In fact, five independences is a practice without an end, a process, not an end.
In the five parts of this exercise, some scenery must be picked, and then, learn to live and love.
1, an independent girl who knows how to pay.
Why is independence important?
In high school, the Chinese teacher told us that Hu Shi said in his speech at Peking University:
You said you would fight for freedom. Freedom is about external constraints. Independence is your own business. If you are free, but not independent, you are still a slave. Independence means following blindly, not being deceived, not relying on the portal, and not relying on others. This is the spirit of independence.
This passage is simple and profound. Just like adolescent children, they yearn for a free life, but that is not yearning for independence; Many adults live as they please, not independently. The crux of the matter is that they are afraid of pain but want to be free.
Young girls who have not yet entered the society and tasted the world, if they want to be free, they must know dignity and self-confidence, which they earned.
The formation of independent values often depends on whether you are willing to bear hardships, and then you can understand a truth:
Paying may not be rewarded immediately, but not paying will not be rewarded. All your efforts will eventually become your blessings.
2. An independent girl will know more about loving and being loved.
American psychotherapist Parker said a word:
An important feature of love is that love and being loved are not accessories of each other. People who give true love should always regard the object of love as an independent individual and always respect each other's independence and growth.
Whether you love or be loved, the saddest thing is to be an accessory to your feelings.
Life is long, you must find a partner who respects you and appreciates your independence, not a man who helps you with one track mind. As the saying goes, a woman is a one-track mind of a man, but can she live alone without her body?
Don't be too proud of yourself. It is not easy for a person to meet someone who is kind to himself in this life. You must cherish it and don't try to make him give in to you. It's just a long time
People, the most taboo is to fall in love regardless of self-esteem in the days when they need to struggle most. The most regrettable thing is that in the middle age when it is most necessary to maintain a good young attitude, I completely devoted myself to marriage.
People who really love you will not choose to let you lose yourself, and people who know how to love will not be willing to give up their souls for you.
3. Independent girls will understand life better.
When my sister first went to Shanghai, she took care of herself alone, and she never really lived alone in a strange city. That time made her very nervous.
She said that during that time, she was confused, didn't eat well, didn't have a good look at the city.
One day, she told me that she suddenly figured it out because she saw a passage from the seventh grade of Viola in Weibo:
I went to the living room to set the table and looked around the rented residence, a small hall, a bedroom, a kitchen and a bathroom, which were small and exquisite, orderly, clean and full of life. I imagine the richness and loneliness of a person living here, and the triviality and sweetness of two people living here.
It turns out that traveling alone will be hard and stressful, but as long as you have the right attitude and know that everything you do is for the foreseeable future, if you suffer a little today, you may be able to taste the sweetness tomorrow.
The rented cabin can also be very warm, and there is not much time for cooking. Occasionally, you can give yourself some color to see.
Well, that's the one who can't cook. Her cooking is super exquisite.
I asked her when she began to like cooking.
She said independence is to enjoy life better and understand life, isn't it?
An independent girl knows how to be herself.
A girl backstage asked me: I work hard, but I still can't be a very powerful person in the end, and I will lose many friends. Is it not difficult?
Dear, you should know that even if you muddle along every day, you won't be really close to your friends, and you will lose many friends. Most of them will not choose to take you with them when they have money, because you have never helped them. When they are down and out, because you haven't worked hard, you may not be able to help these friends you want to keep.
Therefore, your independent struggle, bearing some loneliness, being kind to others and being kind to yourself are the best choices.
Zhang Haochen wrote a very good sentence:
Someone light up the world for you, someone blows away the dust in your heart. The more independent we are, the fewer important people there are. You are not sure when you will lose them. The only thing you can do is to be nice to the people around you and endure the dull and wonderful life.
Although the sparrow is small, it has all aspects.
As for, if you can't be a great person, be yourself and be an ordinary person worthy of being loved by life.
An independent girl will be her own queen.
In fact, there is no need to discuss the five independences separately, but it is broken and integrated into every part of life.
Just like your life, work and love, you need to have independent values, speculation and lifestyle coordination, and then gradually have your own unique charm. During this period, you really need to read a lot of books and learn to sum up, whether it's famous books, movies or any fragmentary information, it can enrich your soul.
Finally, to borrow a word from Zhang Xiaoxian:
Love him well, and then, live well. What keeps a person is never humble, but excellent and independent. Try to be a woman that anyone really wants to fall in love with.
For the rest of my life, I will be a five-pronged girl, try to be a queen who understands love and life, and try to be my own backer, and then I will be independent and at ease, okay?
Sentences about class motivation: learn to live and study.
1, be a powerful person, don't let your laziness hurt tomorrow.
2. Draw the most splendid life with lines and colors.
3. Details determine success or failure, and attitude determines everything.
4. Scores create brilliance, and sweat condenses strength.
5, good methods get twice the result with half the effort, good habits benefit for life.
6, the blade is sharpened, and the plum blossoms are bitter and cold.
7. Learning the sea is boundless, but you can cross it diligently. Scholar Wan Ren is determined to climb it.
8. Attitude determines the height, thinking determines the way out, and details are related to fate.
9. Do what you should do first, and then do what you like.
10, build the best class and be the best yourself.
1 1. Ambition begins in high school, and brilliant life begins today.
12, determined to be firm but not sharp, long-term unhappiness.
13, be polite, be diligent and frugal, and try your best to seize every minute.
14, sweat irrigates hope, and struggle determines fate.
15, children are determined to go to the countryside, or they will not return if they fail.
16, life may not be vigorous, but it should be beating the floor.
17, confident that life will be 200 years, and you will be able to hammer three thousand miles.
18, if you want to be true, you must study hard.
19, don't make excuses for failure, make excuses for success.
20. Step by step, step by step, one day, two days and three days.
2 1, writing a book of farming is nothing more than diligence and ambition to sail.
22, rigorous instead of sloppy, action instead of desire.
23, the industry is diligent, barren land; What I did was thought, but it was destroyed.
24. Competition is not about who works harder, but about who works harder.
25. Making gold requires a lot of hard work.
26, details determine success, and create brilliance bit by bit.
27. We make unremitting efforts for our dreams.
28. Strive to create miracles and write brilliantly.
29. Learn to live and challenge yourself until you succeed.
30. Be determined to grow up in Tsinghua campus, but not to study hard in clear lake.
3 1. I won't rest until I study Tsinghua. My heart is a magnet.
32. Today, you will suffer all your life and enjoy three years of happiness in the future.
33. The end of failure is the end of hard work, and it is glory.
34. Decide everything and get used to the future.
35. The weak wait for opportunities, the strong wait for opportunities, and the wise wait for opportunities.
36. Eight continents in Long Yin are ambitious, and the nine-day phoenix dance is ambitious.
37. Those who have achieved great things in the past are not only talented, but also have perseverance.
Be a powerful person and don't let today's laziness become tomorrow's pain.
39. Good habits make a lifetime, while bad habits ruin a person's future.
40, but for a long time, the harvest is subtle; Don't look around, focus on yourself.
4 1, ten years of lonely companion, once famous and happy.
42. Although things are small, they are not impossible; Although the Tao is near, it is impossible to do it.
43. You can't make a river without accumulating small streams, and you can't make a thousand miles without accumulating small steps.
44. Those who sow with tears will surely reap with a smile.
45. Don't make excuses for failure, just find reasons.
46. A person's life is long, but the key is only a few steps.
47, knowledge is not enough, but also should be applied; Desire alone is not enough, but also action.
48. Attitude determines everything, and habits make the future.
49. Today's efforts are the strength of tomorrow.
50. How many beats can there be in life? Not today. When?
5 1, ten years of obscurity, once famous all over the world.
52. The end of failure is success, and the end of effort is glory.
53. Strive to create strength, and attitude determines height.
54, tomorrow is tomorrow, how many tomorrows, I will wait for the bright moon, everything is in vain.
55. To achieve great things, do small things first.
56. Habits change fate, and details make life.
57. Every major event, the heart will be calm, calm down, and God will suddenly release.
58. Mind determines fate, and move forward with confidence.
59. Although it is hard, it takes a long time to blow out the yellow sand.
60. Strive to create brilliance, and the country decides its destiny.
6 1, life rehearsal, live broadcast every day.
62. Sowing life and harvesting habits; Sowing habits, harvesting character; Sow character and reap fate.
63. World events must be done in detail; Nothing in the world is difficult for one who sets his mind to it.
64. Tian Xingjian gentleman strives for self-improvement; A gentleman of topography carries things with virtue.
65. Work hard every minute, and diligence makes a genius; Accumulate the power of Artemisia, and the strength will create brilliance.
66. Little things make great things, and details make perfection.
67. People who have no determination will not have wisdom, and those who have no faith will fail.
68. You should know that learning is difficult and care about every bit.
69. Literature comes from diligence, and high marks come from hard work.
70. Actions speak louder than words, surpassing oneself, and knowledge enlightens wisdom.
7 1, my heart is a magnet. I won't rest until I study Tsinghua.
72. There is a way to get there, and the gold list will never come back.
73. Diligent housekeeping brings spring flowers and autumn fruits.
74. I am determined to go forward; The more frustrated, the braver, and make persistent efforts.
75. I believe I am excellent, and I work hard to succeed.
76. After the rainbow storm, we succeeded in the details.
77. A clear conscience, fearless confidence, invincible perseverance and no regrets in youth.
78, determined to be determined, success is not long.
79. Use habits and wisdom to create miracles, and exchange ideals and confidence for motivation.
80. Learn from hardships and be diligent in practice; Not afraid of shallow knowledge, but afraid of short ambitions.
8 1, minutes of cultivation, minutes of harvest.
82. Inspirational inspiration illuminates the fate of life and entrepreneurship.
83. You can't succeed without study, and you can't succeed without ambition.
84. Use habits and wisdom miracles, and use ideals and confidence to change motivation.
85. The weak wait for opportunities, the strong strive for opportunities, and the wise create opportunities.
86. Attitude determines fate, and self-confidence leads to success.
87. Every effort is the best closeness, and every drop of sweat is the nourishment of opportunity.
88, ten years of casting swords, just for perfection; Once drawn, it is an enduring sound.
89. Inspirational inspiration illuminates life, and entrepreneurship changes fate.
90. I am self-disciplined and confident that I can succeed without giving up.
9 1, how can I get a high score without freezing?
92. Teenagers struggle for life, don't waste time.
93. There is no rehearsal in life, and every day is live broadcast.
94. Tsinghua, Peking University, has a youthful heart, and birds are singing and flowers are fragrant in spring.
95. Overcome yourself and show your talents in the college entrance examination.
96, with hard work and persistence, for the spring and autumn.
97. The revolution has not yet succeeded, and comrades still need to work hard.
98. If you don't win the laurel, you won't return, for fear of haggard.
99. Fight to win, fight to win.
100, habits determine achievements, and details determine fate.
10 1, a person's life is long, but the key steps.
102, if you don't think twice, you will regret it. People can endure without worrying.
Learn to live alone.
Before you get married, you must have some time to yourself. You can be alone, face yourself, learn to take better care of yourself, learn to live alone more, get along with your loneliness, live in peace, and try to accept some people, which is much easier. Learn to look forward to life. Probably this is the best state I can imagine.
Learn to live alone.
1. Up to now, some people still think I'm seventeen or eighteen. Am I that small? It seems that I am really young. I am not in a hurry. I really can't hurry. Learn to live a quiet life alone.
Second, after all, learn to live alone. Maybe you should go out for a walk alone. Cure yourself of road blindness. Perhaps, in the future, Daling, you will also understand that there is not so much love and life in real life. After all, you have to find the right person to live with. After all, it is a commodity. In the future, maybe you will begin to understand that girls are looking for someone who loves them, not the feeling of dying.
Third, I gave without reservation, but I didn't get your respect and love. You won't learn to be strong for so long. Starting today, I will learn to live alone. Let's go
Fourth, learn to live alone, no matter whether someone around you loves you or not. Do what you should do, and treat it safely with or without love. Some things, when the time is up, will naturally understand, don't be too entangled. The saddest thing is not that others have offended you again, but that you always have a hard time with yourself.
5. One should learn to be self-respecting, self-loving, self-reliant and self-reliant.
6. Be a weak woman and learn to live alone, no matter whether someone loves you or not.
7. I'm leaving, this time alone. I'm not very happy, maybe because I'm not used to traveling alone. But it doesn't matter, just as I slowly learned to live alone, I can also learn to travel with friends.
Eight, so big, I still hope someone can share your joys and sorrows. I really think too much. Don't say anything, just keep it to yourself. After a long time, you forget. Learn to grow up and live alone.
I don't need your love when I grow up. I have learned to live alone, so I won't forgive anyone who betrays me.
Ten, if one person is perfect, then why do you want another perfect? Even if the perimeters of the two circles are different, they will be dumped sooner or later. So, smooth your edges and corners, learn to live alone, don't expect eternity, embark on a journey and find a lonely old age. Life is a performance of one person, and it has always been.
Learn to live alone, whether someone around you loves you or not. Do what you should do, and treat it safely with or without love. Good night, campus!
We always spend a lifetime learning how to live alone and how to become more independent. Learn to leave the people we love and those who love us slowly.
Thirteen, people always grow up, always learn to live alone, always have a person's ability. I don't know if I'm getting more and more independent or guilty. After walking for so long, I found that the only reliable thing is myself. Now I want to do one thing, learn to live alone, no matter whether someone around me loves me or not. Do what you should do, and treat it safely with or without love. Along the way for so many years, people around me have changed batch after batch, and none of them have existed for a long time. Live hard and live freely. Be sure to have everything you want, and strive to make yourself better, from ability to appearance. Well, I'm one year older. Come on!
14. I fell in front of the bathroom. My left kneecap was broken, bleeding, and my toe was twisted. I cried for nothing. I wanted to call my mother, but it was too late. I was afraid she would worry, so I held back. When I am sick and injured, I hope my mother is around. I want to spoil her, as if the wound would be less painful. But after all, you have to learn to live alone, and no one can accompany you all your life.
Fifteen, three years after graduation, I hardly thought about college life, nor did my friends scattered in various cities. The deepest experience I have gained in these three years is learning to live alone.
Sixteen, it's time to learn to live alone, don't care too much about others, and always grow up by yourself ~
Seventeen, although all this is not your fault, it is so cruel. You are an adult. You can't lose your temper recklessly, put all your emotions on your face and waste your time. You have to earn more money by yourself. You should know that staying up late is not good for your health. You must learn to live alone. After crying, you should learn to deal with those troubles. You must take on the responsibility of being an adult. I hope you won't recover soon.
Eighteen, learn to live alone, and occasionally learn to enjoy a life, calm down and think about what you want, what you pursue, and what can make you happy! Born lonely, learn to be happy, this is an ability!
19. Let yourself live a wonderful life. Learn to live alone, with or without love. When you think gold is more important than face, you are mature. When you can buy back your face with enough gold, you will succeed. Treat them safely, whether they are loved or not. This is a question of quality rather than quantity.
Twenty, I have learned and got used to living alone, cooking alone, watching movies alone, making money alone, living my favorite life, and being willing to give up, forget and let go.
Twenty-one, I will learn to live alone and go shopping alone. I won't deliberately find a friend who can talk to me. I hope you will always be with me.
Twenty-two, the future is still very long, you should learn to live alone and have a good life.
Twenty-three, love, this is something that would rather lack than abuse, and it is urgent. If you have love, you will treat it wholeheartedly. Without love, a person will be happy. Learn to live alone, whether someone around you loves you or not. Do what you have to do. When fate comes, reach for it. When fate doesn't come, let yourself live a wonderful life. Without fate, life will be wonderful; It is a wonderful life that attracts fate. Forward and share, live well and wait for love!
Twenty-four, give you the present state. Lose weight, exercise, love yourself, learn to live alone and go into battle lightly.
Twenty-five, very early and precocious children are very unhappy, not unhappy, but very unhappy. He learned to live alone or be alone very early, and then tried to make himself grow and move forward. He has probably been alone since high school. Loneliness has not dissipated for so many years. He has been looking around at passers-by, and no one dares to approach easily. The so-called distance really hurts
26. In order to be with you, I gave up the advice of the whole world. I thought we could help each other, but you relentlessly let go of my hand. No matter how hard I try, I can't get your persistence. After you leave, I will learn to live alone. I only hope that the reason why you left is not that you have a crush on others, at least let me know that the person I used to like is not love rat.
Twenty-seven, I must learn to live alone and live well! No one can help you weak people, don't stay up late and don't disturb anyone, wait until dawn to do what you should do. Have you ever found that people who miss you especially late at night are often people who will never see you again?
Learn to survive.
1. Friendship is like a bright light in my past life, shining on my soul and making my existence a little glorious. Ba Jin
2. People don't just live for love; Is the whole goal of a man to control a woman, and the whole goal of a woman is to control a man? Never! Aleksandr Herzen
3. Be prepared for danger in times of peace and avoid extravagance and waste. Ten thoughts on Wei Zhi's suggestion to Taizong.
4. Have a beginning and no end. The Book of Songs
5, people have no long-term worries, there must be near worries. The Analects of Confucius
6. The ultimate value of life lies in awakening and thinking, not just survival. Aristotle
7. Be safe without forgetting danger, live without forgetting death, and cure without forgetting chaos. I Ching
To be or not to be is a question. Shakespeare ()
9, many people are not enough to rely on, to survive only on their own. Napoleon
10, the ultimate value of life lies in being able to think clearly, not just living. Aristotle
1 1. Reputation is immeasurable and a magic weapon for survival and development. Li ka-shing
12, hardships, jade as jade. Zhang zai
13, if I can survive, of course I still have to study. Lu Xun
14, be prepared for danger in times of peace, and prosperity will inevitably lead to decline. the Book of the Han Dynasty
15. Worry and fatigue can rejuvenate the country, while leisure will lead to death. Ouyang Xiu
16, after the success of luxury, happiness is security and double danger. Wang Anshi