Can feelings really be cultivated? Cultivate true love? Or is it just a responsibility?
In fact, what you said is right from your point of view, but from another point of view, feelings can be cultivated as long as you don't hate each other very much. Two people have been together for a long time, and gradually you will find the advantages of each other and you will have a good impression on each other. Not everyone is like this, but it is certain that even if two strangers live together for a long time, they will suddenly have feelings. One day, without one, they will feel unaccustomed! You're right. Two people together for a long time is affection, regardless of whether they have been in love before, they will eventually become affection! In fact, aren't two people who like each other very much together to be relatives of each other? Only relatives are the closest, and finally becoming relatives is actually the happiest! It is the most precious thing that people can live the rest of their lives and take care of each other until they are old! Whether you know each other before marriage or not, after a long time, it has finally become a habit and evolved into a family relationship. One day, a person dies of illness, and the other person will still be very sad! Will think of each other's good. Love won't last long. Love is actually a hormone, an impulse. . . An idea. . . So it will become a family after a long time! Only family is the most valuable! Good feeling is not an impulsive performance, but the result of long-term development! Only family is the most precious. . . . So I said that feelings can be cultivated! However, everyone has different ideas. Some people may be stubborn and only care about their own ideas. I respect everyone's ideas, so I don't criticize who is right or wrong. The answer varies from person to person! What many people say is very reasonable. Right and wrong are mostly judged by yourself. There is no right or wrong in everything, only what you think is right, then he must be right in your heart. You don't think it's right. It's no use saying it again.