Sharing of the classic sayings and aphorisms of Mongolian education are as follows:

If a person cannot endure small things, how can he do big things? Zhu Xi said in "Analects of Confucius": "A small intolerance is like a woman's benevolence and an ordinary man's courage." "The courage of an ordinary man, if he cannot tolerate anger, can mess up a big plan."

Collection of maxims and proverbs In Yu Yi's "Zeng Guang Xian Wen", there are many mottos about how to behave in the world, the core idea of ??which is: "Those who cannot tolerate can't achieve great things."

There has always been a certain difference between reality and ideals. For thousands of years, the ancient sages and sages have taken the trouble to teach, but the world is so sophisticated and the warmth and coldness of the world have always been unavoidable, and we must learn to face it calmly.

1. If you have money, you will speak the truth, but if you don’t have money, you will not speak true. If you don’t believe it, just look at the wine at the banquet and serve the rich first.

People are classified into high and low status, and languages ??are also classified into high and low status. "If you have money, you speak the truth, but if you don't have money, you don't have the truth." Although this sentence is very tacky, it is indeed true. Although many people don't want to admit it, in fact they do it all the time.

If you have money and become famous, others will believe what you say and think it is true knowledge; if you live in poverty and have no money, no matter what you say, others will not believe it. I think you are talking nonsense and bragging. "The Analects of Confucius" says: "A gentleman does not use his words to promote others, and he does not use others to trash his words." But in fact, there are too few modest gentlemen.

The same paragraph is full of true knowledge, but when it comes from the mouth of a beggar and from the mouth of Jack Ma, there are two completely different conclusions. In fact, it is so powerful.

If you don’t believe it, you can go to the wine shop and have a look. It’s really the rich who are served first, and those who have no money and power. At most, they are just green leaves as a foil. There is no one at all. care about you. Therefore, as the saying goes: "If you don't have money, don't join the crowd; if you are in trouble, don't look for relatives." This is experience sharing!

2. There are many brothers when there is tea and wine, but you never see one person in times of crisis.

The true brotherhood is not like old friends at first sight, nor is it achieved overnight. It is only cultivated slowly in a life of helping each other. If you respect me a foot, I will respect you a foot; if you show kindness to me, I will repay you with a spring; you can go through fire and water for me, and I will stab you in every possible way. To put it bluntly, "You know the pines and cypresses when the weather is cold, and a true friend is revealed in times of adversity." This is true brotherhood and true affection.

As for those friends at the dinner table, most of them are just playing around, taking advantage of each other, drinking and drinking, thinking only about personal interests, and it is difficult to make true friends.

When we usually drink and have tea, we have many friends and are very happy, but when we encounter a crisis, we can't find any of these friends. Therefore, making friends is not about making many friends, but about making friends. As the saying goes, "A thousand pieces of gold are easy to get, but a confidant is hard to find." As long as you can have a confidant in your life, you should be satisfied.

3. The poor live in the busy city and no one cares about them, while the rich live in the mountains and have distant relatives.

If you are a poor person, even if you are in a busy city, no one will care about you; if you are a rich man, even if you are hiding in the mountains, you will attract people.

The ancient sages told us: "Virtue is the foundation, wealth is the end." Virtue is the root of being a human being, and money and wealth are only the most peripheral things. But the reality is that many relationships between relatives and friends are all based on interests. Although this is not worth imitating, pursuing advantages and avoiding disadvantages is also the fearlessness of the ignorant. We still have to learn to understand and face it, and everything will fall into place. good.