When we hear someone else’s request, we can first agree with the other person’s point of view and eliminate the embarrassment caused by rejection.

Notes on communication

? (1) Speech and tone are very important. Sometimes the same sentence and the same meaning are expressed in different tones. Completely different taste. Therefore, you should pay attention to your tone when communicating with others.

? (2) Everyone is self-centered at heart and thinks that their own is right. When communicating with others, it is best to seek common ground. Not only can it show that you and him have the same views, opinions, and common sense, but it can also make him feel that it is easy to get along and communicate with you. ?

Two communication skills

(1) Everyone has their own desired "evaluation" in their hearts, hoping that others can understand and praise them. As a leader, you should provide encouragement and comfort in a timely manner, praise certain abilities of your subordinates, and guide them to sail with the current and work harder. Subtly turn the other person's "no" into a "yes."

(2) As the saying goes, put yourself in someone else’s shoes and compare your feelings with others. People have the same heart and the same principles. Many persuasion tasks encounter difficulties not because we fail to explain the truth clearly, but because the persuader and the person being persuaded stubbornly stick to their own positions and do not consider each other. If the position were changed, the person being persuaded might not "reject" the persuader, and persuasion and communication would be much easier.