I don't like being teased in front of you.

Others are stronger than you, envious and jealous.

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Buddhism stresses greed, ignorance and three poisons, and ordinary people can't get rid of this psychological bondage. Why?

After reading it, you will find that this is the same as greed!

For example, you especially like to eat fish. In fact, you don't know that what you like is not fish, but the taste stimulated by fish. Fish is just a prop to stimulate your taste. You are greedy when you see others eating fish. This greed is like jealousy when you see others better than you. What should I do if I want to eat fish You will try to rob each other's fish. There is a wrong idea of "robbing fish if you want to", and then there is the behavior of robbing fish!

Jealousy, greed ... all arouse your heart, then move your heart and act!

As long as it starts from the heart, it all stems from the persistence of something!

Holding is prejudice, holding is emotion!

It is not so much a weakness in the heart as a cognitive prejudice and obsession!

Because of persistence, I was kidnapped by something that insisted! This is the mechanism that triggers people's behavior!

Obsession will lead to your inner weakness!

Why?

Because "persistence" is preference and preference is emotion, as long as you cling to something, you will feel the emotion brought by persistence;

For example, when you see others eating fish, you feel like eating;

When you insist, as long as this thing appears, it will stimulate your prejudice and produce emotional feelings, just like a switch, as long as it appears, it will light you up; (Application: This is what marketing is all about! Knowing this principle, you will know how to drive people! )

The heart is in line with the Tao, and the heart is not lacking, because persistence is lacking! One yin and one yang cried, yang appeared, and yin also appeared! The more you cling to something, the more you don't want it; This is why practitioners should quit.

The greater the desire, the weaker the heart and the weaker the pursuit, forming an endless cycle, which is the reason why people's desires are endless;

Envy, jealousy and hatred are all caused by prejudice, just like clinging to the taste of that fish, leading to inner weakness!

So: scarcity comes from prejudice!

How is prejudice formed?

It is generally formed in the process of growth. The education of parents or schools is to teach you to seek the outside world, prove yourself and surpass others.

For example: a math problem that other students didn't work out. If you work it out, you will get praise and praise from your parents. You love the smell of praise. You find that teachers will praise you when you are better than other students! In order to keep getting this taste, you will prove that you are better than others, because you think that only by being better than others can you get this kind of praise and praise! Adults are still like this!

In this experience, there are two key points:

First, what is "strong"? You think that being better than others is "strong". Only when you are better than others can you get that awesome taste!

Second, you like the praise and the smell of praise brought by "strength", which is the key to your persistence here;

Because of these two points, an obsession has been formed!

Once the obsession is formed, it is equivalent to being controlled by foreign objects. A foreign object turned on your switch. Everyone is controlled by a foreign object, so it is unnecessary for the strong to say so! ?

We have more than one problem! Thousands!

Only by getting rid of the control of external things can we truly gain inner freedom and become a real strong person! # Wu #