Don't envy others' halo. While we envy others, maybe they are overwhelmed by the halo on their heads. In fact, God is fair. When he closes the door, he will also open a window for you. The first of the five life-changing sentences is: Excellence is a habit. This sentence was said by Aristotle, an ancient Greek philosopher. If Excellence is a habit, then laziness is also a habit. When a person is born, everything except temper is acquired, which is the result of family influence and education. Therefore, everything we say and do is a habit formed over time. Some of us have developed good habits, while others have developed bad habits. Therefore, from now on, we should turn Excellence into a habit, and let our excellent behavior become a habit and become our second nature. Let us habitually think creatively, habitually do things seriously, habitually be friendly to others, and habitually appreciate nature. Note: You should be able to "pack" and "pack" continuously. If you pretend for a long time, it will become true and become a habit. For example, you will arrive at the meeting on time every time. You pretend to see, you pretend for 30 years, and after a long time, it becomes a habit. The second sentence is: life is a process. Although the result of things is very important, the process of doing things is more important, because we will be happier with good results, but the process enriches our lives. The final result of a person's life must be death, so we can't say that our life is meaningless. There is almost no eternity in the world. It is not true that college students fall in love and swear every day that I will love you for life. Statistics show that 100 couples who fall in love with college students, 90 couples will eventually break up, and half of them will eventually get married. Do you think love can last forever? So the truest statement is: "Today, at this moment, I really love you." Maybe tomorrow you will be lovelorn. After lovelorn, we will experience the pain of lovelorn. This experience is also a process of enriching your life. Note: Life itself is meaningless, but you have given your life a meaning you want to achieve, so the process of enjoying life is a meaning. The third sentence is: the shortest distance between two points is not necessarily a straight line In the relationship between people, it is difficult for us to do things directly in the process of doing things. Sometimes you need to wait, sometimes you need cooperation, and sometimes you need skills. We will encounter many difficulties and obstacles in doing things. Sometimes we don't have to be formal or demanding. We can choose to bypass difficulties and obstacles. Maybe this will be smoother. Think about it, when we talk to others, we should decide which sentence is better. Especially in China, a complicated society, you should learn how to understand others and make them think that you are mature, so that you can do things well. Note: If you are taking a math exam, you must answer the shortest straight line between two points. If you walk, you can walk directly from A to B, but no one will leave. You'd better not go because there is a trap there. Working in China, linear thinking will hit a wall in many places. This is the fourth sentence with China characteristics: Only those who know how to stop can know how to speed up. When I ski, the biggest experience is that I can't stop. When I first started to learn skiing, I didn't hire a coach. It is easy to watch others ski. Isn't it just sliding from the top of the mountain to the bottom of the mountain? So I put on my skis and slipped down. As a result, I slipped from the top of the mountain to the bottom of the mountain, and actually rolled down the mountain and fell a lot. I found that I didn't know how to stop and keep my balance at all. Finally, I practiced repeatedly how to stop on snow and slopes. After practicing for a week, I finally learned to stop, slide and stop on any slope. At this time, I found that I could ski, and I dared to rush from the top of the mountain to the foot of the mountain. Because I know that if I want to stop, I can stop as soon as I turn around. As long as you can stop, you won't hit trees, stones or people, and you won't be killed. Therefore, only those who know how to stop can know how to move forward at high speed. Note: For example, BMW can climb 200 kilometers, while Chery can only climb 120 kilometers. Why? The engine is estimated to be equivalent. The difference lies in the braking system. You can't stop the car after 200 kilometers. Oh, my God! The fifth sentence is: giving up is a kind of wisdom, and defect is a kind of grace. When you have six apples, don't eat them all, because you eat all six apples, you only get six apples, and you only get one taste, that is, the taste of apples. If you take out five of the six apples for others to eat, it seems that you have lost five apples, but in fact you have gained the friendship and goodwill of the other five people. You can get more later. When others have other fruits, they will definitely share them with you. You will get an orange from this person and a pear from that person. In the end, you may get six different fruits, six different flavors, six different colors and six people's friendship. People must learn to exchange what you have for something more important and richer for you. So giving up is a kind of wisdom. Note: My personal principle is: Every giving up must be a sublimation, otherwise don't give up; Every choice must be a sublimation, otherwise don't choose. The greatest pleasure of being a man is to get what you want through struggle, so shortcomings mean that you can further improve, and deficiencies mean that you can make further efforts. There is a TV series in America about a rich man who left an inexhaustible legacy to his descendants. As a result, all his descendants became addicts, committed suicide, went to prison, or were mentally ill. Why is this happening? Because the rich man left a lot of money to his descendants, they could inherit a large fortune without labor. If you inherit a large fortune, you can buy almost anything. Therefore, when a person needs nothing, his living space is deprived. If we wake up every morning and feel that we still lack something today, we need to be more perfect and pursue something, how happy it is!