Sisters have little basic problems before they get married, but they need to run in and transition again after they get married and get married. Keep a proper safe distance, get along with each other with gratitude, accept the other half chosen by the sisters and sincerely bless them, and rationally handle the situation that the relationship between sisters changes from personal relationship to family relationship.
Frankly speaking, it is very difficult, especially between brothers and sisters who have paid inequality! Perhaps before marriage, a brother or sister with better economic conditions unconditionally supports his brother or sister, without complaining or asking for anything in return, but in the long run, it is likely that the supported party will get used to it and feel that he should get paid by the other party.
When the paying party has its own family, it will not continue to pay for the younger brother or sister or pay less than before, and there will be many contradictions and even conflicts. And it is innocent for the paying party to marry or marry the person and lie down. Since then, chickens and dogs have been restless, and brotherhood has been exhausted in repeated conflicts until the giver is completely indifferent and has to end this brotherhood.
It is hateful for the demander to be ungrateful, but it is often the unprincipled tolerance and concession of the payer, which makes the demander take it for granted and fails to control the psychological expectation, which leads to a serious tilt of the balance between the two people and is likely to lose both sides in the end! For those who give, the most chilling thing is not only that they don't get any gratitude and return, but that the other party can forget the old feelings and destroy their hard-earned brotherhood.
In fact, that unhealthy brotherhood is doomed to collapse sooner or later! For the demanding party, it is also full of grievances! Once an elder brother or sister decided everything by herself, but after having more sisters-in-law or brother-in-law, she got nothing. She naturally bears a grudge against her sister-in-law or brother-in-law, and she will vent her dissatisfaction and resentment whenever she has the opportunity! It's no use letting others persuade you again! Because in the requester's mind, it is difficult to change the way that has long been accustomed to.
The coolest thing is the heart! Sometimes brothers and sisters are not as good as bosom friends. Not only can they not give warmth and care, but they may even abuse each other regardless of family ties because they are not fully satisfied. Speaking of that, forget it. It is difficult to change the unhealthy relationship forged for a long time. You don't have to force yourself to maintain, accept and face the reality frankly, draw a clear line and stop loss in time. Therefore, sisters should treat each other sincerely and take the initiative to help if they have difficulties.