Resentments are not big or small, they are born from what you love, and there is no good or evil in things. Mistakes will lead to disaster. When parents' love for their children exceeds a certain limit, it becomes a disaster for the family. There is a folk saying that goes like this: spoiling a spoiled child is like killing a child, and pampering produces a rebellious child. It is human nature for parents to love their children, but they must not dote on them too much, otherwise they will suffer the consequences. There is an old saying: "A strict father will produce filial sons, and a loving mother will produce many children."