Gold is not enough, no one is perfect. There are many weaknesses in human nature, such as laziness, selfishness, greed and complacency. In a long life, a person's greatest achievement is to make his mind better than when he was born. This is also the task of life.
"Self-cultivation, keeping the family in order, governing the country and leveling the world" is the lifestyle pursued by Confucianism and the realm pursued by modern people. When we take a step, we need to conquer a mountain, and that is ourselves.
Self-denial is the expression of self-control. Self-control is not only material restraint of desire, but also spiritual self-control is very important for a person who wants to succeed.
Living in society, it is necessary for us to control our emotions and deal with problems rationally and objectively in order to better adapt to society and achieve success in our career. Feelings are precious, but you can't get emotional. If feelings can suddenly burst into the power of career success, then reason is the bridge to career success. Once emotion loses its rational restraint, it will inevitably lead people to the abyss of failure.
Self-denial is not only a virtue of human beings, but also can help us in the process of one's achievement. It is a law that there is a gain and a loss. Therefore, if a person wants to achieve hard-won success, he must make his own efforts.
A successful person should be a person who can control himself: he refrains from doing what everyone does but can't do rationally; Nobody did it, but he forced himself to do what he had to do. Whether to do or not to do, whether or not to be self-disciplined, is the factor of success.