From "Night Talk Around the Furnace, 154 Rules". When thinking about what you did in the morning and evening every day, you should not lose your morality and fail; Time goes by without looking back, but I still look forward to achieving something in my later years.
2. Educating children at an early age is easy to be aboveboard; Check your body and mind on weekdays, and don't worry about diligence.
From "Night Talk Around the Furnace: Item 1". Educate children to teach correctly from an early age, so that children can develop a cheerful and frank person; In daily life, medicine should reflect on itself, cultivate self-cultivation, and not be afraid of thrift. This article shows that children should be educated from an early age, and they should also have the spirit of self-reflection and always review their body and mind.
3. Be cautious, those who are enough to humiliate me should quit; Nourishing the heart must be indifferent, and anyone who is enough to tire my heart should not do it.
From "Night Talk Around the Furnace, Article 98". We must be careful to maintain our personal integrity, and we must put an end to anything that will damage our integrity; You must be indifferent to your own mind, and you can't do anything that can drag your mind down. The former needs to be vigilant at all times and abstain from all desires that may harm the body, while the latter needs to take a step back, because it is impossible for people to eliminate desires.
4. To make friends with friends, we must pay attention to his benefits in order to benefit; In the words of sages, it is necessary for me to do this at ordinary times in order to be a student.
From "Night Talk Around the Furnace: Case 2". Make friends and pay attention to their strengths in order to benefit from them; When reading the books of sages, we must set an example and practice more at ordinary times before we can really read on.
5. To be a well-behaved person who can't see the spirit, then he will appear as a puppet; Acting according to the rules, but not knowing the contingency, is also the same kind in a gourd.
From "Night Talk Around the Furnace". If a person strictly follows the rules and regulations, he has no independent spirit, just like a puppet manipulated on the stage; If you insist on copying the articles of association and regulations, but you don't know how to improvise, it is as rigid and inflexible as painting a gourd. At all times, rules are also, or social morality and behavior norms, which are the basic qualities that a person should have.
6. Everyone wants to talk, and Su Qin was killed because he could talk; Everyone wants to accumulate more money, but Shi Chong died because of accumulating more money.
From "Night Talk Around the Furnace". Everyone wants to be eloquent. Su Qin was killed for his eloquence. Everyone wants to accumulate more wealth. But Shi Chong was hated for his wealth, which led to his death.
7. It's a pity that the king didn't let go, but he didn't kill for no reason. Sages don't blame people's mistakes, but lure them to mend their ways, and Shu Ren's heart can return.
From "Night Talk Around the Furnace". The king will not release too much, nor will he kill for no reason. This can at least teach people to cherish life. A saint does not ask others not to make mistakes. Wisdom guides people to correct their mistakes in some ways, because only in this way can people be improved from evil.
8. There are not many tricks for the bitch to cry; Only when the town is quiet will it stop by itself.
A rude woman, letting him make noise and abuse, is just those tricks. As long as she thinks calmly and ignores him, she will naturally feel bored and stop.
9. People who are promising in ancient and modern times are not light; People who do good deeds in hard towns and villages are not knowledgeable people.
From "Night Talk Around the Furnace". From ancient times to the present, those scholars who have made a difference are not reckless people; In rural areas, people who like to meddle in other people's affairs are often people who know nothing.
10. Be smart and don't let it out. The ancients slapped their eyes with color. What's wrong with farming and reading? The ancients went out and lost, but entered and crossed the classics.
From "Night Talk Around the Furnace". Smart people need to know how to restrain themselves. The ancients used to plug their ears with cotton and cover their eyes with hats to hide their behavior. Farming and reading can be considered at the same time Some ancient people carried farm tools at night and read scriptures in their hands.