There is a famous saying by Sai Johnson that an example has a good appeal. In family education, parents' words and deeds are the best education for children. The same bad behavior habits and bad expressions will be fully absorbed by the child and accompany him for life. The "double standard" education of Chinese parents is having many negative effects on children.

Let the children go back to their rooms to do their homework, while the parents themselves are lying on the sofa watching TV and playing with their mobile phones. Let the children go to bed on time, but they catch up with the drama until five in the morning. Children are not allowed to swear, but they often have "angry road syndrome" in traffic jams, swearing, or "exporting dirty" in front of children regardless of the occasion.

When children are dissatisfied with their parents' behavior and want to be treated equally, parents strongly retort: "I am an adult! You are a child! You should listen to what I say. There are so many reasons! " As everyone knows, such irresponsible and unreasonable answers will cause serious psychological harm to children and lead to a series of problems for children. In fact, all kinds of situations similar to the above are common among parents in China nowadays, and netizens also named it "Double Standard".

Chinese parents are used to talking about their unfinished dreams and imposing them on their children. Specifically, it is to turn this regret into the expectation of their children's success. Most of these parents have ordinary abilities in their careers and work, and they have no great pursuit. However, they adopt high standards and strict requirements for their children in life and study, and they must put everything first, otherwise they will fail to live up to expectations. Paternalistic parents in China are caught in the anxiety cycle of their own paintings, constantly comparing with their relatives and friends around them. They are not as good as others, and they are resentful, but they are unable to change the status quo and gradually form a restrained and depressed personality. They often compare other people's children with their own children. When they see that their neighbor's children got 1 points in the exam, they criticize their children and ask their children to get 1 points next time. I feel that I have no chance, and children are my way out.