1. Don’t engage in useless social relationships.

Meaningless social interaction seems to be a well-rounded and flourishing life, but in fact it is a waste of time and life.

2. Hemming and hawing is true love, and witty words are prey.

People must be very nervous in front of someone they really like but have not established a relationship with. Although they have thousands of words in their hearts, they may always be unable to express their meaning or express themselves coquettishly. This is fear. A self-defeating performance.

But if it starts with a series of earthy love words, each word is heartfelt, every sentence is sultry, and can make your heart flutter and your heart is full of joy, then he must have experienced many battles or does not care about the results. That's why.

When Jiang Taigong is fishing, those who wish will take the bait. As long as the net is cast widely, there will always be fish that take the bait.

Many people were hurt all over, and then they sighed and said in tears: He clearly said he would love me forever.

A man’s mouth is a liar. This is not an innocent disaster, it is seeking benevolence and gaining benevolence.

3. I am most afraid of the sudden silence in the air and the sudden concern of my friends.

Go to the Three Treasures Palace for nothing. If a person who hasn't contacted you for a long time suddenly comes to you and greets you with sincere greetings and cares about you, then he must be asking for something from you. So don't accept the other party's benefits easily at this time, otherwise it will be difficult to get off the horse when the time comes.

4. When you ask a person a question and he answers something different than what was asked, that is already the answer

When a person clearly hears the question, but the answer he gives has nothing to do with the question. Bian, this is a sign of avoiding you. If you continue to ask, it is a sign of low emotional intelligence.

So learning to observe words and emotions is the only way for people to grow.

5. If you look like you have something, you better actually have something.

A person must be good in some aspect or aspects throughout his life, otherwise he will be easily despised by others if he is just a person with great ambition and limited talent, who only sees a useless vase.

6. If you are not strong, the so-called relationship is a joke.

This is a materialistic society, and everything is based on the principle of equal exchange. The reason why people are willing to establish a relationship with you and maintain this relationship must be because they think they can use your money. The place can get certain benefits from you and grab certain profits.

But if you have no skills, no one will care about your life or death.

7. Don’t be a dog-licker, don’t be a dog-licker, don’t be a dog-licker.

Love is inherently unfair. If you make yourself humbler, take the other person too seriously, and openly express your feelings, the other person will definitely not cherish you.

If you lick it without a bottom line, you are not even a spare tire. The opposite sex relies on attraction, not on being shameless and putting down your dignity to lick.

Licking until the end, there is nothing left.

8. What destroys you is not the things you hate, but often the things you like.

If you are not playing games day and night, watching short videos, entertaining yourself to death and disdainful of it, then you will do this in the future when you are doing nothing and accomplishing nothing. Holding my head and crying.

Poor people must be hateful, so don’t regret that I didn’t warn you in the end.

Reading and studying, exercising and exercising, basing yourself on the present and planning for the future should never be something you dislike.

9. Learning to control one’s temper is the most direct manifestation of a person’s high emotional intelligence.

The simpler the mind, the worse the temper, because they spend all their time venting their emotions;

Only those who have ability and good character can achieve great things.

10. Only by doing things steadily can you make progress step by step.

Some people plan to lose 10 pounds in 15 days and speak fluent English in a month, but the plan fails because they rush too hard.

Life is a marathon, and the competition is the ability of long-term planning and self-discipline.

The faster you run in the early stage, the faster you will fall in the later stage. Winners are often those who continue to accumulate strength in the early stage, steadily increase speed in the mid-term, and only explode in the later stage.

11. It is really difficult to be friends if you have different views.

Because thoughts, experiences, and senses are all different.

Just like I said the sea is beautiful, but you said many people have drowned. What's so common about this? Continuing to get along will only make you feel tired.

12. In the face of great interests, the weight of family and friendship can be ignored.

In the face of interests, feelings are secondary.

People with the same interests and those you hate can become allies. Conflict of interest, no matter how close a friend is, can turn into an enemy.

13. Be yourself and never talk about a person behind others’ backs.

When you start talking about others behind their backs, you have already lost. Treat others as a topic of discussion, but others think you are not worth mentioning.

14. When you stop learning, rest on your laurels, and imprison yourself in a cage of muddling along, then you have taken a big step towards mediocrity

There is a phenomenon in psychology called "Status quo bias" means that the vast majority of people are comfortable with the status quo, do not want to make progress, and do not want to change, and the results of this are devastating.

15. If you are weak, don’t bear heavy burdens, and don’t persuade others with soft words

When you have not achieved certain achievements, don’t give advice easily to others, because more people will think you are farting. .

Others will think that you really have so many theoretical principles, why are you still mediocre?

This is also why the words of those who have succeeded are all wise words and contain the philosophy of life.

16. Don’t lose yourself in “praise and praise”.

Always recognize your own strength and position yourself correctly. Being self-aware will allow you to be praised by others on the road to growth without forgetting yourself.

On the contrary, if you forget your own path and direction because you often hear others praise you for how amazing and admirable you are, you will eventually fall into the abyss of eternal destruction.

Be high-spirited on the outside, humble and prudent on the inside.

17. An active person suddenly becomes quiet. He has either read a lot of books or experienced many people.

Life is full of seas, mountains and rivers, and growth is a lifelong subject. In fact, you and I understand many truths, but if we don’t experience, feel, and settle in person, no matter how much we understand, it will always be the same. It's just talk on paper, showy but not real.

Reading is really useful. If you read too many books, you will see all kinds of ups and downs in life, ugliness and struggle, vulgarity and vulgarity, haggardness and unwillingness, and all kinds of stories about the downfall of the world. No matter what you face from now on, it will be the dark passage you have already experienced in your heart.

Since you can’t experience it, then go study.

18. A little impatience will mess up a big plan, but you can't just tolerate it when things happen, otherwise you will suffer big losses.

A good horse will be ridden by others, and a good person will be bullied by others. Sometimes after weighing the pros and cons, we are willing to take a small loss, because this can make our interpersonal relationships better and others are more willing to be with us. Intercourse.

But you can’t keep your grievances in your heart for a long time and always let others take advantage. This will gradually make you develop a pleaser personality. You will become accustomed to submitting to compromises and submissiveness, forgetting that the original intention of tolerance is actually In order to seek greater development.

People, you have to be strong when you should be strong.

19. If you like it, you can follow it. If you hate it, you can choose to ignore it.

Sometimes you don’t need to get angry when you see something you don’t like, and then accuse it from the moral high ground.

Everyone is an ordinary person. There is no so-called saint in this world. Everyone has his own way of life.

If it’s not because it harms your interests that makes you furious, then you simply feel that the fire is not big enough. It is too much to just watch the excitement, and it is harmful to others and not beneficial to yourself.

If you don’t love, there is really no need to stand up and hurt.

20. The fireworks in the world are the most soothing to mortal hearts.

In life, we will always encounter things that bother us and make us feel depressed. At this time, if you have tried many scientific methods to solve them but with little success, you might as well go out and go to the busy city. Take a walk, take a look at the vendors walking in the streets, listen to the noisy shouts, an ordinary nod, an unintentional smile, sometimes it is really healing

If you have been really If you feel sleepy or tired, you might as well put down your work and go for a walk...