"It is virtue for a woman not to have talent?" This sentence actually had a great impact on women in feudal society, and the fundamental meaning of this sentence is that women can only truly do anything if they do not study. To the three obediences and four virtues, this actually reflects the oppression and contempt for women in the feudal society at that time. In fact, everyone is born equal. We cannot fundamentally oppose women and men. This society needs to be maintained by both women and men in order to truly achieve the society we long for.
And in this process, it actually showed a sense of restraint for women in the feudal society at that time. Women were regarded as vassals of men and could only farm and raise children at home. , taking care of the elderly. In fact, this fundamentally limits the possibility of women's development, and excessive reliance on men will actually cause them to lose their dignity and the meaning of life.
This actually reminds us that if we want to truly occupy a certain social status in society, we need to continuously improve our abilities in life to meet this social standard. No matter what kind of family and growth process we are in, we actually need to have our own career and be financially independent. Only in this way will we not cause unnecessary trouble. Although some elderly people may not be satisfied with this process. Their thoughts and ideas, but having your own life is the most important thing.
So this is actually a kind of culture, and it is a decadent and backward part of the culture. If we want the culture to continue to thrive and develop, we actually need each of us* We must work together and fundamentally abandon the existence of this concept that is inconsistent with reality. This process actually requires the efforts of every member of our society, and safeguarding their own interests is actually what everyone should do. Only in this way can the development of this society be stabilized.