The most classic sentence of the projective analysis theory taught to us by Teacher Yue in class is: "Look at others with your own glasses." This is the projection shown when people interact with each other. The same applies when we interact with the world, we see it through our own glasses. The world is originally one, but in everyone's eyes it is so colorful and three-dimensional, just like there are one hundred Hamlets for one hundred readers.
Let me first make an assumption: If every quote on the Happiness Power Poker Cards was personally selected and classified by Teacher Yue. If this assumption holds true, then something interesting is about to happen.
? The subconscious mind is omnipresent because it is a part of us, but most of the time it is not realized. Every thought, every word, every choice we have has some shadow of our own unconsciousness in it. In other words, every famous quote that Teacher Yue chose, every choice he made, and why he chose this famous quote instead of that one, there is a trace of Teacher Yue hidden behind it. And what the subconscious presents to us in the end must be what you pay attention to. This attention can be simply divided into two categories: first, it may be something you have and value very much; second, it may be something you are missing and long for in your heart. Well, now let’s take a look at Teacher Yue’s Happiness Power Playing Cards. For each poker card from A to K, Mr. Yue selected a famous quote and classified it. There are 13 categories, which are 13 keywords. I sorted out the order of these 13 keywords. I have a story in my mind. First, list these 13 words as follows: care, empathy, communication, resilience, optimism, courage, hope, humor, innovation, confidence, courage, forgiveness, and gratitude. Arranged in this order (the order has been adjusted by me), such a story emerged in my mind:
There is such a boy, the background of his life is love, which is similar to his childhood. It is related to the tolerance and safety given to him by his parents. He values ??empathy and communication and considers them very important. He is also a person with great empathy, good at empathy and constructive communication. It hasn't always been smooth sailing for him, and he has faced adversity. In the face of adversity, he remained optimistic and gathered courage, believing that "crisis" has both "danger" and "opportunity", and believed that "the biggest fear is fear itself." The experience of overcoming adversity and success gave him optimism, He has a brave spirit and a deep understanding of the power of hope. As Nietzsche said, "Strong hope is a greater stimulant than any joy in life." He also has a sense of humor, which may be related to his sublimation in adversity. related. He strives to innovate in his life and work, trying to simplify complex things to "change with the times and with vulgarity." He is confident. This confidence stems from repeated breakthroughs in adversity since childhood. Perhaps he hoped that he could be more decisive when doing certain things; he was also thinking about the theme of life "forgiveness". Hugo said, "The noblest revenge is tolerance", which made him think deeply. Looking back on this life, if I had to sum it up in two words, it would probably be "gratitude". I would be grateful for everything I have experienced and everything I have.
If this story is about Teacher Yue’s projection of the world, you may also ask, is there any projection of yours in it? The answer is yes. Every choice carries our own shadow, and our subconscious is like a shadow, accompanying us like a shadow. By the way, in Teacher Yue’s eyes, the world is beautiful. In my eyes, Teacher Yue is beautiful. We all project and projectively identify with these beautiful things. Therefore, Teacher Yue is willing to work hard for this world and lead us to explore the psychological field together; therefore, I am also willing to follow Teacher Yue to explore who I am.
(Written after returning from the ground class of "Yue Xiaodong Basic Skills Elite Study Class" in Beijing, in Shenzhen.
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December 22, 2016