The real society is not the utopia we imagined, and opportunities are even rarer than giant pandas.
Reason and emotion are the most difficult problems in life. It is naive to cover up reason with emotion, and complete reason is a sign of empty talk and maturity. This is a sign that distinguishes the two. You can look at the problem with emotion, but you must solve it with reason.
When a person's ideal is only connected with the spiritual world of others by himself, he can really get rid of the bondage of material and low taste.
Gao Qi: Love is a wonderful thing. It is not so much a form of getting along with two people as a feeling in our hearts.
Sample: Agreed.
Gao Qi: Whether it is love or unrequited love, although the results are very different, we have all experienced the taste of love, sweet, sad and painful. What is the form in which we enjoy love?
Sample: Yes, I am lovelorn now, but I still have love.
Gao Qi: Why do you make love so unbearable because you can't satisfy it? Not love, but possession. Most people's love stays in the stage of possession, which is very primary, so there are so many entanglements, resentments and even mutual injuries. When the purpose of love is no longer possession, love is no longer related to the person you love. You can enjoy any form of love, which is the legendary my love has nothing to do with you.
The happiness of ants and ants together is to work together with the most handsome ant I think, for the grass in others' eyes and for the tree in our eyes. Happiness without pain is not good happiness.
There is a limit to what you can eat, wear and spend every day, but you must be happy.
Stay and imagine leaving your footprints in other people's spiritual fields, and many people will change their destiny because of you. This price cannot be equated with any currency.
Everyone has a personality, and no one is born to adapt to society. The environment is like a river. We are all stones in the river. At first, we all had different shapes, with horns on our heads and thorns on our bodies. After a long time, we were washed away by drinking water, and the horns and thorns were ground into circles.
10 We girls like the kind that is a little serious, but this kind of carelessness does not delay seriousness. Girls occasionally pursue stability, but not too stable. There should be a little restlessness in stability, but this restlessness cannot destroy stability.
1 1 Frustration can hit me, but it can't beat me ~ ~
Life has made me profound.
Frustration makes me grow, and experience makes me enrich.
The biggest thing in life is to do what you want to do.
Look at problems with sensibility and solve problems with reason.
13 Qian Zhongshu said.
Where there are many chickens and ducks, there is much dung.
Where there are many women, there are many words.
14 respect my family and give up the big principle for me again and again.
Let's drink to friendship. It gave me wings to dream.
To the invisible man behind the scenes.
15 I am not a casual flower, I want to bloom for my ideal!
16 silence is to brew a bigger outbreak.
17 disdain, out of reach, out of reach.
18 I'm young. If I don't work hard, who will?
19 if mistakes are the price of people's growth, then correcting mistakes is the process of people's maturity.
Errors and lies can be ignored in the face of ideals.
2 1 Economic base determines tall buildings.
If you can't even love, what can you carry away (Zhao Qing decided to get married after listening to the sample)
If we can't change the ending, then we should improve the process.
Marriage is a complete mistake, and divorce is to set things right.
It would be a pity if there were no emotions in life. See things with sensibility and solve things with reason.
Responsibility means sacrifice, no pain, no relaxation, no pain, no joy, happiness and misfortune are in contrast.
Why carry a turtle shell when it is clearly a snail?
Not all people succeed with results, and not all people fail without results. Success lies in the process; Fun is definitely not the last blow.
29. What's wrong with being small? We are all small, and we will never succeed as bulldozers. We have struggled for half our lives, and we are only a handful of people.
What do you think of happiness? Sample: Cats love fish, dogs love meat, and Altman loves to beat small monsters.
3 1 Happiness means working with the most handsome ant I think, for the grass in others' eyes and for the tree in our eyes.
Don't just watch thieves eat meat, don't watch thieves get beaten. Ambition is a good thing, but in ambition, making money should not be ranked first. You are only in your early twenties. You have food and shelter at home and no financial pressure. The first step to enter the society is to show off. Don't report if people are willing to give you a stage. When they admit that you are capable, the next step is to give you a chance to play. You just want to make money, and it's no use in the future. Find a job that you can do well and stand firm. The second step is to make money.
You are still young, and you will know your age when you talk about your personality in a few years: we are not one of our own, secularity is the way most people have to go, and responsibility is an obligation to be fulfilled sooner or later. If everyone does his part, society will naturally be harmonious.
We girls like the kind that is a little serious, but not delayed. Girls occasionally pursue stability, but not too stable. There should be a little restlessness in stability, but this restlessness cannot destroy stability.
Everyone just wants to leave their parents when they are young, as far away as possible. Before you know it, you will fly away and be separated from them by Qianshan. One day you suddenly turn around and find that no matter how far you go, there is always a line connecting you with them. At that time, your parents were old and their legs and feet were no longer neat. So you must turn around and go back to them. Unlike in the past, you became an adult and they became children. Everyone follows this trajectory, leaving, coming back, separating and getting together again. This is home.
Everyone has a personality, and no one is born to adapt to society. The environment is like a river. We are all stones in the river. At first, we all had different shapes, with horns on our heads and thorns on our bodies. After a long time, we were washed away by drinking water, and the horns and thorns were ground into circles.
Will I be rounded sooner or later?
Even if you are round, you are sharper than other stones.
37 people live in the world and have at least four social attributes: self-children, husbands or wives, and parents. These four roles will be played sooner or later. If each of us can take these four responsibilities to be perfect, then you will realize your personal value and indirectly contribute to this society. Most people can only do one or two of them well, and some people can't even do one well.
Reason and emotion are the most difficult problems in life. It is naive to cover up reason with emotions, and the general reason is empty talk. The sign of maturity is to separate the two. You can look at the problem with sensibility, but you must solve the problem with reason!
Because we are young, we all make mistakes. As long as we don't give up correction and remedy, we will never lose the opportunity of self-redemption.
When a person's ideal is only connected with the spiritual world of others by himself, he can really get rid of the bondage of material and low taste!
4 1 I'm not handsome, I have no skills, I don't earn much money, I'm heavily in debt, and I made a mistake. Will you marry me?
I'm not pretty, I only know Beijing opera and nursing, I just learned shorthand, and I've left you in debt and made you make mistakes, but will you still marry me?