This kind of person is basically a spokesman for envy, jealousy and hatred. Looking at the female number two in Korean dramas in those years, nine times out of ten (of course, it's not just women here): they don't like anyone and they are jealous. If you are better than him, you will be jealous and crazy. If you are not as good as him, you will be severely laughed at.
In fact, we often have such people around us. Their specific performance is that subordinates are obedient to superiors, colleagues are duplicitous, couples provoke family relations, and neighbors make irresponsible remarks, and so on.
When they are more or less rational, they usually speak ill of their customers behind their backs and create rumors, but sometimes they can't stand it for a while and get angry in front of their customers. Such people's eyes are always fixed on other people's lives, not on the road under their feet. He is really stupid if he doesn't work hard and make progress, and he can't look down on others' goodness.
Some people go further. Their jealousy is not limited to words, but also supplemented by actions. It is extremely convenient for people who don't like it to do something difficult.
So how do you tell who is such a person? In fact, the ancients have summarized their characteristics for us. Zhuangzi said: A friendship between gentlemen is as light as water, but a friendship between villains is as sweet as water. ? What do you mean? In other words, people who are really nice to you don't support everything you say, but will give you valuable suggestions in time, while those with impure purposes will flatter you and cater to you in order to get what they want.
For example, if you are not only rich, but also average in appearance, figure and knowledge, a Gao Fushuai suddenly appears, indicating that you must live in this life. You mean he is afraid to go west. Why do you think this is?
Another example is a colleague of a company who has been telling you gossip and gossip about other colleagues and leaders in private. Will you believe her when she says that you two have the best relationship and will never tell anyone your secret?
So if you meet such a person, how should you deal with it? Let's have a trilogy: First, shut up, don't talk too much about yourself with them, and don't confront them head-on. After all, it is better to offend a gentleman than a villain. You are not as bad as them, sometimes you can't do it. Second, keep your eyes open. You can't have the heart to hurt people, and you can't have the heart to prevent people? Well said, such people are extremely selfish, and for their own purposes, they can plant and frame them by hook or by crook.
So be careful of the trap they set for you; The third is how far you can get away from it. This is not weakness, but disdain to agree. The wicked have their own grinding. This kind of self-destructive person generally has no great promise, and his popularity will only get worse and worse.
There is justice in the world, and if you do more injustice, you will die. May everyone be more gentlemen and less villains!