1. When you are not strong enough, everything you do is just a joke to others.

2. Trying to please others in a humble way will only lead to others being ignored. Only your own strength can earn others' attention to you, and only equal treatment can earn you true respect.

3. Don’t be more than 60% drunk when drinking, don’t be more than 70% full when eating, and don’t be more than 80% in love with your lover. But most people usually get drunk, eat too much, and fall in love like fools. The end result is that they vomit all over their bodies, gain a lot of flesh, and are abandoned!

4. Men like women’s pretty faces, and women like men’s sweet words, so women learn to put on makeup and men learn to lie.

5. When I grow up, I realize that sometimes when you tell the truth, you have to apologize to others because you exposed the truth. So if you want to live smoothly, please always bring your brain.

6. No matter how traitorous Cao Cao is, he always has close friends, and no matter how good Liu Bei is, he always has a mortal enemy. Don't care too much about other people's evaluation of you, be yourself, do your own thing well, and follow your own path. Living in the eyes of others is the saddest thing in the world.

7. The so-called gap between ideal and reality is that when you pick it up, you think it is a piece of meat, but when you bite it, you realize that it is actually a piece of ginger.

8. Don’t get to know anyone too quickly. Don’t think that the topics are the same at the beginning. You may have many things in common, and you will be close friends who met each other so late. Words are often fake, but what we experience together is real.

9. Sometimes, when looking at people, don’t use your eyes to look at them. It’s easy to misunderstand, and don’t listen with your ears, because it may be a lie. As long as you use time and feel it with your heart, it can't be true or false.

10. If you succeed, eating green vegetables is called maintaining health; if you fail, eating green vegetables is called shabby. This is not chicken soup, this is reality!

11. Those who make irresponsible remarks and fabricate stories about you behind your back have three reasons: they are not at your level, they don’t have what you have, and they have failed to imitate your lifestyle.

12. Only when it rains will you know who will give you an umbrella; only when you are in trouble will you know who is sincere to you. Some people will only add icing on the cake and will not provide help in times of need; some people will only add fuel to the fire and will not be honest with each other.

13. When you buy, just buy, don’t compare prices; when you eat, eat, don’t regret it; when you love it, just love it, don’t doubt it; when it’s gone, let it go, don’t slander it.

14. If you have had an operation, you will know that taking medicine is not painful at all. If you have fallen hard, you will know that a scratched skin is not worth crying. If you have been betrayed, you will know that a fight is not worth it. Words don't hurt true feelings.

15. Human nature is ugly and cannot stand the test. You think that those people you have helped will at least show compassion when you are in trouble, but often these people are the ones who are most likely to add insult to injury. ——Yang Jialing's "Red Coral Necklace"

16. Make money! Without money, what can you do to protect your family, support your love, and maintain your friendship? Do you rely on your words? Stop making trouble, everyone is busy.

17. Everything is done in moderation. If you are too kind, you will lack the heart; if you are too humble, you will be weak. If you are too generous and tolerant in everything, others will not appreciate you, but will become worse. Being too kind is also a kind of stupidity.

18. In life, there are no obstacles that cannot be overcome, and there are no people that we cannot live without. Some difficulties will be over once you endure them; some people will be cruel and forgotten; some hatred will be gone with a smile; don’t always blame someone, if you are good enough, how could you be the one left behind? people.

19. When you are at the top, how many people look up to you; when you are at the bottom, how many people belittle you; when benefits are attracted, how many people follow you; when benefits are cut off, how many people abandon you.

20. An enemy becomes a friend and is more reliable than a friend; a friend becomes an enemy and is more dangerous than an enemy. It’s good to know some things and there’s no need to say more. Some people are just as easy to get to know each other as there is no need to have deep friendships with them.

21. When you are alive, you don’t need to understand everything. If the water is extremely clear, there will be no fish; if the water is extremely clear, there will be no friends. Compete with your family, and if you lose, the family relationship is gone; compete with your lover, and if you lose, the relationship fades; compete with friends, and if you lose, the friendship is gone. What we fight is reason, what we lose is love, and what we hurt is ourselves.

22. Most of the people who are easily angered are the weak, because only the weak will show off their strength, and the strong often know how to show weakness. In the same way, being mean is due to a weak foundation, and being bitter is due to a sour heart.

23. Don’t tell anyone your secrets without any scruples, because every time you reveal your heart may become a guide for others to poke at your weaknesses at some point in the future.

24. When you are hungry, some people will give you half of the steamed buns. This is friendship. Some people will let you eat the steamed buns first. This is love. Some people will give you half of the steamed buns. Giving you all the steamed buns is family affection. Some people will hide the steamed buns and tell you that they are hungry too. This is society.

25. The reason why you live an unhappy life is probably because you are always intermittently complacent and continue to wait for death. You can neither tolerate your current state nor the ability to change it.

26. One day you will understand that maintaining a long-term and comfortable relationship between people depends on sex and attraction, rather than oppression, flattery and blind giving. And morally bound self-movement.

27. You help someone 100%, but one day you are only willing to help 80%, he will empty out all your kindness, and would rather choose to be friends with someone who only helps him 70%. A grain of rice feeds a benefactor, a stone of rice feeds an enemy. Don't give everything you have at every turn, keep some pride and heartache for yourself, remember, nothing can be more cold than the heart of a person.

28. When you fail, there will be a group of people around you who care about you. They will ask you what happened, listen to your failure experience, and then leave with satisfaction.

29. This is a realistic society, relationships cannot be eaten, and poor couples suffer from everything. Don't believe the storyline in the movie, it's just a place for many strangers to express their emotions. Only irrational and unrealistic people believe it.

30. Rich people like to say "Money is not everything", good-looking people like to say "What's the use of being good-looking", and thin people like to say "Actually, it's better to be fatter and healthier". Work hard. People like to say "Effort is not the decisive factor." They just talk casually, these are all routines, but you seriously believe them.