Many friends who like Vajrayana Bodhi and Xingyue Bodhi are too eager for quick success. They often like to fold a string of beads in their hands when they are free, and then rub the other side while swishing. Friends who often visit the market will also see many sellers coming to Bodhi in this way, and many people follow suit, which is actually misleading. Although Bodhi is strong, rubbing against each other will hurt its surface. If it is a string of bodhi, it will seriously lead to tooth loss. If a string of bodhi seeds is matched with beeswax, it will even wear the surface of beeswax. This needs attention. Are you jealous?
Second, avoid "rushing" walnuts.
When playing with walnuts, many people like to bump two walnuts together and then make a "squeaky" sound, which is very fun. Actually, it's not good to play walnuts like this. The tips of many natural walnuts are fragile, and it is easy to damage the beautiful tips when playing. Many people report that the "noise" produced by walnuts on the subway or bus is also annoying.
Three bogeys are still showing off.
Some friends who like Wan Wen love high-profile, but they don't pay much attention to their studies. Sometimes they will buy some cheap imitations and show them off everywhere. On the road, you can also see some men who wear huge "beeswax" beads and look at plastic from time to time, but they are proudly dressed. Wan Wen needs a low-key game, even if it is top grade, there is no need to show off. Instead of showing off, it can increase the connotation and make people admire and admire.
Four taboos derogate at the sight of strings.
Almost all people who play strings show contempt for those who don't pretend to understand. This is because this kind of gentleman often pretends to know a lot when someone shows him a good bracelet: "Oh, your lapis lazuli is dyed", "This beeswax is so yellow, it must have been baked", "This diamond is not baked well, it looks greasy" and so on. Anyway, it is derogatory at the sight of the string, as if it is not derogatory and does not show itself. " As we all know, if you don't know how to ask for advice with an open mind, you will gain more knowledge, and if you don't pretend to know for vanity, you will gain the contempt of others.
Five taboos of grabbing people's love casually.
A gentleman doesn't love others, which can be regarded as one of the maxims of friends who like Wan Wen. Some people saw a string of novice bracelets on their friends' hands, and at first they kept praising them, and then they began to make a fool of themselves until they put this string on their hands. This situation may be encountered by many friends and fall into a dilemma. Imagine that if you refuse on the spot, you will lose face; But if you give up something you love, the other person may not cherish it, but things that you regret afterwards will happen. In fact, if you really like it, you can buy it according to your own economic situation. What you want to come over seems cheap, but it may actually hurt your feelings. We should always reflect on whether we have taken away others' love casually. Cherish other people's gifts with gratitude.
Six, don't wear a string of rude words.
Many friends who wear beads will find that wearing them often can make their mood more peaceful and feel much better. Wearing Wan Wen can add literary flavor to yourself. However, in the market, we can sometimes see the partners in Wan Wen arguing and even fighting over a trivial matter. Here, we need to persuade everyone to restrain their emotions as a lover of all kinds of literature, so that life will be happier and Wan Wen will be more fun.