Father and son have been brothers for many years, which is an essay written by Wang Zengqi in 1 September, 9901. In this article, a simple description shows us the image of a father who is extremely smart and very smart in parenting. Among them, what attracts me most is Wang Fu's concept of parenting. Father and son have been brothers for many years, which is the famous saying of Wang Zengqi's father. It is also his guiding principle in raising children.
The author said at the beginning that father and son have been brothers for many years. On how to be a father, Mr. Lu Xun wrote an article at the end, saying that the duty of a father is to carry the traditional burden, carry the dark door and let them go to a wide and bright place; After that, live happily and be a reasonable person.
The so-called burden of conformity is the patriarchal ideology that has been circulating for thousands of years. The so-called "secret door" is the feudal ethics that has been circulating for thousands of years. The father has paid so much, and there is only one requirement for his children, that is, "live a happy life and be a reasonable person." A father does not require his son to have a successful career, honor his ancestors and become a master. As long as you are happy, healthy and reasonable, you can.
Wang Zengqi's father, smart and easy-going, often praises him and doesn't force him to do anything. My father can draw, but he doesn't ask Wang Zengqi to become a painter. Can write, but does not require Wang Zengqi to become a calligrapher; Can play musical instruments, but does not require Wang Zengqi to become a musician; He doesn't insist that Wang Zengqi be the first in every subject, so let nature take its course.
On Wang Zengqi's masterpiece "Father and Son Became Brothers for Many Years"
Wang Zengqi said that when people are alive, they have to be a little interesting. Writing, drawing and cooking are all daily life. We should join the WTO to practice and enjoy the world of mortals. Don't be depressed, have no purpose, and worry less. There is love in the heart, light in the eyes, understanding of the world and interesting life, which increases the thickness of life and makes the soul interesting.
Wang Zengqi said that people should love something when they are alive. It's hard enough to eat, wear, live and travel, so we should try our best to make the plain life better. Give the soul a home and make the inner world colorful, healthy and sound. When you really love something, your life will gradually change and your mood will gradually get better.