is, kindness and kindness; Because there are good thoughts and no distractions, my face will not be ferocious. This is a face that cannot be concealed.
"At the beginning of life, the nature is good, the nature is similar, and they are far apart." The first two sentences say that people are originally kind and pure-hearted, and the third sentence also says that their temperament is similar, but the fourth sentence "Xi Xiangyuan" makes people differ greatly; It is precisely because of "learning from each other" that people gradually become unrecognizable. Many changes between people come from "learning" and many differences come from "learning". From this perspective, learning is a very important link in one's life. Therefore, we say: people need to constantly experience themselves, constantly revise themselves, and constantly learn, progress and grow, in order to make themselves full of wisdom.
Some time ago, I met one of my former students. In my impression, he is a good student with excellent academic performance. In his words, he worshipped me at school ... so, after decades of small achievements, he wanted to see me. I didn't react at first sight, (maybe I brought more students, especially for decades, and my memories are not easy to connect. I just feel that a well-dressed, polite and gentle handsome boy appears in front of me. I welcomed him into the living room, entertained him with tea, and exchanged pleasantries after taking a seat. Then, after listening to his own entrepreneurial experience, I feel that he has matured a lot and has his own unique opinions. No wonder he has a successful career. He seems to be a person who can sum up gains and losses. As time went on, the second tea-making began to fade, and the content of the chat deepened a lot ... Just listening to him say: Teacher, I have been practicing what you taught us before, and I really benefited a lot; Just one thing, as I get more and more mature, I don't think it's right, that is, "I must be warm and humble to people." At first, I did as you said, but I was left out in the cold and bullied everywhere ... Now, I want to change, and I don't want to be the one who keeps people away everywhere. ...
After listening to his statement, I felt a little sad for no reason. Although I don't know what he experienced, I think he obviously didn't really understand what I called "enthusiasm and humility".
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Enthusiasm: no flattery, no bow, … Enthusiasm is sunshine, self-confidence, openness, divergent positive energy, and full of love …
Modesty: Don't just be Nuo Nuo, don't please others unprincipled ... It's mind, courage, courage, compassion, low eyebrows after victory, and tolerance of the big picture. ...
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After I interpreted what I called "enthusiasm and humility" for him, I asked him: Do you still want to give it up? Isn't your success now due to these practices? Aren't you afraid that you will give up all this and go downhill?
In fact, living in this world, who hasn't experienced compromise when necessary? His problem lies not in "enthusiasm and humility" itself, but in his misunderstanding of "enthusiasm and humility", which leads to problems in the control of "degree". Too much and too little is not good, everything should be moderate.
After listening to my words, he said happily, "Thank you for coming to see my tutor with gratitude. It really benefited a lot. I'm glad you came." In fact, being able to listen to others' words just shows that he is brilliant in years of experience.
Heaven and earth have a kind and pure feeling in their hearts. To keep this kind and pure, we must cultivate good habits. Many habits come from the day after tomorrow and are summed up after each experience. It's true that "one short step makes a long regret". However, in daily life, we often ignore the summary and correction of mistakes because things are not big, which leads to a little deviation from the line; Promoting the situation from quantitative change to qualitative change is the real reason for "learning from each other's strengths". If "learning" can always remain above kindness and purity, and discard the false and retain the true, our life will be sunny. Therefore, we need to have a firm belief, keep a good attitude every day, deal with things around us patiently and meticulously, and correct our ideological line in time. ...
"The bottom of my heart is selfless, the world is wide", and those who feel kind and pure in their hearts are truly rich.
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