In fact, we have to lose money early, and there is no chance to start again.
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I chatted with my friends late yesterday. When we are all very busy, it is very comforting to be able to be at a long distance in the dead of night, in the simplest words.
However, my friend doesn't seem to be feeling well recently. On the phone, I talked about my troubles.
My friend joined a design company after graduating from college. Because wet behind the ears, I touched a childish face. Work is not like study, and the company is not a school. Many ways of dealing with people need to be changed. If you are not careful, you will step on the restricted area.
Although it was difficult at first, my friend has been studying hard, and some small setbacks and grievances have been gnashing their teeth, but a recent incident touched his bottom line and the whole person broke out completely.
Recently, a company wanted to cooperate with them and asked them to help design a product promotion advertisement. The project is not small and the profit is quite high, so their manager mobilized everyone to brainstorm and seek the most creative and effective scheme.
Seriously, although my friend's qualifications are not very high, he does have high talent and sensitivity in this respect. As soon as he listened to the manager's introduction, he had a blueprint in his mind, but he felt that his idea was too rough, so he asked a senior in the company for advice.
Many times, young people always think that people are as simple as their eyes see. In fact, behind what we can't see, those complexities and ugliness will make us unbelievable.
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Yesterday, the manager called a friend to a meeting and said that a colleague had submitted a very creative and thoughtful plan for everyone to refer to and make suggestions.
When the manager opened the PPT presentation, his friend was suddenly at a loss. Why is this idea so similar to yourself? When the manager shouted out the names of the colleagues who submitted the plan, all kinds of questions and doubts suddenly became clear.
Isn't this a senior who consults and communicates with himself? Friends still remember that the senior praised him for his talent and encouraged him to continue to refuel. Why did it suddenly become his plan?
My friend knew that he had been cheated by this senior, so he went to talk to him after the meeting and wanted to ask what was going on, but he said, this is my plan and you said it was yours. Is there any evidence?
The angry friend went to the manager and told him about himself, but the manager only said, Fu Xiao, keep on cheering, there will be many opportunities in the future, and it will go away.
Over the years, my friend has been very smooth, without any major setbacks or major blows. In his impression, everyone should strive for it according to their own ability on the road of career. How can someone package others' achievements into their own works?
My friend knows that this project is very important. If a good scheme is enabled, there will definitely be many rewards, but he really doesn't care about the amount of rewards. He was angry that the most basic trust had been destroyed by others.
Later, my friend said on the phone that he was really too young, and his thoughts and experience could not keep up with the rhythm of society. This incident has made him grow up a lot. He believes that there will be more accidents than this in the future. He suffered once, so he won't be so stupid next time.
Between words, unspeakable helplessness and heaviness.
Everyone wants to live and work simply and happily, but it backfires too much. Some things can only grow through experience, and the cost may be very high, but this is the tuition that we have to pay on our way forward.
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It's still early to suffer. At least young people still have the courage and determination to go on. Pain and grievances will pass, and time will precipitate.
I still remember a classmate in high school who often sat in the last few rows and had a good relationship with each other. His family used to be quite rich. His father often ran business outside and made a lot of money, so he often invited us out to dinner on weekends at that time.
However, in the second semester of Senior Two, he suddenly dropped out of school and could not be contacted in various ways, so we had a good relationship and went to the class teacher to ask about the situation. But he understood. His father committed suicide by jumping off a building, and he chose to drop out of school.
At that time, we were still young and didn't quite understand the meaning. We only know that our classmates will have no father and will never come to school again. We are not very sensible, but our hearts are still very painful.
Later, we saw our classmate's mother come to school to help him with the withdrawal procedure. The beautiful aunt in the past lost her former appearance, gaunt face, unkempt hair and unspeakable vicissitudes in her eyes.
We went to ask about her classmates, and she told us that they had moved, no longer lived here, and went back to her parents' house, and her classmates followed, so they didn't go to school here.
In this way, our classmates completely lost contact with us.
Over time, from other people's words, I learned that my classmate's father and a Korean jointly set up a company, invested all his money and owed a lot of debts. Later, the Korean ran away and the company closed down. Creditors blocked his door for debt collection. Unable to bear the pressure, he chose to commit suicide by jumping off a building.
Infinitely sigh, once we were so envious of our classmates, saying that he had a good father, gave him so much pocket money and bought sneakers that we could only see on TV. He also said that his father has been running business outside these years and earned a lot of money every year. He had a smooth journey and had no major accidents.
Smooth sailing without suffering is not necessarily a good thing, because the flowers and plants in the greenhouse are too delicate to stand the wind and rain.
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Young people, we need to work hard, we need to fight hard, and we keep moving forward for our dreams. We have gained joy and sadness along the way, but these are all experiences and growth, and they are our most precious wealth.
Many times, people around us are always complaining about what they were cheated yesterday, what they were cheated today, and endless abuse. Actually, there is really no need to be so angry. You suffered these losses because you are too young and inexperienced to fall into the trap of others. But what's the harm? These are just things you should experience when you are young. It's silly. Youth is over.
Only by personal experience can we leave a deep memory and let the body remember the feeling of that moment. It doesn't matter how painful or sad it is. Everything will pass, but I hope these losses you have suffered will make you grow up and you will never forget them once. Don't just know the sadness of abusing the world. If you don't have a long memory, you will become a real fool.
I hope that when you walk in the world, you will practice a suit of armor. When you are old and vicissitudes of life, you will see that everything is weak and fragrant, and you will slowly say that it's no big deal, it's all small things.