It's not so much that others make you suffer, but that your self-cultivation is not enough.
If you don't give yourself trouble, others will never give you trouble. Because of my heart, I can't let go.
Only by knowing yourself, surrendering yourself and changing yourself can we change others.
People with deep karma are always looking at the shortcomings and deficiencies of others. A true man of practice never looks at the shortcomings and deficiencies of others.
Don't always be dissatisfied with others, but always review yourself. If you are dissatisfied with others, it is yourself who suffers.