1. Examples of friends in ancient times

Friendship between Guan and Bao

Guan Zhong and Bao Shuya were good friends. The two of them started a business partnership, but Guan Zhong contributed less capital and shared more profits. Bao Shuya knew that Guan Zhong was doing it to support his mother, not because of greed. Bao Shuya listened to Guan Zhong's advice, but failed. Bao Shuya thought it was the wrong timing, not Guan Zhong's incompetence. Guan Zhong escaped from the battle. Bao Shuya believed that Guan Zhong missed his mother, not because he was afraid of death; Guan Zhong was dismissed from office three times, and Bao Shuya believed that it was because the ruler was unclear, rather than because Guan Zhong was incapable of talent. After Duke Huan of Qi came to the throne, Bao Shuya strongly recommended Guan Zhong as prime minister to Duke Huan, and was willing to be placed under Guan Zhong. After Bao Shuya's death, Guan Zhong lamented in front of Bao Shuya's tomb: "My parents are the ones who gave birth to me, and Uncle Bao is the one who knows me." Later generations used the term "Guan Bao's acquaintance" to express the sincere and sincere friendship that does not change with things. 2. Asking for the story of two ancient friendships

Yu Boya threw his harp to thank his bosom friend

Lang said that he once shared Uncle Bao’s gold, but who could identify Boya’s harp?

Today, people are as treacherous as ghosts, and their hearts hang in the air over the lake and sea.

In ancient times, the most profound friendship was to take care of people. Guan is Guan Yiwu, and Bao is Bao Shuya. They are both businessmen and share the profits equally. At that time, Guan Yiwu took a lot of profits from him, but Shu Ya didn't think he was greedy and knew that he was poor. Later, when Guan Yiwu was imprisoned, Shu Ya got rid of him and recommended him as the prime minister. Such a friend is a true acquaintance. This acquaintance has several names and forms: those who are united in kindness and kindness are called confidants; those who are in tune with each other heart and soul are called bosom friends; those who seek each other's voice and energy are called bosom friends, and it is generally called mutual acquaintance. Today I am going to tell you a story about Yu Boya. Dear judges, those who want to listen should wash their ears and listen; those who do not want to listen, please do as you please. Exactly:

The bosom friend speaks and the bosom friend listens, it does not mean that the bosom friend does not talk to the bosom friend.

The friendship between Guan and Bao

During the Spring and Autumn Period, Guan Zhong and Bao Shuya of Qi State were good friends, but they each had their own affairs. Later, Xiaobai, the young master whom Bao Shuya served, was appointed as Duke Huan of Qi. However, Bao Shuya recommended Guan Zhong as prime minister to Duke Huan of Qi, and he was willing to serve under him. With the assistance of Guan Zhong, the state of Qi became increasingly powerful, and eventually became the overlord of "nine points of princes, one rule of the world". After his success, Guan Zhong said with emotion: "My parents are the ones who gave birth to me, and Bao Zi is the one who knows me."

Guan Ning cut off the throne

During the Eastern Han Dynasty, Guan Ning and Hua Xin People are classmates and friends. One day, the two of them were hoeing in the garden together and found a piece of gold in the ground. Guan Ning regarded the gold as a tile and kept hoeing, while Hua Xin picked up the gold and put it aside. Once again, the two of them were reading at the same table, and a dignitary passed by in a car. Guan Ning was not disturbed and could study as usual, but Hua Xin went out to watch, and was filled with envy. Guan Ning saw that Hua Xin and he were not really like-minded friends. Then they divided the seats and sat down separately. From then on, Hua Xin was no longer a friend.

Friends are more important than the number one scholar

When Bai Minzhong, a politician and writer in the Tang Dynasty, was a young man, he was very good friends with the free-spoken He Ba. The two went to the capital to take the imperial examination together. . Wang Qi, the examiner at that time, admired Bai Minzhong's talent and learning and wanted to take him as the number one scholar, but was dissatisfied with his association with He. So he sent someone to bring a letter to Bai Minzhong. Bai Minzhong really wanted to pass the exam, so he rejected He's letter, but he regretted it afterwards, so he ran out to chase He and told him what had happened, and then said: "What's so great about being the number one scholar? Isn't it more important than friends?" The two of them said. So they drank happily. When Wang Qi found out, he admitted them both.

True and false friends

Su Jun, a scholar of the Ming Dynasty, distinguished between true friends and false friends in "Cockcrow Occasionally". He pointed out that friends who strengthen each other morally and advise each other when they make mistakes are called "fearful friends". Whether in daily life or in critical moments, they can rely on each other for life and death. Such friends can be called close friends; those who cater to others with sweet words and eat and drink Friends who talk about friendship through fun are called "close friends"; people who compete with each other for interests and fight against each other when encountering disaster are "friends who are thieves".

3. Stories about friendship, famous quotes, ancient texts, and poems. Urgent need

"Farewell at the Jing Gate" Li Bai of the Tang Dynasty crossed the Jing Gate to travel from the Chu Kingdom. The mountains followed the plains, and the rivers flowed into the wilderness. . Flying mirror under the moon, the clouds are forming sea towers. I still feel sorry for the water of my hometown, and I see off my boat thousands of miles away. "Send Off a Friend" by Li Bai of the Tang Dynasty. Friendships between old friends at sunset. Wave your hands away, and the horses sing. Quotes about friendship. Friendship is the greatest joy in life. -- (English) Hume Friendship -- is the melody of pure life that makes youth colorful, and is extremely beautiful. Hymn of youth. --(Japanese) Daisaku Ikeda Friendship is a feeling of mutual attraction, so it is something that can be encountered but not sought. --Roland Without mutual respect, friendship is impossible. --(Soviet) Ma The life of the Kalenko people is inseparable from friendship, but it is not easy to obtain true friendship. It requires sowing with loyalty, watering with enthusiasm, and cultivating with principles. --(Su) Ostrovsky When friendship no longer grows, it will immediately begin to decline - a person's friendship will always retreat if it does not advance, and there is no static and balanced state between the two. - (U.S.) If Henry and James cannot forgive each other's petty Shortcomings cannot make friendship last forever. --(France) La Bruyère The strongest friendship is forged in times of adversity, just as pig iron can only be tempered into a pot in the fire. --(UK) Ke Loyal friendship is needed in times of happiness, especially in times of adversity. --(Ancient Rome) Seneca If friendship can adjust people's emotions, then another function of friendship is to enhance people's wisdom. . --(UK) Bacon Life is inseparable from friendship, but it is not easy to get true friendship; friendship always requires loyalty to sow seeds, enthusiasm to water, principles to cultivate, and understanding to care. --(Germany) ) Marx Sincere friendship is like health. You cannot appreciate its preciousness until it is lost. --(UK) Bacon In friendship, all thoughts, all wishes, and all hopes occur in silent joy without the need for words. And *** enjoyed it. --(Le) Gibran neither asked nor allowed others to do despicable things, as a principle of friendship. --(Ancient Rome) Cicero's gentle attitude towards a heart that was A person's contemptuous heart is indeed a great comfort. --(France) Romain and Roland bribe their friends with gifts, and they may also be bribed by others. --(English) Shakespeare have been together for a long time, sharing the joys and sorrows*** Only through adversity can we have an irresistible friend. --(Ancient Rome) Cicero The best effort in friendship is not to show our flaws to a friend, but to make him see his own flaws. --(France) Larochev Hypocritical friendship is like your shadow; when you are in the sun, it will follow you closely, but once you go to the dark place, it will immediately leave you. - (English) Bacon. 4. Famous ancient sayings and stories about "friends"

Mountains and flowing water Allusions to Boya's drum and harp Boya is a famous harp player who is very good at playing the harp, while Zhong Ziqi is good at appreciating music.

When Boya was playing the piano, he was thinking about climbing a high mountain. Zhong Ziqi said happily: "You played so well! I seem to have seen a towering mountain!" Boya thought about the flowing water again, and Zhong Ziqi said again: "You played so well! I seemed to see the vast river and sea. "Every time Boya thinks of something, Zhong Ziqi can understand what Boya is thinking from the sound of the piano.

Once, the two of them went to the north of Mount Tai to play together. When they were in the middle of the trip, it suddenly started raining heavily, so they came to take shelter under a big rock. Boya suddenly felt very sad. Sad, so I took out the piano I carried with me and started playing. It started with the sound of drizzle, and then the sound of mountains collapsing.

Every time he plays, Zhong Ziqi can hear the meaning of the sound.

Boya then put down the piano and sighed: "Okay, okay, your hearing can imagine the artistic conception I have when I play the piano, and the sound of my piano can't escape your hearing no matter what!" Later, Zhong Ziqi After he died of illness, Boya was very sad. He broke the harp and tore off the strings. He never played the harp again in his life because he felt that there was no other soulmate like Zhong Ziqi in the world who was worthy of his sacrifice. He played the piano.

Farewell to Dong Da Gao Shi Thousands of miles of yellow clouds and white sun, and the north wind blows wild geese and snow. Don’t worry about the road ahead without friends. No one in the world knows you.

[Notes] 1. Dong Da: Dong Tinglan, a famous piano player during the reign of Emperor Xuanzong of the Tang Dynasty. He ranked first among the brothers, so he was called "Dong Da".

2.曛: dim. 3. Jun: Refers to Dong Da.

[Brief Analysis] This is a farewell poem to the famous luther player Dong Tinglan. Hu music was popular during the prosperous Tang Dynasty, and not many people could appreciate ancient music such as the lyre.

Cui Jue said in a poem: "The five notes on the seven strings are cold, and it has been difficult to know the music since ancient times. Only Henan Fangcilu (the prime minister's official in the prosperous Tang Dynasty) always took pity on Dong Tinglan."

At this time, Gao Shi was also very frustrated and wandered around, often in poor and lowly situations (he wrote in "Farewell to Dong Da" No. 2: "My husband is poor and lowly, so we have no money to drink when we meet today.").

But in this farewell poem, Gao Shi used a cheerful mind and a heroic tone to make his farewell words passionate and inspiring. The first two sentences "Thousands of miles of yellow clouds are shining in the daytime, and the north wind is blowing the wild geese and the snow is falling." Use line drawing to describe the scene in front of you: the north wind is howling, the yellow sand is thousands of miles away, covering the sky and the sun, and everywhere is gray, so that the clouds seem to It has turned yellow, and the originally bright and dazzling sunlight has now faded, like the afterglow of the setting sun.

Heavy snow fell, and the geese flew south in neat formation. In this desolate and magnificent environment, the poet bid farewell to this musician who had unique skills but was not appreciated by anyone.

The last two sentences, "Don't worry about the future, you are ignorant, no one in the world will know you." They are a consolation to friends: Don't worry about not meeting your confidant when you go, no one in the world will not know you, Dong Tinglan! The words are so loud and powerful, full of confidence and strength in comfort, and inspire friends to work hard and fight hard. [About the author] Gao Shi (700?-765), a poet in the Tang Dynasty.

The courtesy name is Dafu and the other is Zhongwu. A native of Bohai Quan (xiu) (today's Cangxian County, Hebei Province), he once served as a regular attendant on the cavalry.

There is "Gao Changshi Ji". Guan Zhong and Bao Shuya were good friends in the Spring and Autumn Period. They were known as the "Friends of Guan and Bao" in history. It was said that they had a "meaning of mutual wealth".

The so-called "tongcai" means that when they cooperate in business, they never care about the amount of profit distribution, regardless of you and me. As the saying goes, "Brothers will settle accounts clearly." It can be seen that they are closer than brothers, which is not easy.

However, if the connotation of "Guan Bao's friendship" is only based on money, it would be too frivolous. Their friendship is extraordinary.

Guan Bao was from the state of Qi. At that time, the princes of the state of Qi were fighting for the throne, and civil strife broke out. Guan Zhong was appointed to assist Prince Jiu, while Bao Shuya was appointed to assist Prince Xiaobai.

Because their elder brother Xiang Gong was immoral, the two princes were forced to go into exile. Guan Zhong and Bao Shuya naturally followed their respective masters. Guan Zhong and Jiu fled to Lu, while Bao Shuya and Xiaobai fled to Ju. country. After the civil strife subsided, Prince Jiu and Prince Xiaobai competed with each other to return to Qi to seize power and ascend to the throne. Naturally, Guan and Bao had to be their own masters.

In the middle of the battle, Guan Zhong once shot an arrow at Xiaobai. This arrow was supposed to be fatal, but Xiaobai was lucky and the arrow was blocked by the belt hook on his abdomen. . In the end, Xiaobai and Bao Shuya returned to Qi first. From then on, Xiaobai was no longer called Xiaobai, but was called Duke Huan of Qi.

Prince Jiu and Guan Zhong had no choice but to return to the state of Lu to continue their political asylum. Later, Bao Shuya planned to kill Prince Jiu with the sword of Lu State, and "extradited" Guan Zhong back to Qi State.

In order to vent his hatred for Shegou, Duke Huan of Qi wanted to kill Guan Zhong, but Bao Shuya stopped him.

Bao Shuya told Duke Huan of Qi that Guan Zhong was a genius in governing the country. Not only could he not be killed, but he should also be reused.

At first Qi Huangong refused, but Bao Shuya said again: If you don’t want to achieve hegemony, then forget it. If you want to govern the country and seek hegemony, you must use Guan Zhong. I, Bao Shuya, am not as good as him.

So Guan Zhong became the prime minister of Qi. Guan Zhong was indeed a genius in governing the country. After taking office, he took care of state affairs in a lively and dramatic manner. Duke Huan of Qi only focused on drinking and playing with women every day, without having to worry about anything.

Over the past few years, Qi has become increasingly powerful in all aspects of politics, military, economy, etc., and even dominated the world. No one of the other four hegemons in the Spring and Autumn Period dared to act rashly, and wars between countries continued all year round. Therefore, the world was calmed down and stabilized for more than forty years, which was a miracle in the Spring and Autumn Period. No wonder Confucius said in amazement more than a hundred years later: Although Guan Zhong is small, my hair is left unknotted.

What is puzzling is that when Guan Zhong appointed important ministers, he never promoted Bao Shuya. Bao Shuya seemed not very proud of himself in Qi's political arena.

What is even more incredible is that before his death, Guan Zhong repeatedly asked Duke Huan of Qi not to let Bao Shuya inherit the throne. However, Guan Zhong was right. The only thing he could do to repay Bao Shuya in this life was to prevent Bao Shuya from inheriting the throne.

Because he knew very well that as soon as he died, Duke Huan of Qi would be finished, and Bao Shuya would also die a tragic death. Sure enough, in the second year after Guan Zhong's death, Duke Huan of Qi also died.

His five sons began to compete for the throne and attacked each other. Duke Huan of Qi's body lay in bed for sixty-seven days, covered with maggots and no one cared about it.

But Bao Shuya survived and escaped unscathed. This is the "friendship between Guan and Bao" in a profound sense, between Guan Zhong and Bao Shuya. 5. Classical Chinese stories about friends

1. The friendship between Guan and Bao ("Historical Records·Biography of Guan Yan")

I, Guan Zhongyi, was a native of Yingshang. When I was young, I often traveled with Uncle Bao, and Uncle Bao knew him as a wise man. Guan Zhong was poor and often bullied Uncle Bao. Uncle Bao eventually met him and ignored him. Now Uncle Bao is in charge of Qi Gongzi Xiaobai, and Guan Zhong is in charge of Gongzi Jiu. When Xiaobai was appointed as Duke Huan, the young master was killed and Guan Zhong was imprisoned. Uncle Bao then entered Guan Zhong. After Guan Zhong was appointed, he took charge of Qi. Duke Huan of Qi used hegemony to unite the nine princes and rule the world, which was Guan Zhong's plan.

Guan Zhong said: "When I was first in poverty, I tried to share the wealth with Uncle Bao and I would make a lot of profits. Uncle Bao didn't think I was greedy and knew that I was poor. I tried to work for Uncle Bao and became even poorer. , Uncle Bao doesn't think I'm a fool, I know the times are good and bad. He thinks that I am cowardly, knowing that I have an old mother. When the young master is defeated, he is summoned to death, and I am imprisoned and humiliated. Uncle Bao does not think of me as his wife, because he knows that I am not ashamed of small details, and I am ashamed that my fame will not be shown to the world. The parents who gave birth to me knew me. "Uncle Bao entered Guan Zhong and gave birth to me. His descendants were well-off in Qi, and they were granted fiefdoms for more than ten generations, often becoming famous officials. There are not many virtuous people like Guan Zhong in the world, but there are many like Uncle Bao who knows people well.

2. Boya Jue Xian ("Lu's Spring and Autumn Annals")

Boya is good at drums and harp, and Zhong Ziqi is good at listening. Boya played the harp and played the harp, aiming at high mountains. Zhong Ziqi said: "How good it is! It's as tall as Mount Tai!" His goal was on flowing water. Zhong Ziqi said: "How good it is. It's as vast as a river!" What Boya was thinking about, Zhong Ziqi said You must get it. When Ziqi died, Boya said that there would be no more music in the world. He would break the strings of his harp and never play the drum again for the rest of his life. 6. The story of ancient people making friends, in classical Chinese, thank you

The promise of chicken and millet

The scholar Zhang Shao, named Yuan Bo, was a native of Nancheng, Ruzhou during the reign of Emperor Ming of the Han Dynasty. He has been determined to study since childhood.

My younger brother Zhang Qintong works at home to support his sixty-year-old mother. When I went to Luoyang, the eastern capital, to take part in the examination, I met the scholar Shi Fan in an inn who was in danger of the epidemic.

Shizi Juqing is from Shanyang, Chuzhou, and is forty years old. Yuan Bo rescued Ju Qing when he was in danger, and the two formed a life-and-death relationship. Shi was the brother and Bo was the younger brother.

The two of them had missed the examination date. It was the Double Ninth Festival. They said goodbye and made an appointment to meet today at Yuan Bo's house next year. Yuan Bo promised to treat each other with chicken and millet.

Next year, Juqing will be tired of food and clothing at home, and will be busy and miserable. When the neighbor pays his salary and drinks wine, he will remember the promise of chicken and millet.

His heart was broken because they were thousands of miles apart and could not be reached in a day. Hearing the saying that "a person cannot travel a thousand miles with the sun, but the soul can travel a thousand miles", I went there specifically to die.

Uncle Yuan stood waiting all day long, and it was not until midnight that he came to meet Ju Qing, who was his soul! Later, Yuan Bo rushed to Shanyang and arrived in half a month. Seeing his brother's coffin, he also committed suicide and asked to be buried with him, repaying him with death.

The weight of the righteousness and covenant is life and death!

"Baidu Knows" 7. The story of ancient confidants

In the Spring and Autumn Period, there was a man named Boya who was proficient in music and had superb piano skills. He was a famous luther player at that time.

When Boya was young, he was smart and studious. He once studied with masters and his piano skills reached a certain level. However, he always felt that he could not express his feelings about various things superbly. After Boya's teacher knew his thoughts, he took him by boat to Penglai Island in the East China Sea and let him enjoy the scenery of nature and listen to the sound of the waves of the sea.

Bo Ya raised his eyes and looked up, and saw turbulent waves and splashing waves; seabirds flying and singing in his ears; mountains and forests, lush and green, as if they were in a fairyland. A wonderful feeling arises spontaneously, as if the harmonious and beautiful music of nature is playing in my ears.

He couldn't help but pick up the piano and play it, turning the notes at will, blending the beauty of nature into the sound of the piano. Boya experienced an unprecedented realm. The teacher told him: "You have learned it."

One night Boya took a boat trip. Facing the breeze and the bright moon, he had a lot of thoughts, so he played the piano again. The sound of the piano was melodious and gradually became better.

Suddenly I heard someone on the shore shouting. When Boya heard the sound and walked out of the boat, he saw a woodcutter standing on the shore. Knowing that this man was a close friend, he immediately asked the woodcutter to come on board and play for him enthusiastically.

Boya played a tune praising the mountains, and the woodcutter said: "It's so good! It's majestic and solemn, like Mount Tai reaching into the clouds!" When he played to express the surging waves, the woodcutter said He also said: "It's great! It's so vast and vast, it's like seeing rolling water and the boundless sea!" Boya was very excited and said excitedly: "Bosom friend! You are really my soulmate." This woodcutter was Zhong Ziqi.

From then on, the two became very good friends. The two of them respectively agreed to meet here again at this moment next year.

The next year, Boya went to the meeting as scheduled, but Ziqi didn't arrive after a long wait. So Boya followed the way Zhong Ziqi went home last time to look for him.

On the way, he met an old man who asked about Ziqi's home. After asking around, I found out that this old man was Ziqi's father.

The old man told Boya that Ziqi had to cut firewood and study. In addition, his family was poor and he fell ill from overwork. He had died half a month ago. When Ziqi passed away, he was worried that Boya would be waiting here for a long time, so he told the old man to inform Boya on this day.

I was heartbroken after hearing the news. He followed the old man to Ziqi's grave and played a zither song to mourn his close friend.

After finishing the song, he smashed the qin to pieces in front of Ziqi's grave and vowed never to play the qin again in his life.