Maybe some of your experiences gave you this idea, but I don't want to say how extreme your idea is, because it is in some ways. If you want to live better, you have to make yourself stronger. People can't live on the sympathy of others. The so-called "laughing at poverty rather than prostitution" also exists in some places, but it is not universal. "A gentleman loves money and has a good way to get it", but we still have to make peace through proper channels.