I'm afraid of fame, I'm overjoyed, I'll forgive you, and I'll gradually meet you.
-< Disciples >
The meaning of this sentence is: If a person is angry when others say his shortcomings, but happy when others praise him, then bad friends will come to you, while real good friends will gradually alienate and retreat. On the other hand, if you hear compliments from others, you will not get carried away, but will reflect on yourself, lest you do not do well enough and continue to work hard; When others criticize their own shortcomings, they are not only angry, but also receptive, so honest people will gradually like to be close to us.
children, when you associate with your friends at ordinary times, don't just listen to praise and ignore criticism! In the face of criticism, we should treat it correctly, so as to correct it if there is one, and encourage it if there is none. "That is to say, if there are shortcomings and mistakes pointed out by others, correct them, and if not, encourage yourself.