1. Most girls like excellent and capable boys, and learning from excellent boys is very attractive to girls. Girls like to be protected, so you should study hard, let her see your ambition, let her know that you have lofty ideals and you work hard for your dreams. That's why men with rich experience and success are particularly attractive.

two: you'll never guess a girl's mind. If she has feelings for you, it can be reflected in her eyes, and she will be related to your study and care about everything about you. For example, she will keep playing and chatting with a boy. I'm happy and unhappy to tell you about her. Maybe it's not surprising that she wrote the person she likes in her diary and didn't know anything.

third, the girl is proud: she is with you, and she is under much greater pressure than you. It may be that it affects her study, or that she is afraid of teachers and parents, or that she is afraid of classmates' words.

Suggestions:

1. Speak out when you love someone, and let her know that someone likes her and is willing to make efforts to change for her, but the timing of confession should be grasped according to the situation, so don't regret it in the future. The most important thing is to think of her and remember not to affect her study. The college entrance examination is the most important.

two: maybe you can say it in a joking way, and if she doesn't want you to say it as a joke.

three: discuss the study problems with her. This can enhance feelings and is conducive to learning. You can also show some of your analytical and logical abilities.

four: remember not to do what she doesn't like and say what she doesn't like. Tell her jokes, humor is very attractive to girls, and you can relax your study.

Let me share my story with you, hoping to share it with you, so as to encourage students with similar troubles.

I fell in love with her at first sight when I was a freshman in high school. At that time, I didn't know that she was a sophomore in high school, and I had the same surname as her. She was one year older than me. At that time, I always slept in class and my academic performance was poor. At the beginning of the new semester of my second year of high school, when she was in the third year of high school, I saw her name on the dragon and tiger list of the third year of high school, and I was very excited. At the same time, I felt that I was not worthy of her because she was not so good as herself. I've been thinking all night. Where did I start studying? I secretly said to myself, "I want to be the first in the grade." My name will be on the dragon and tiger list then. Then I'll tell her that I like her. "

I often go for a walk in the ping-ping court on basketball occasions, because I know she likes watching basketball games and playing table tennis. Every time I see her, even the back. I'm happy too. Whenever I want to give up studying, I think about her. I am motivated to study when I think of her. In the second semester of my sophomore year, she was in senior three. I know that she studies very well and is a girl with ideals. At that time, I liked her faint smile, her yellowish hair and careless personality. I wrote a letter to her, saying that I would study hard and I like you, but I won't hinder your college entrance examination. I just want you to give me a photo of you. Haha, this is my first love letter. Of course, my classmate's phone number is left on it.

Girls will be happy if they are appreciated by boys, and she is no exception. I thought she wouldn't contact me, but by some miracle, she texted me. That day I felt that I was the happiest person in the world, and that feeling was the feeling of love. That's how I got her phone number. I send her a short message every Sunday, which is inspirational for the college entrance examination. At that time, my grades began to rise slowly. But I still dare not talk to her, because I am afraid it will distract her from her study, and I am a very shy boy. She blushes when she talks to a girl, so she has never seen me. I happened to ask her, so I went to her classroom corridor to sneak a look at her. Whenever I see her studying hard, I deeply understand that she likes excellent boys. So I must work hard. I was called the most diligent classmate by my classmates at that time. When I was a freshman in high school, I slept in class, and the teacher didn't want to take care of me, so the taste of unrequited love was great. )

Suddenly one day, she texted me that I should study hard and don't think about anything else, so I asked her about your ideal university. She texted "Come on, Shenda", so I wrote those words on my desk to motivate myself.

At the beginning of the second semester of my sophomore year, I waited for her at the gate of the afternoon dining hall (note: I often pay attention to her, so I know something about her learning to eat regularly), so I struck up a conversation. Haha, my face turned red at first, and she laughed at me. In fact, I don't coax girls, so I directly said a lot of things I like about her and asked her how to study to get good grades. I haven't said love, only like it, because I think love needs ability and economic foundation to take responsibility. I couldn't make money at that time, I couldn't give her happiness, and I didn't dare to say love, but I just want her to know that there is someone who likes her and is willing to change for her.

Let her know if you like someone, or you will regret it in the future. Remember not to hurt her, don't just think about yourself, and think more about her.

So I only talked to her face to face a few times before the college entrance examination. That year, she took the college entrance examination, and I was still a sophomore. On the day after the college entrance examination, I called her to ask her out. I said, will you wait for me for a year? She said directly that she wouldn't wait for me, and she didn't want to do anything without results. In the end, I only left one of her notebooks. That night, I looked at the beautiful handwriting on her notebook. I cried,,,,,, that was the first time I cried for a girl.

Because of my hard work, I entered a key class in Grade Three. At that time, there were 62 students in my class, and there were only 12 boys. I never thought I would be one of them. I still can't forget her. I miss her very much.,,,,,

I found a phone in the notebook she gave me at the end of the second semester of senior three. Anyway, I dialed it and it turned out to be her father's. In this way, I contacted her again (persistence is victory, as long as you don't give up, you won't fail), when she was a freshman in Guangqing.

I call her every Sunday night, and the content is that my study has improved again. I look forward to Sunday every day, and calling her is my happiest.

The senior three teacher asked us to write our own university to be tested on the wall, and I naturally wrote it, which was deep, big and eye-catching. The teacher also praised me and said that I was confident and worth learning from my classmates. But who knows, how much I miss her, how much I want to take a look at her, even in the back,,,,, < P > The night before the college entrance examination, I called her and asked her to sing a song for me. Ha ha, listen carefully,,,,, I said that after I became the boss, I asked you to be my secretary. At that time, her major was secretarial, and she smiled faintly on the other end of the phone. Maybe she thought I was joking, but I took it seriously.

I didn't contact her after the college entrance examination, because I knew she didn't like me. She just regarded me as her brother. (She has the same surname as me and is one year older than me.) She texted me and answered my phone just to inspire me. But I know I've tried to forget, but I can't. I think I'll be deeply impressed by her in the exam.

It's a pity that I didn't pass the exam. On the day when the college entrance examination was released, she sent me a text message asking me how I did in the exam. At that time, she sent me a text message for the first time and for the last time. I think she should be disappointed. I didn't keep my promise, and I haven't contacted her since. I put her in my heart, kept it in my heart and didn't go to her. I deleted all the short messages she sent me before and her phone number. However, whenever I see a couple holding hands in the street, I still inadvertently think of her, thinking of the scene that I have fantasized about countless times in my mind: I am holding her hand and walking on the campus of Shenzhen University. I didn't like it in school.,,,,,,

Later, I came to Guangzhou as a freshman. At that time, she was a sophomore. I was a senior in her former high school. I found her QQ and added her. I lied. I pretended to be a netizen and chatted with her. Suddenly one day, she said not to contact me in the future. I know who you are. In this way, she blacked me out, and later I could only learn something about her through her friends.

Our place is very mountainous. My alma mater is in Maoming Xinyi No.3 Middle School. I didn't have a mobile phone until after the college entrance examination. My uncle gave it to me, and then I had QQ. I used to borrow my classmate's mobile phone to send her a message and buy an IC card to make a phone call.

Last year, in October 211, the second month of my new term (September), I knew that she had a boyfriend.,,,,,, I forgot her again.,,,,

Now I am in the second semester of my freshman year, and I have to study for four years before I graduate. She is now a sophomore and will graduate after three years.

Every time I see a couple holding hands, I still think of my dream: I hold her hand on the road of Shenda,,,,,,

Many nights, I will think that my shy unrequited love turned into a unrequited love and finally a memory,,,,,,,

I still think of my promise to her: to be admitted to Shenda; The boss asked her to be my secretary.

Life goes on and dreams are still beautiful. Although you are not with me, I am glad that you have found happiness. Loving you means watching you smile, and loving you means making your life happy even if I didn't give it to you.

I sent her a short message after the 1-day swearing-in meeting of the college entrance examination:

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